Not sure how to say/ask this without a bit of background, but I'll keep it as short as I can. 21, kiss less virgin who could not make words form when giving an order to waitresses in sit down restaurants who decided to change that about 2 months ago. I've read hours upon hours of material here and elsewhere on the Internet because my job allows a lot of downtime, and it has helped some. I can now give my order to a good-looking waitress and even say hello to women I find attractive in public without always stumbling over words and making an ass of myself. My problem lies in anything further. I can't take it up anymore than bullshit small talk, even in a strip club full of "hired guns." I'm so bad off that I've had dancers ask "are you okay? Are you having fun?" right in the middle of them being on stage. I've read quite a few articles and posts about how to do it, but I haven't found how to make myself do it. I'm willing to hear out pretty much anything at this point.