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Hello seddit. Another question here.

Zeke_the1and0nly · 2014-09-26T08:40:30+00:00

I have been on r/seduction for quite sometime on and off, and I have gotten pretty confident as far as the things I have learned from here. I still need more...

Zeke_the1and0nly

September 26, 2014

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Title	Hello seddit. Another question here.
Author	Zeke_the1and0nly
Upvotes	0
Comments	2
Date	September 26, 2014 8:40 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2higam/hello_seddit_another_question_here/
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[–]Psych40 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Zeke_the1and0nly[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol I always knew I'd give out advice eventually to seddit, but everyone was once a beginner and it just takes practice (and then again I'm no pro).

A little side story to the answer, I've been single for sometime (and basically you've read the opening post), but a good example of "safe kino," well starting off with a bad example, would not be just flat touching her boobs (unless she wants you to ;). For example I was hanging out with some friends and we were all playing a 4 player video game (super smash brothers) and we're all pretty baked but we were waiting for her to press start in her controller to go back to the character select (lol she had a play station controller in her hand, with the GameCube controller in her lap). She is a woman in a hopefully long committed relationship, and yeah she's pretty attractive, but bad kino would of been just reaching to her crotch and picking up the controller:

1) because she's married 2) we haven't really know each other for that long for it to be friendly 3) I try to be just friends with her and limit my polite, but flirty, conversations

An example of good of my personal kino comes into a little power play. I usually:

1) wait til I'm served up for a compliment or flattering remark (don't be afraid to even say it out of the blue) 2) always make eye contact and smile (very important) 3) slowly place hands on her arm, shoulder, or (critical hit) her hand

*Don't be too slowly with reaching out, just try to make it seem natural, and there no better natural way to do that besides doing it naturally (just do it, don't think about how she would react to it). 😅 I've kind of been practicing on a specific girl at work (one that I find cute, but it is mainly for when I build up enough guts to perform it on the girl(s) that I like/ is really interested in

TL:DR; 1) Practice polite conversation ie. use compliments and/or cheesy, but, flattering lines (girls love humor) 2) tip (1) is best served up with eye contact and a genuine smile (it wouldn't hurt to mean what you say) 3) be yourself, have fun, and don't let rejection discourage you (I kind of use it to my advantage sometimes, I'll make a joking reference as saying she likes to break my heart)

P.s. (Other side info doesn't hurt) but try not to chase, I feel like that can either be your greatest weapon and greatest...well...anti-weapon (sometimes show that she isn't the only one you can be attracted to). But yeah dude just be yourself and just go for it, women love confidence. Good Luck!^{.^}