Hi Seddit,

So for a year now I've been working on my "game" (meaning I got myself an exciting and balanced lifestyle, and got out of the cave that was social anxiety).

I have no problems talking to girls, cold approaching, joking around, setting up dates and being vulnerable.

However, I have to admit that kino is a problem for be, mainly because I focus on conversation and trying to make the girl feel good so much (yea, I'm pretty much in my head) that I forget to let my body do the talking.

Moreover, I have a really big difficulty conveying my sexual interest. I am naturally a very sexual person and sex means a lot to me, because it shows a deep connection and comfort with someone.

In my head, I am the one possessing a huge amount of sexual energy, and everyone I talk to thinks sex is taboo, and I have to convince them to have sex with me. I know that sex is a normal thing, but deep down my subconscious always tells me it's wrong and that expressing myself sexually is not acceptable.

I am aware that this merely a manifestation of a deeper issue, but how can I tackle it? Should I resort to therapy? Can I do something else about it?

Thanks!