How goes it dudes. I'm alright in the looks department. Id say 8/10 or something, workout, aesthetics, take care of myself etc. But my game is shit. lol. I'm 31 years old, going on 32! Was in relationship for 3 years. me and my gf became loners together.

we stopped putting ourselves out there, or doing social things and depended on each other too much; finally split realized we need to improve our own lives.

. Point is, I needs ya'lls help gentleman. I been taking small steps to get out of the house. Instead of coming straight home from work, I was hanging out at the park.

I'm a decent looking guy. 6'2. in shape. workout, take care of myself. on good days, get a lot of chicks looking at me. just depends on my mood. on bad days, i get zip. all in all, I have terrible flirting skills. actually i have none. lol.

started a new job. was vibing with a customer girl. getting some practice, y'know; my superviser comes in and cock blocks the shit out of me. "DERPEDPERPE DEPR EP PE RPED EPREREDE RPER" - wtf was that shit?

Hanging out at the mall. Trying to figure out how to do this shit. First off, right off the bat, I don't get any IOI's. Once and a while I do. Prolly my energy. Not sure. I'm taking small steps tryina figure out how would one go about approaching.

Also what are good appropriate places to make conversation and also.. what would you suggest for a 32 year old guy to go ? obviously mall is more the younger crowd and I'm not into 20 year olds + truth is I think they would get creeped out LOL.

Like yesteray I was at the park and I busted out my guitar and started to strum it. The thing is I don't do it for attention

1.) If I were to go home straight from work I would get super fkin' depressed.

2.) When I am at the park and around people, I feel like I'm at least "doing something about it" by just being around other people, even if I don't talk to anyone

3.) the guitar relaxes me

So basically I was getting chicks looking at me and stuff. But y'know they were far away and some kinda young. I don't wanna get up and walk over and be like

HEY HOW YOU DOING THERE WHATS GOIGNG ONON GONEGI 4N GO2HGUOEWGEHW

y'know shit like that.

anyway thats a bit about me.

I went out today to jus walk around the mall. made small talk with some guy at gas station about cars so that was cool and unexpected. just trying to plug back into existence.

I'm stickin to my own age range but not sure what to do. I know some of you have mad skills with the ladies. PLease share. Thanks for reading.

p.s.

i want to thank ya'll for giving me advice in my earlier post. I think joining a group, well i was thinking about that before i even came here, some kind of activity group! Because i know that it forces me to interact with people and somtimes ladies.. and when i am forced to interact with ladies on common mutual grounds (lately it's been work) - i notice that I do pretty damn well with them..

It's just crossing that line between casual conversation and -> "wanna hang out some times?" - lol thats the hard part. well not hard, but hard if you havn't asked a chick out in years lol.

anyway, yes I need to get involved in a group. thanks for advice guys you guys rock.