Help a 32 year old guy out. Some question and experiences.

mcrf7 · 2016-12-01T03:45:59+00:00

I'm 33. Men get more attractive as they age. George Clooney is a good example.

monkeyman114 · 2016-12-01T05:10:16+00:00

32 is a great age, you're mature and yet your body hasn't fallen apart yet (when you hit 40 you will know what I mean). Women like older men, and you're not "old" as in creepy old yet, enjoy it.

RespondsWithImprov · 2016-12-01T06:35:15+00:00

I'm 32. It goes well. Don't think small. You are a kid to an 80 year old. I meet new people all the time

ImChrisBrown · 2016-12-01T08:01:19+00:00

I live in a ski town of 8,000 people, the ratio is absolutely awful (an honest 4:1 guy:girl). I'm currently in Stockholm and the talent is blowing my mind. That said, go where the talent is. I don't even bother with local chicks back home because I know they've all blown my friends, I'll only run game on visitors. Go to the nicer neighborhoods and meet fly women there, don't bother where there's not opportunity.

You'll do plenty fine. Read models and be willing to get out there

msmiitz · 2016-12-01T14:35:43+00:00

My advice would be to find somebody you trust and is skilled at talking to women and try and learn their ways. Preferably somebody your age, as that might eliminate any limiting beliefs you may have about yourself and what you can achieve.

jdotmill · 2016-12-02T07:45:27+00:00

31-33 were probably my best years, you have a wide spectrum of women available to you, don't be afraid to go for the younger ones, they're fun, if you mentally think of yourself as a creep for talking to a woman between 19-22 it's going to hurt your chances. Dated a 19 y.o. Russian (hb 9.5) for a year when I was 32. Women like men in that age bracket, don't think of yourself as a creep, just go after the ones you like, they will seriously only think of age as an issue if you bring it up. Bonus points since you still look young, stay in shape and you have a big advantage over someone that's 25/26 because women will know you'll age well and won't turn into a fat slob when you turn 30

woodycanuck · 2016-12-02T19:34:53+00:00

You weren't attracted to "women your own age". You were attracted to women in their early twenties. And you still are. IMO women at that age are objectively more attractive, that's all. There is no billion dollar industry to help 20 year-old women look 30+, after all...

Murfdigidy · 2016-12-01T04:12:23+00:00

30 year old men are at the absolute most attractive age, unlike women where 20s is their peak sexual appeal, men in their 30s are at theirs. 2 months is nothing, seducing takes months/years to learn and you're always learning...it's like lifting weights, no one looks like the rock in a month of weight lifting, guys like that it took years, same goes for seduction. Keep reading this sub, read the sidebar and the books they suggest. Or YouTube many PUAs out there, find your style and keep reading that style as you get better and better

_TurnuptheSun_ · 2016-12-01T23:34:02+00:00

Progress is going to be slow when you're starting out. But like you said, there is something that will awaken inside you if you just keep pushing your comfort zone and get those valuable reference experiences. Make sure to challenge yourself by opening groups and mixed sets, and definitely definitely definitely start taking field report to help you identify and overcome sticking points. They'll also help you track your progress and can be rewarding to look at later. Here's one I wrote a while ago:

Number of interactions: 5 solo(ish) 2 mixed sets Things I did well: I went to a house party stone cold sober. I opened a lot of sets, including a mixed group with two girls and a guy. The girls laughed at my jokes and at I got two numbers and a date next week. Sticking points: I was getting a lot of IOIs from one gorgeous girl initially, but after about 10 minutes of the conversation petered out. I wasn't man to woman enough in set and I didn't know how escalate the conversation because her hotness made me nervous - I came across as too polite. What I'll do better next time: I will escalate more assertively verbally/physically in set, calibrating after the fact.

Something like that.

The beauty of field reports I've found it way easier to root out sticking points to work on (in this case, escalating). Now that I've identified the problem, I can look for ways to escalate better and take them infield. This is where the RSD videos and seddit sidebar stuff will be useful for you.. The theory stuff you'll learn will supplement your infield experience and help you overcome sticking points. As for gaming younger girls, this guy's video should give you some pointers about what good game looks like: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mmf8lXP6nw tl;dr Focus on going out a lot and getting references experiences. Make field reports to identify problems, then use online resources to overcome them.

Title	Help a 32 year old guy out. Some question and experiences.
Author	ShadowWade
Upvotes	25
Comments	19
Date	December 1, 2016 3:30 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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