Lately, I have met a lot of guys who have spent a long time accumulating tons of Game-related knowledge, yet are stuck. They might have discovered The Game/Seddit years ago, but they have made VERY LITTLE progress in the last several months.

And though they have different limiting beliefs (which are a very important obstacle to overcome) I tend to notice CONSISTENT pattens in how they go out . . .

Specifically, the way the practice and internalize the material (or fail to) almost assures they get no better.

Here is my breakdown of how to get ACTUALLY get better if you've been stuck:

  • Stop drinking
  • Get a coherent, complete framework (Magic Bullets, BLueprint, Kickassery, Mystery Method, whatever). The point here is not to memorize the lines. The point is to have a sense of the journey you need to take.
  • Identify WHERE in the framework you get stuck. Not specific lines, but at which phase (i.e. Attraction, Qualification). If it is multiple phases start with the earliest.
  • Develop ONE specific habit/tactic for that phase ("Oh my god, we're getting divorced. You keep the kids. I'll take the yachts . . .")
  • At home, practice OUT LOUD that specific habit. Say it until it is totally in your body. Incorporate the physicality/tonality you will need.
  • Pre-determine your goal for the night. This should match what you've been practicing at home.
  • Set a goal to use your new habit 5x per night, 3 nights per week.
  • Do not judge the night by whether or not things "go well." Judge it by whether or not you complete your goal of 5 attempts

Full article is here if you want to go in depth