I’m having a problem setting casual dates and/or Netflix and chill for the first date. I’m in college, and I’m approaching about 1 woman a day. Whenever we become close, I always ask to go to the movies, arcade, etc. These are fun, but harder to f-close on I’ve found. Maybe I’m just not escalating enough. I wish I could just ask “Hey want to come over my place some night this week?”. Do you have any advice on how to get these kind of first dates?

Considerations: 1. I live 25 min away from campus 2. Not in frat, don’t have time for parties 3. 9/10 looks

I feel like girls will say no if I ask for just Netflix and chill. Any advice on this?