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1

Be careful her boyfriend may be hiding in the closet and they will rob you. Suggest a neutral location for a meetup
/r/seduction04/01/17 07:38 AM
1

Why do PUA "experts" always dress like that?
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:40 PM
1

As I said, text her proposing a face to face. "Lets talk about this" should be sufficient, women know what this means. It means you're serious.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:44 AM
1

Mutual friends are good intermediaries.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:24 AM
2

A kiss is not a close, don't think of it as one. Instead remember that touch is more important than kiss-closing. You start with hands, move to shoulders, waist and so on. If she keeps holding your hand and wants to maintain physical contact with you, most likely you're in regardless of a kiss or not. Some girls consider an out of the blue kiss an intrusion, other girls don't even consider a kiss in a club very intimate, especially if they're drunk and just want some lip action or an ego boost a…
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:22 AM
2

Text her, ask what she's doing. Take her places, remember your "anniversary" (1st date) so you can give her a gift for the 6 month or 3 month or whatever. Make sure you dress well for dates with her, don't take her to dinner wearing cargo shorts and flip flops while she's all dressed up.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:21 AM
1

Suggest a meeting, don't have this conversation in a text chat.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:19 AM
7

Try David Wygant's stuff instead, Mystery is way out of date and frankly the man is autistic. His in the field videos are a joke, he seems to do better at picking up guys than women.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:18 AM
1

Exactly how many women have you approached? its a numbers game. Unless you're greek god handsome you will have a high rejection rate in any case.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:08 AM
2

Bouncer time, you aren't ratting on them, its their behavior that gets them kicked out of the club. Clubs have rules and when you enter you accept all the rules, and they do too.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:59 PM
2

It does but the timing is critical, once you get her attention from your inattention, its time to swoop in and reward her interest.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:48 PM
3

Girlfriend came over, we ate steak, got drunk and fucked.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:46 PM
1

Route 66 is always good.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:44 PM
2

If you fuck a woman really well, she will always come back for more. If you just banged her for 2 minutes and got dressed, don't expect to see her again.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:44 PM
2

You can't win if you don't play.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:39 PM
2

Sex is the whole experience from start to finish, not just the penis in the vagina stroking. The most important thing as a man is be in control, you are telling the tale, creating the romantic environment for her to enjoy herself in. Small talk is important, having a proper, neat and clean bedroom to have sex in is important, knowing how to open a wine bottle, what kind of music to play, how to act around her (give her attention) is important. Sex has to last longer than 10 minutes or she will s…
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:38 PM
1

Dumb girls tend to be naive, but at least they're honest. Nothing wrong with them, just stop talking about outer space and politics and talk about something they're more familar with like shoes, the latest fashions from Wet Seal, and why the Kardashians are so slutty.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:33 PM
24

Text her this: AY YO GURL, LEMME HOLLA AT YA, U WANT SUM FUK?
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:31 PM
1

Well at least you didn't get friendzoned...by a prostitute.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:29 PM
1

Make yourself unavailable for awhile. You have to get her to chase you, and take advantage of the human need to taste forbidden fruit. Women are just like men, they want what they can't have.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:28 PM
1

I sure hope you did kiss her, dude.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:24 PM
-1

If you have mommy issues, get them out of the way first.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:23 PM
4

If you really liked being a loner you wouldn't have posted this question.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:20 PM
10

Some women get nervous and say the opposite of what they mean. I know that sounds like creeper talk but its true. It applies mainly to shy girls, and they will reinforce it with things like "I will be dating other guys" or "I don't want a relationship". the important thing is to just call her out and say "You can date all the guys you want, but once you've had me you won't want any other guys" or some other kind of brag. Its playful and fun. So unless she literally orders you out the door of her…
/r/seduction31/12/16 06:57 PM
0

You're only 20, buck up kid. Come back when you hit 50 before you complain.
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:05 PM
1

Geez that guys voice is like nails on a blackboard
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:58 PM
1

Both are fixable.
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:56 PM
2

Sounds like she picked you up. Glad to see you didn't cockblock yourself.
/r/seduction28/12/16 05:15 PM
3

Work on your OCD therapy first. Once you can manage that you can do better with women, because OCD causes extreme stress which can bleed over into your dealings with females. Exposure therapy is pretty much the same for OCD and for dealing with fear of women.....you have to manage your stress level and bring it down from a 10 to something manageable like a 5. One last thing, libidio really doesn't have anything to do with wanting to be with a woman. Wanting a GF is an emotional need, nothing wro…
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:30 AM
1

You should always be friendly to her friends, if you diss her friends you are basically demonstrating you're an a-hole, maybe that was why she was testing you and her friends were "screening" you. YOU LOSE, GOOD DAY SIR.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:26 AM
7

touch is important. I once was quietly getting closer to a girl at a party by simply hooking pinkies with her under a throw pillow while sitting on the couch, basically telling her "we're gonna be doing stuff later...get ready". They love that idea they are being given attention in secret. The whole idea though is to later relocate to a safer more secure location away from the rest, preferably my crib.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:23 AM
0

I've dated 3 girls from my office, ain't no big thang. Its easy to not be that creeper guy who bothers chicks at the copy machine. Just be subtle and when she says no she means no.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:19 AM
1

Girls get asked out a lot, guys don't. Its 250,000 years of evolution, deal with it, its never going to change. Guys approach, girls don't. Its baked into our genes. So girls have to reject, a lot. They're the holders of the gene pool's future so they will be picky.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:17 AM
1

Skinny is actually trendy, just make sure to wear clothing that takes advantage of your narrow waist (to make sure your shoulders look more broad.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:15 AM
1

Friendzoning is just that, being friendly and nothing more. If you're not even friendly then just block her.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:14 AM
-6

Get a sled and haul her around on it to places you know. She will be impressed with your strength and stamina and will reward you with sex.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:13 AM
5

Which guitar will get you laid?
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:10 AM
0

You may not believe this but it actually worked for me once.
/r/seduction25/12/16 07:29 AM
11

If he's gay, then yes its just a friendly gesture.
/r/seduction25/12/16 03:46 AM
1

I've seen some really wierd shit in clubs. Unless he actually assaulted you there's not much you can do. Just maintain situational awareness, some guys get pretty hostile when drunk.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:29 AM
1

If a girl really likes you she will MAKE TIME for you.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:27 AM
1

Lay off, say she can contact you in January. If she doesn't, move on.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:26 AM
2

You're building rapport. Keep it up. Women need comfort before they will risk showing their interest in a guy.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:25 AM
1

Wear those knit caps. Don't drink and smoke, it makes your hair go bye bye.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:24 AM
0

Lay off the weed
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:23 AM
3

Sam Elliott
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:22 AM
4

Be up front about it.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:22 AM
5

If he gave you a gift, you're already in and don't know it yet.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:21 AM
-37

"Its Christmas, why haven't we had sex yet?"
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:12 AM
3

Totally not the Shallow Hal taxicab pickup...
/r/seduction23/12/16 05:14 PM
1

Try tulips.
/r/seduction23/12/16 06:50 AM
0

Ok, well I thought you already knew her to some degree. I figured if you have already fucked a girl, sending her a tiny gift is hardly stalking.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:21 AM
1

Why would you be at a bachelorette party? Show up with no shirt but have a black bowtie on. Don't ever hit on the bride to be, thats just sick. I just ask simple questions, who is getting married, is she being a good girl (not), etc...don't lick the penis pops though.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:11 AM
-1

Okay, well don't use my advice. The important thing is if you want to keep her thinking about you, you need to keep reminding her about you. A tiny gift (not expensive) achieves this effect without making her feel obligated. You're trying to make a closer connection with her I'm assuming. If you are content with pump and dump, well okay.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:09 AM
1

Women generally will look at you 3+ times if they're interested. Just a single glance doesn't mean much.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:06 AM
1

She was with a guy. There's no way you can figure out how strong their relationship is.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:03 AM
1

Get more involved in her, ask about her job issues, she may need to vent. Sounds like she's busy looking for a new job (it is a #1 priority for most people). Offer to help or at least see what you can do.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:01 AM
-2

Send her small gifts every week or so.
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:55 AM
6

Don't let it bother you. Some girls like jailbait.
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:55 AM
0

Orchids are like death flowers. Stick to a rose. Yellow if friendship, red if love, different colors in a bouquet if you want to be different. Don't go overboard with a dozen, stick to 1-3. Put a note in there, identify yourself, don't write in a novel about how you are obsessed with her. Just put something simple. "Thinking about you", "Hey there girl", "Yo dawg I heard you like flowers".
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:53 AM
11

Suggest menage a tois. She will get disgusted with you and break up, her friend however will be intrigued, and she will hook up with your because you're so kinky.
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:46 AM
3

Creepy!
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:32 AM
14

I know a guy thats a beta male, his wife "hangs out" with another dude at work all the time while he sits in his cubicle and cucks all day. Do you really want to be that guy?
/r/seduction22/12/16 08:38 PM
3

Some girls need the ego boost of male attention. I've had a girl who texted me, talked about how hot I looked and even called me because 'she was in town'. Turns out she had zero interest in me but loved my attention.
/r/seduction22/12/16 05:02 AM
3

Sometimes a less attractive girl has a hot friend. Making connections always works in your favor eventually.
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:05 PM
2

Quit rating girls, you're not an insurance adjuster. Talk to them, you don't really know what you want in a girl until you get to actually know her.
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:04 PM
1

Plenty of short girls in the world. 5'2" is about perfect for a woman IMHO.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:59 PM
1

Well, its a goal at least. Why do you like much younger girls, do you have a predatory instinct within you of taking advantage of naivete? Not sure thats very healthy.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:56 PM
1

Sounds like you already fell for her PUA
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:53 PM
0

Women don't really want muscles, the jersey shore look only appeals to a tiny fraction of women. Dress well, groom, and wear nice shoes. Guys completely ignore their feet, women notice shoes. Thats why you don't wear crocs, flip-flops or dirty disgusting sneakers when you're out looking for women.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:51 PM
1

This applies to all dating, not just Tinder.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:44 AM
1

Take a college course with a lot of girls in it. One of the hottest girls I knew was in a literature class.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:43 AM
1

Fuck a fat girl, they feel a lot better in bed than you would think.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:39 AM
1

Just don't say anything that lessens yourself, like "I thought you were amazing and I had to talk to you". It is self-demaning.
/r/seduction18/12/16 10:59 PM
3

Tip #1: Don't get drunk, it ruins your game. In fact don't even drink. I will just have a glass of OJ and call it a screwdriver.
/r/seduction18/12/16 10:54 PM
2

Dancing slowly, cheek to cheek. If she wants you to kiss her she will kiss your cheek, its time for you to plant one right on her lips.
/r/seduction18/12/16 10:54 PM
1

Yes its called being a man.
/r/seduction18/12/16 06:25 AM
1

Brush your teeth before you think you're gonna kiss.
/r/seduction18/12/16 06:23 AM
4

Just say she's your friend, but also say she's hot enough to have sex with too. That way you always have that small potential opening....they will remember that comment for years.
/r/seduction18/12/16 06:19 AM
1

ZYZZ only hooked up with women outside the gym.
/r/seduction18/12/16 06:18 AM
2

She was probably bucking for a discount, were you going to charge her a lot of money for a big job?
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:56 AM
2

Talk to both of them, give them both time for conversation and attention. Ignore her friend and she gets angry and will try to shut you down, plus the girl you like will not appreciate you ignoring her friend.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:37 AM
2

She wants to see you again, don't string her along it will just piss her off. Call her up and say "hey girl, I think its time we went out again". Do it now.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:34 AM
1

Treat them like you would treat a best friend. I remember in highschool long ago chatting with one of the (supposedly) sluttiest and admittedly hottest chicks in my math class. I have a natural gift of gab and we had a great convo, she was really friendly and open, but I recognized she already had a boyfriend (college age) so the idea of me hooking up with her was not possible. Plus I really wasn't attracted to her other than her insane boobs and ass. In other words don't treat them like they're…
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:32 AM
1

Quit waiting, after a few weeks you are friend zone material. the texting was supposed to be an incentive for face to face contact, and you aren't doing anything.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:29 AM
51

Hot girls want hot guys. Now if you're a hot software engineer, that means you're still hot. Thats why when girls say they like "nerdy smart guys", they're not visualizing a fat neckbeard who knows ubuntu and plays gamez, they are thinking more of a Chris Hemsworth Thor looking dude in glasses holding a laptop.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:27 AM
1

Generally speaking women don't want to be hit on at the gym. You might try talking to them if there is a lounge area or a juice bar or something, but when you're on the floor itself it can be intrusive to them. Plus it can be dangerous, treadmills, weights, machines. Breaking a persons concentration can cause injury if something falls or tips.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:23 AM
1

Married people cheat for many reasons. It doesn't mean the husband is a cuckold though if it happens. Some women are very good at cheating and the husband is completely taken in by her deception until they finally get caught.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:22 AM
3

Its college dude, everybody wants to get laid. Just approach, do you honestly think college girls love studying so much they don't want to be interrupted by a cute guy?
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:19 AM
1

Dude, she was planning to leave you. Girls have a had time being honest, so they fake being "hurt" at something you said or did and use that as an excuse for the breakup. Its happened to me....trust me its over. She's made up her mind about you awhile back.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:18 AM
3

Talk to her parents, butter them up, then she will get roped into a marriage with you she can't get out of.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:17 AM
8

Hint: Men actually advertise, women choose. If a girl hints at you, you're not cockblocking your buddies. They never had a chance anyway.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:16 AM
3

You can either be harmless or be a sexual challenge to her. A girl can pick up this vibe...you're either a soft friendly puppy or a guy that sees her as not a potential friend but a sexual partner. Getting out of the friend zone is impossible but it seems like you want to try, so do this. 1) become unavailable - you are no longer at her beck and call 2) Be fun outside of her social circle - again, have her outside staring in 3) Be busy - Don't be mean, just make her recognize you're an exciting …
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:14 AM
1

Move on, you waited an entire semester. You had maybe 1-2 weeks tops before she filed your book on the friend zone shelf.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:04 AM
2

Have a picnic...on your living room floor.
/r/seduction17/12/16 03:01 AM
1

So basically just be a normal non-crazy,non-autistic guy.
/r/seduction17/12/16 03:00 AM
1

Chapstick 24/7
/r/seduction17/12/16 02:58 AM
1

I'm smart and nerdy, I get pussy, go figure.
/r/seduction17/12/16 02:25 AM
1

Glasses make you look smarter. Lots of girls like smart guys.
/r/seduction16/12/16 08:07 AM
1

its tinder, an app that caters to people with attention problems.
/r/seduction16/12/16 08:05 AM
1

That will only get you halfway there
/r/seduction16/12/16 08:02 AM
1

Have a talk with him, most don't even realize what cock-blocking is or that they're doing it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 11:38 PM
1

Its HOW you say it, not that you say it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 08:42 PM
1

No, never. At that point it becomes romantic shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:20 AM
9

You have to talk to girls. Sorry but 100,000 years of evolution has made women into the passive receivers and the men evolved into the hunters. Women are good at dropping hints, but in the end you have to approach. Don't worry about blowing it the first few times (or dozen times), it gets better.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:17 AM
1

Dating is about interaction, sharing of minds. Its not about bowling or roller skating. You need the ability to talk and to listen as well. If you are bored with her life because you refuse to listen then there is not much of a future for you and her. Remember that the only common thread of your long string of failed relationships is YOU.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:14 AM
1

House parties are riskier though, fuck up there and everybody will be talking about it at school. Mess up in a nightclub and nobody will even know or care the next day.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:12 AM
1

Girls like older men, period. You're many years away from icky old dude status.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:04 AM
1

Because if you don't, another guy will.
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:56 AM
1

Text her a bit, but invite her for a face to face. You have about a 3 day window to do something, otherwise its straight to the friendzone bucket of shame for you.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:07 AM
1

Texting is just for intros, you want a face to face, so does she. They like the excitement of meeting a new guy in person, girls text like 1000 times a day, if you are just a conversation on her phone she will forget about you because she's texting 10 other guys at the same time.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:05 AM
1

Friends lie ya know.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:04 AM
1

Just walk up to her and talk to her. It can be that simple.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:03 AM
3

Its a good opener to tell a tale. She wants to know more about the tattoo, so have a good story about it or them.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:02 AM
0

PUA is a jewish scam dude. PUA scammers now call themselves dating coaches to hide their scammery. If its free why not go, but don't be talked into an expensive bootcamp or buy some overpriced DVDs. "Kohen" come on its Cohen.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:01 AM
2

I was 31 and dated a 18 year old, and yes it is everything you could ever fantasize and dream it could be.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:58 AM
2

Rule #1: Women won't approach. They hint, they tease, they look, they wait. Don't stand around like The Supreme Gentleman Elliott Rodger thinking a woman will approach you. Only strippers and prostitutes approach. Deal with it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:56 AM
7

"How old do you think I am?" Turn it into a question an answer session. Have her guess, then you give her your age. Then ask if thats too young and why. If she says yes, then say "You mean you don't fantasize about young guys on TV and in the movies?, Like Twilight New Moon. See if she's on Team Edward or Team Jacob. Older women love that freaking movie but won't admit they're all pedos.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:54 AM
-1

No, it really isn't. Once a guy decides you're just friend material, thats it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:51 AM
1

Wear clothing that accentuates your slimness around the waist, but don't wear sleeves that show how skinny your arms are. 125lbs isn't gaunt skinny, its just slim. Women really don't want big muscles, they like light musculature at the most, but having a tiny butt and slim waist is attractive to them, as well as broad shoulders which you can have and still be thin.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:50 AM
1

Baseball caps are infantile. Only wear one if you're bald. Having a good head of hair is attractive to women. Don't be a tard.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:48 AM
1

How you dress determines a lot. One night on a lark I decided to wear my motorcycle jacket (I don't have a bike), just something I owned for years and got as a gift. I had a girl ask me if I ride (obviously interested), I had to disappoint her though by being honest. I had others look me over, I guess the bad boy image really appeals to more than a few of them. Dress for the occasion, but most importantly dress WELL.
/r/seduction10/12/16 04:52 PM
1

I said hello, smiled, and just chatted her up and said she was too pretty to work there. Then after a bit I gave her a small keychain I bought during of my trips to europe, she though it was cool, We traded numbers. She didn't call me for 2 weeks, I ended up calling her. She was apologetic and said she was frantic because she put my number in one of the books she was reading and forgot where it was. See....just because a girl doesn't call doesn't mean she doesn't like you. Unexpected things happ…
/r/seduction10/12/16 04:12 PM
1

A beta male would complain about the rain, or demand payment.
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:38 PM
1

But if a woman is seen with a fat man, he is criticized as a mere sugar daddy, she would never be attracted to him. Look at all the "cute guys" articles in young women's mags, ever see a fat guy?
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:25 PM
1

I picked up a librarian, she was behind a counter. Does that count?
/r/seduction09/12/16 06:56 AM
1

I'm a short guy, I've dated girls as tall as 6'3". Height can work against you if you're considered clumsy or unsure of yourself. Wear flats and be open about women of all heights. The less of an issue you make it, the less of an issue they will make it.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:44 AM
1

Word to the naive: Even sex is not a "close". Just because you got the goods doesn't mean you will get a 2nd date either.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:42 AM
3

You have to simply recognize yourself as a sexual being, and that what you are offering women do want. You're stuck in the friendly phase and can't move on.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:41 AM
1

Naw, jealousy is for the weak. If you have a strong stable relationship with a woman, she will treat a guy hitting on her as just a nuisance and something to joke about with while talking to you later at dinner.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:39 AM
2

Women can smell fear, at least you have a good job where you can expose yourself to intimidating women enough that over time you can adapt.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:38 AM
2

Just do what a friend of mine does, when a female greets him he gets this tone of voice and says "good afternoon, how are you today?", more than just a meek and courteous "hello". The other thing is familiarity, act like you already know her, say "hello michelle" or whatever the fuck her name is. Once you get a connection then its easy to segue' into conversation unrelated to a POS transaction.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:37 AM
11

There's nothing racist about dating your own kind. Ethnicity, culture, family, language, all of it factors in a stable relationship. Not everybody is willing to tackle these difficulties all at the same time which can be what happens when you date way out of your zone. This diversity acceptance marxist bullshit has to stop.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:34 AM
1

Its hormones dude, teens have problems with hormone balance. Relax and chill a few years, it levels off in your mid-20s and your brain falls into normalcy.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:31 AM
1

Be masculine, a masculine guy is protective, and girls like that. She wants to feel safe around you, knowing you can protect her from creeps and you are there for her when she needs you emotionally, physically or otherwise. A guy that can fix her flat tire in the rain scores mega comfort points.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:30 AM
2

You may have just waited too damn long. An entire semester? Really? One common element of a guy who can pick up girls easily is he goes for a girl not long after seeing her. In a semester a girl can get hit on by a dozen guys, and she probably has already selected a boyfriend. You're just on her fallback list.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:28 AM
1

Overly friendly can sometimes be interpreted as dishonest, fake or superficial, so yeah. Its also less masculine, I'm just sayin.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:25 AM
2

I'm an older guy and try to give helpful info based on my own experiences. I've had a lifetime of errors in dating myself, so at the very least I can warn others.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:24 AM
1

You may have waited too long and are already in the friend zone. Just go for it, she will either say yes or no 50/50 and you don't know her well enough to have destroyed anything resembling a friendship.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:22 AM
1

Then do them, you can pick up more girls doing your hobbies. Shared interests can be sexy.
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:18 AM
1

Get a proper picture, remember thats all you really have in such apps, its your first and last way of garnering interest. No selfies, no potato quality photos taken in a dirty bathroom mirror. No picture of you dressed like a wigger or in your "changing my motor oil" street clothes. No face so close to the camera it looks like it was taken with a fisheye lens, no photo obviously of you in a club cheek to cheek with a random woman and she's photoshopped out, etc...
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:16 AM
1

She doesn't like you.
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:11 AM
1

Maybe you're being intimidating. Girls want a friendly open and conversational guy. Only a tiny segment of women like the aggressive Jersey Shore musclehead types.
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:09 AM
2

Its about 30 minutes for me, its a matter of pacing yourself. Not many girls will orgasm from a 5 minute pump and squirt session. Fitness helps, because rigorous sex is like a 2 mile run.
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:01 AM
1

Well its actually a joke, a way of seeing if she's really just testing you.
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:27 AM
3

Ask her, "ya wanna get out of here?"
/r/seduction07/12/16 02:56 AM
2

If a woman likes you, she will MAKE time.
/r/seduction07/12/16 02:53 AM
1

Don't make a conversation into an interrogation
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:18 AM
1

Kino is a bit early if you are just getting comfortable with being around women, work on your verbal skills and body posititon first
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:08 AM
6

Conversely, would you date a boring girl?
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:04 AM
1

Body language, theres a difference between a girl that avoids eye contact and one who scrunches their body in revulsion of you
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:03 AM
4

I dont recommend it. My only first date sex experience was with a girl i already knew for years and trusted. The first date is meant to be a meet, greet and get comfortable session
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:02 AM
7

Very important because girls are inexperienced, a guy in highschool with game is king, they will follow you around like puppies. Even if you only have moderate game you should do well anyway
/r/seduction06/12/16 12:58 AM
1

Don't get hung up on their looks, yes it can be intimidating. The other person can detect nervousness
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:35 AM
7

Never a bad thing, alpha buddies arent competitors, they will help you out if possible
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:32 AM
1

You may be getting bells palsy, see a doctor asap
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:29 AM
1

If you give her your number and she immediately calls it so your phone registers hers, you're in, otherwise she isnt going to call
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:27 AM
1

You're already in the friend zone
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:24 AM
1

Attention, girls love attention.
/r/seduction04/12/16 11:15 PM
1

Just look into her eyes but remember to smile within 3 seconds. She will either look away or smile back.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:40 AM
1

Do you stutter on specific words? Try to avoid using such words if you can. I've seen a device that is like an earpiece and it uses a microphone to give you feedback of your own voice but a few milliseconds later, which disrupts your hearing patterns in your brain and allows you to speak without stuttering.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:37 AM
1

Whats sad is how young he was when he died.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:35 AM
2

If a girl is nervous she will sometimes say things like that, but beware, sometimes she isn't nervous and she means it. The trick is to don't act like an immature tard if she stops you.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:34 AM
1

Don't get drunk! Stay sober even if she's tipsy. Liquor is not "liquid courage", its "liquid stupid, loudmouth soup"
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:32 AM
2

Quit worrying about "kiss closes". What you really want is to keep her interest and that involves more than just a kiss. Girls kiss guys all the time, it means nothing to most of them. A lot of times they just do that to manipulate naive guys.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:31 AM
1

Don't go straight to sex with a girl. Start with a good old makeout session, some cuddling, some conversation. Its to make her comfortable and to make you comfortable too. After that and some heavy petting you will be ready for the eventual in-out. Just keep in mind that you are in charge, you are doing the romancing, and just remember to take it slow and easy. One tip though, never brush fingertips on her skin, you may see that in movies but it just feels creepy. If you caress her skin do it wi…
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:29 AM
1

Just say "Well we won't tell him about me"
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:25 AM
1

People tend to be attracted to the same kind of race. I've had native american women be attracted to me because I apprently look Native American (I'm not at all...). I also get a good deal of nerdy and alternative chicks liking me because I look smart and studious. Sometimes your "look" is a major factor in what kind of women check you out.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:24 AM
1

Sometimes you just have to take the plunge. I had a frightful fear of deep water, then at one summer camp they tossed me into the pool, scared the hell out of me at the time but afterwards I lost my fear of deep water.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:22 AM
1

Nice try, bad venue, bad approach but like anything, you will get better at it.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:20 AM
2

Don't overthink it, sometimes its just because she left the phone in another room or the volume was off. Its happened to me a lot, I left the phone in the car and decide to text back at 2am because better late than never. Doesn't mean I wanna hang out at that time.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:18 AM
2

Talk to both of them, they will decide who gets to go home with you.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:15 AM
1

Just get an Olan Mills picture of yourself.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:13 AM
2

Tell her you want to stay friends with her forever. Its like a sword in the chest.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:12 AM
1

The eyes have it. A girl can telegraph her intentions to you just with her eyes, pay attention.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:10 AM
1

Usually work circles. If you can build up a group of work friends they often have friends outside of work and such.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:10 AM
1

Finasteride kills boners, not sure thats a good thing for a pickup artist.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:09 AM
1

Pick the female one.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:08 AM
1

Never ask a girl out with a text message, you kids never learn do you.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:05 AM
1

I was far more successful with women when I was skinny than now. Having a bit of a gut is not that appealing. Just dress in a way that takes advantage of your lack of weight. Layer clothing to make you look bigger but don't go overboard. Adding a shirt over your t-shirt and then a jacket. Don't go nuts with skinny pants, but good slim style tapered pants accentuate your legs.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:04 AM
1

Tinder girls just wanna fuck, this should be no surprise to anyone.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:02 AM
1

Call the cops immediately, people who get punched in the head die sometimes. Its assault and battery and should land the attacker in prison for awhile where he belongs.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:01 AM
1

Practice with a female friend.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:00 AM
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Just tell her you wanna go see a movie and you would like for her to come see it too with you.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:58 AM
2

Try to have some real life experiences, you can't be an interesting person by making up fake stories.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:57 AM
1

Talk to both of them. If you ignore one she will get pissed off and the girl you are talking to will get pissed off that you are ignoring her friend.
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:07 AM
8

Don't listen to these clowns, its fine to date a co-worker and even better since you will won't be working there in 2 months, but you can still maintain any relationship you get into before then.
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:05 AM
1

People always say don't date chicks at work, but I've done it and its perfectly fine. Just don't fuck the boss's wife and don't fuck your supervisor or anyone in your chain of authority.
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:03 AM
0

Thats because you don't understand women.
/r/seduction02/12/16 12:52 AM
1

that probably is a deal breaker. devout followers of a religion tend to want somebody that believes the same.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:44 AM
3

I once drove 200 miles for pussy, 30 minutes is nothing.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:39 AM
2

Don't ever ever chat with her online for days or weeks. The whole reason whe is talking to you is she's waiting to be asked out, she doesn't want to hear about your itunes collection and why you think nickleback is underrated. Suggest a meetup, offer a specific plan, some food, a place to hang out. Don't text that, call her and do it over the phone.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:38 AM
1

Welcome to the world where you don't get everything you want in life. Move on.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:35 AM
1

Beards are so 1990s, ditch it. Unless you're in ISIS or the Taleban, its time to shave that skunk off your face. One girlfriend I had told me my goatee felt like she was making out with a wig, I shaved it, never got another one again, ever.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:33 AM
0

Raves are like little orgys, so don't be surprised if your dick has warts and itches the week after. Girls there are party hounds, sluts and freaks. All the drugs and other illegal substances can make for a tempting environment (aka raping an unconscious girl) but remember don't get lost in the environment, you are still you and maintain your personal sense of morality and ethics. And have fun.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:31 AM
4

A truly nice guy is honest, open and friendly. A woman likes a man who gives them a feeling of comfort. A guy who pretends to be friendly to a girl in order to try to get close to her and then suddenly pulls a fast one tryingt to manipulate her into dating....thats not a nice guy but thats what a lot of guys actually do when they say they're "nice". PUA is pretty shady, especially if you are using canned routines and discuss techniques in weird lingo (KINO, KISS-CLOSE, OPEN A SET, blah blah). A …
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:28 AM
1

One day in class after you have sat down, wave her over as she walks in and say "hey, sit with me!". She will be happy for the invite and you can make small talk or discuss the lessons.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:24 AM
1

Its not a problem, just don't let her dog share it with you.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:20 AM
2

I just make a face to her and say "whats up with this guy?". It focuses attention away from him and creates a special insider discussion between you and her, in a way you are inviting her to make a judgment about the interloper while you both quietly laugh about it.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:19 AM
1

If you can inspire a woman's sexuality, there will be a time when she wants to "drive". A woman who feels that you see her as a sexual animal even with her flaws, will have fantasies about taking over and controlling you during sex. I'm assuming you want that and not the kind where you crawl around on the floor like a dog while she whips you with a belt. That is something different, and you will have to seek a special kind of woman out for that, probably in alternative lifestyle meetups
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:16 AM
1

I have acne and still get laid. It certainly doesn't help me but it isn't a total life destroying condition. I will have acne for life, its the kind you don't outgrow.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:13 AM
-9

When you're walking and talking to her alone, start staring at her with a bit of a grin, she will say "what!?" Pause, then say "God, you're cute..." See what she does...
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:12 AM
2

32 is a great age, you're mature and yet your body hasn't fallen apart yet (when you hit 40 you will know what I mean). Women like older men, and you're not "old" as in creepy old yet, enjoy it.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:10 AM
0

Be more masculine. Clingy and needy is a feminine trait. A masculine man will never hide his affection for a woman, but at the same time he will be laid back and not stuffy and overbearing in a relationship. It probably stems from a fear of losing her and being single too long.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:09 AM
1

It depends, if you dress well you can take advantage of your thin body. Those trendy skinny suits are pretty cool, hard to pull off if you have a gut but you look great if you're thin. Just try to avoid things that make you look silly like those dumb oversized shoes or a wierd haircut because you think your head is too small (it isn't)
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:06 AM
2

Confront her about her cockblocking. Tell her that if she keeps doing it you are no longer going to welcome her company. She will either back off or get pissed off, but at least you stand your ground. She might even admit she likes you, then at that point well its up to you if you want to pursue that.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:24 AM
1

Try doing what women do, look at a girl, make eye contact, look away, be disinterested. Some girls hate that because they expect you to go after them, so suddenly they're interested in you because you're the forbidden fruit they can't have.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:21 AM
1

no need to follow up text, its not a business meeting with a vendor.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:20 AM
1

Don't freak out, she was probably testing you.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:18 AM
1

Women hate to say no outright, so they will just try to blow you off until you go away. Thats the beauty of texting and why women like it so much.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:17 AM
2

Generally women don't want to be approached at the gym, they're busy working out.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:15 AM
1

Plan the date, make the decisions, she will want you to.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:15 AM
2

Sexual ability has nothing to do with attractiveness. I knew a girl who was a solid 4 who sucked dick like no woman has ever sucked mine before. I've also dated attractive women who play with your dick like its a squeezy toy, not very sexy. Often times a guy feels more comfortable around a girl who isn't so attractive its intimidating, so he performs better.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:13 AM
1

Sounds like you two are perfect for each other.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:11 AM
0

She doesn't like you. Perhaps you simply didn't express enough interest or she got the vibe you are a "player".
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:09 AM
1

She's just saying she's inexperienced at sex or is unsure about you. Ignore it, she's not trying to insult you. I had a girl say that to me on the 1st date. I fucked her on the 3rd date.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:08 AM
2

Don't stress her out with your problems, and if you do, share your problems and accept any advice she gives you. I'm in an LTR and how i maintain it is 1) give her great sex, always 2) Be generous, be an old school male 3) Don't be paranoid and jealous. Trust goes a long way. Make her look forward to living in your world, that means always have your pad ready when she comes over, be willing to give just as much as she gives to you in terms of time and attention. The moment she dreads being aroun…
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:06 AM
27

Thats just plain wierd dude.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:02 AM
1

Be good looking. Indian guys have a disadvantage, women already know they have shorter penises, dark skin and overbearing parents.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:01 AM
1

Picking them up is like picking up any other kind of women.
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:59 AM
1

Its still college, girls want to date and have sex. There are plenty of social opportunities even in a community college, check the events calendars.
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:58 AM
18

I usually go straight into it, I will make a story like "My best friend said that you and I should go out". Watch her response, if she's interested she will immediately say something like "ooh, really". If she isn't then she will joke about it, "oh he's wierd".
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:57 AM
1

I once had a girl go out with me because she was pleasantly surprised that online I didn't go right into sex talk with her. She was used to ignoring horny guys who get rude in chat.
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:54 AM
3

Being playful and fun is more important than negging.
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:50 AM
1

There is little difference between an FWB and a girlfriend, other than girlfriends tend to be far better looking.
/r/seduction29/11/16 03:00 AM
2

Quit calling it fucking kino. Human touch is important quit making it some dumb PUA crap. Also its a first date, keep the octopus hands off her you horndog. Try appreciating her, listening, enjoying being with her and let the "kino" come naturally. The more comfortable she is around you the more success you will have.
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:46 PM
-1

fuck a fat female friend. She will appreciate it, its far less of a scary event than having sex with a hooker, you're less likely to pick up some disease or get killed, and in the dark a fat friend feels much better than you would think. You might learn something about women too for later in life.
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:43 PM
1

First of all don't dress creepy, don't look creepy. Make sure your appearance is good. Creepy guys wear baggy shapeless clothing, often dirty or inappropriate (sandals with cargo shorts, t-shirt that says "nice story babe, now make me a sandwich", fedoras/trilbys, etc...)
/r/seduction27/11/16 03:53 PM
2

I've only been approached by strippers asking if I want a table dance. Face it, women won't approach thats our job. Its not a bad thing, you are choosing the woman you want.
/r/seduction27/11/16 03:50 PM
3

Be nice to all, but let the girls decide. they usually quietly confer with each other and decide who they will pair up with.
/r/seduction27/11/16 04:22 AM
2

The first date is a meet and greet, she decides if she likes you, you decide if you like her. Just because you think the date went well doesn't mean she decided that you're worth her time. There's no slam dunk PUA techniques in dating, because you have no idea what she's thinking, why she went on the date, or her present emotional status. Just do your best.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:10 PM
2

Maybe you should re-evaluate WHY you are picking up girls. Sounds like you don't know what you want.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:08 PM
1

Yes, because most PUA's are creepy and wierd. The important part of picking up women is it must feel like you're natural and comfortable doing it, and it helps to be good looking too...you can get away with being a Casanova type if you're cute, otherwise they will just think you're a creeper with bodies in your basement.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:07 PM
2

I have a black hair fetish too, as long as she's not asian or mexican or anything. Its just a brain stem thing, don't confuse wanting to fuck her with feelings for her.
/r/seduction26/11/16 05:08 AM
2

Taken with a 35mm, something that emphasizes your strengths and hides your weaknesses physically. Angle, compositing, and what you wear is important. Also sometimes you can make your photo edgier by putting it in black & white. How many women do face-only selfies because they have gorgeous faces, but it also hides their huge ass because its not in the shot. Women are much better at this than we are.
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:56 PM
1

Next time text this: AY YO GURL, LEMME HOLLA AT YA, U WANT SUM FUCK? yeah I know its bad advice, but there's a lesson here, if you are funny, playful she will be more receptive. A girl wants to be interested, she doesn't want a 'gee hi we met yesterday i think you're nice do you like me?' message. Or you might just want to wait a bit longer. She may have missed your text, girls can get 100 texts a day they're all texting addicts.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:33 AM
3

you just found out a telephone number is not actually a close, and PUA lied to you.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:29 AM
3

Its the married man effect. Newly-married men are more relaxed around other women because there's no automatic pressure to date, so they unwittingly telegraph to a woman that they're relaxed, open and friendly and that makes a woman more receptive, exactly what they don't want or need.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:27 AM
5

Women are everywhere. You have to pay more attention to that. Even something as simple as grocery shopping or being at a state fair have dating opportunities.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:24 AM
4

2 months? She probably sat around wondering what the fuck was going on with you, she figured you weren't interested and found an Eager Ernie who was willing to call her the next day.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:23 AM
21

Having a really good photo is important, after all its all they really care about.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:21 AM
-1

You have to be confident, no woman wants to fuck a nu-male wearing a keffiyeh around his neck, overly tight pants and is easily triggered
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:19 AM
1

Ask why she's trying to cock block you, maybe she wants to fuck you herself.
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:14 AM
1

Hand talkers can be rather distracting, try not to act like you're trying to bring in a plane to the airport when you talk. Some good gestures can be touching your face when you are responding, like the finger against the corner of the eye, the chin rub, the absentminded circling of the glass while talking, etc. All done in moderation, mind you.
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:13 AM
2

Really good sex. If a girl is getting fucked like no other guy has ever fucked her before, she won't really care about other aspects of your relationship. Relationships tend to end once the sex itself becomes boring.
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:10 AM
1

Too much to list really. Not much of a drinker but one skill a man should have is to know how to mix a drink, so its worth the expense of buying liquors.
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:06 AM
1

Girls say a lot of shit, but one night she will be drunk and then all of a sudden you will end up having to fuck her.
/r/seduction24/11/16 04:20 AM
2

You're gonna get laid dude.
/r/seduction24/11/16 04:17 AM
1

talk to yourself, have an imaginary conversation and work on your sentences and what words you use.
/r/seduction24/11/16 04:15 AM
1

1 rule, don't be a filthy scumbag. Women love a clean apartment, it demonstrates you care about yourself.
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:16 PM
1

Make girls part of your self improvement.
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:13 PM
7

"Boot Camps" are a ripoff.
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:21 AM
1

I'm not saying dropping her, I'm just saying don't be a frantic texter, worrying about every time she doesn't text back.
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:31 AM
1

There is a universal standard for attraction. Males should be well groomed, hips narrow, chest broad, a bit of muscle but not too much, well dressed and with a friendly attitude, eye contact and smile. Poise and confidence work with all women, as well as a man who isn't jewish with his money and is respectful.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:51 PM
1

Just let it slide. Anybody who freaks out because the girl doesn't text back is definitely a bit too obsessive/possessive.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:49 PM
1

A kiss isn't an invitation to sex, horndog.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:46 PM
1

You stop talking! then you caress her cheek and smile, if she responds positively then its time for the kiss
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:45 PM
1

Find out what desk she sits at and write "hi _____ from your secret admirer" on the desk surface.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:43 PM
1

Go for the long hug and neck kiss on date 2
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:35 PM
1

I once was talking to a 35 year old sexy FBI agent online, turns out it was a 14 year old girl, I was so disappointed.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:34 PM
1

Call her, don't text.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:35 AM
1

Call her up and cancel, you're not ready to date yet.
/r/seduction18/11/16 12:18 PM
1

this community is mostly guys learning how to pick up women...emphasis on learning
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:09 PM
4

been to model UN once, lots of babes. Its a great big dating scene, just be professional but remember its still college, and girls are horny.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:08 PM
2

A number is not a date and a kiss is not a close. you find that out the hard way in life but you learn from it.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:06 PM
3

NO NO NO never give business cards. she's more likely to call you if you write your number on her hand.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:05 PM
2

You were supposed to give clever responses like "you know those crutons will kill your gains". She started the convo you were supposed to maintain and sustain it.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:04 AM
1

Its pretty much a buyer's market for women in terms of online dating. She may be doing that 1 date per day thing, and you just didn't make the cut. Maybe your conversational skills need honing, were you talking about her or yourself the most? Did you actually listen to what she said and showed genuine interest? PUA stories won't get you very far.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:01 AM
1

text this instead: AY YO GURL, LEMME HOLLA AT YA, U WANT SUM FUK?
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:58 AM
2

Not a very clever opener I must say, more like a "get in the van" type approach
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:58 AM
4

Facebook is a LIE. People post all their best photos and craft an image, its like reality TV.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:54 AM
1

Okay Sisyphus, just realize she's committed to her boyfriend already. She probably is being nice to you because she feels badly that she doesn't feel the same way towards you. I've seen it before, she pitys you. Not a good feeling eh? You are broadcasting that you are a beta male.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:53 AM
5

I went to a club for 50+ people. It was no different than a club with college age people. There were guys peacocking, women in groups eyeballing guys walking in, the usual couples dancing, laughing, touching, kissing, and some going home together. Older women are pretty horny, some of it has to do with menopause hormones they take which can make them crawl the walls unless they get fucked regularly. I'm dating a woman in her mid-50s, she's cool, not demanding, emotional or mean. She's also real …
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:50 AM
4

you just have to realize that there are literally billions of women in the world, millions in your country and hundreds of thousands in your city, and tens of thousands around you who are hot enough to date. You only want one at a time, so the statistics look good.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:47 AM
2

You shouldn't have "Kino"ed her at all. It would have been better to play it cool and be serious, so she knows you are determined to take her out. She may be playful as an expression of her insecurities. You could have just said "Netflix and chill" and then decide together what to watch. You can kino later on the couch if she felt frisky.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:41 AM
-3

Fag Hags tend to be pretty messed up women, avoid them.
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:48 PM
1

libraries. I dated a shy girl who went to the library all the fricking time because she was addicted to romance novels and couldn't afford to buy so many of them.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:42 AM
1

I hate it when that happens
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:40 AM
2

You're obviously going to see her again since you're friends. The lapdance and the molestation could have just been the beer talking, and girls like to have fun. Its not necessarily an invitation to more.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:38 AM
1

Be willing to make a decision when put on the spot. Women want you to make a decision, thats why they often defer to you when you say "where do you want to eat", "what do you want to do", etc... Its not a matter of slapping a girl or being mean, its being a man...and a man can make up his mind. Remember you don't know the context of another couple's conversation, you may not realize they have been together for quite a while so the conversation may not be what you think it is. I knew a couple tha…
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:35 AM
86

How to tell fantastic stories: Live life and get some experiences under your belt.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:31 AM
0

If a girl likes you she will make time. I've had a girl literally say to me once "I've got a date but I can break it". If she wants to go with you she will suggest a different time/day/whatever. If not, well you're in trouble.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:30 AM
1

Accents can be exotic if they're european. Everybody thinks their voice sounds whiny and nasally when they record it and play it back.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:28 AM
1

Blow some cash and get a motel room, but make it clear you don't demand sex in return, just make it an offer of undisturbed privacy for you two, and make it a big deal, tell her to bring a change of clothing because you're going out. Make her feel special. Before you know it you will be sharing the tub together. I'm assuming you have a job, aren't completely broke or are a teenager. If you are, well ignore above advice.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:25 AM
6

If you want to fuck you had better give a fuck. The asshole approach to life doesn't work.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:22 AM
0

Maybe she just needed you to not be embarassed that she didn't have anybody to go to the dance with her. You have been used and violated.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:21 AM
7

A girl that isn't incredibly horny and drunk will not let you do anything sexual with her until the 5th date. She's evaluating you as a possible sexual partner. Remember women bear children, so while you can run around and fuck everything that has a hole, she bears the risk of getting pregnant, so they are selective. Think of it as a good thing....she's got you on the list.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:17 AM
1

resume swapping = 1st dates are often like a business interview, you're selling yourself, so both of you are interviewing each other.
/r/seduction12/11/16 09:27 PM
2

Balance, life is about balance. Balance your work, love and hobbies in terms of time.
/r/seduction12/11/16 09:05 PM
2

Its called foreplay, and yes you should not only like it, but be good at it. You don't need to tell her, just do it with her, she will learn what you like and you will learn what she likes. I found out that my GF loves getting her neck kissed and her earlobes gently sucked. Whenever I want to ramp up the temperature I just go for the neck now...
/r/seduction12/11/16 09:00 PM
1

Always be in "dating mode". I know its hard, my job is rather mind-numbing and frankly when I'm at work I don't want to be bothered by acting nice to others, but you have to just be social minded no matter what. You may have missed many possible opportunities because you were too self-absorbed in your work.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:58 PM
1

No guarantees, sometimes a girl will just change her mind, you can't control that. don't freak out if you don't get a 2nd, move on. Had that happen to me even though I thought it was a slam dunk. Don't 2nd guess yourself, call her and say "hey, whats up?". Her reaction will determine how successful your 1st date was. If she seems inconvenienced by your call, well things probably didn't go as well as you thought. If she seems eager to talk to you, relax and set up a 2nd date.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:56 PM
1

Its called being a male. Imagine how horny you would be without the porn!
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:49 PM
2

Good pickup, not asking but making it a statement of purpose instead. Lunch is fine, and since you already know each other you can avoid the 1st date jitters and resume swapping.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:49 PM
2

Not a good idea, but if you do, make the date after they have left the hotel, don't be fucking women at work unless you want to get fired. Hotels have security cameras and nosy maids everywhere.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:47 PM
1

Lots of competition dude, recognize its a buyers market in the College dating scene. You can't fall out of bed and keep your neckbeard and automatically expect success.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:46 PM
1

Not a damn thing.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:45 PM
1

Call her, don't message her. Time to ramp up the interest.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:44 PM
1

Tell them your real age, one of them just might like jailbait
/r/seduction12/11/16 02:49 AM
1

Just be a normal guy, if a girl is intimidated by your looks, then your personality should reassure them that its okay.
/r/seduction11/11/16 10:13 PM
3

Attraction can be more than looks. Some of the most wild women in bed I've had were average looking at best, so there are potential benefits.
/r/seduction11/11/16 10:12 PM
1

Maybe if a relative died, but not if Ryan Reynolds finally got the girl in the movie.
/r/seduction11/11/16 10:11 PM
-13

make sure she showers to get the other guys cum out of her vagina.
/r/seduction11/11/16 09:41 PM
2

We're talking Amy Schumer here...her personality is about as attractive as dog poop with cat hair in it.
/r/seduction10/11/16 02:46 AM
2

stay away from the emoji's dude, they're so fucking gay
/r/seduction09/11/16 06:25 AM
1

If the girl suddenly wants you to stop fingering her clit she came, the clitoris gets very sensitive right after orgasm. The trick is to never really finger it directly, pull the skin just above it so it gets a little tug each time, and keep it lubricated by dipping your fingers in the vagina at regular intervals.
/r/seduction09/11/16 06:22 AM
1

A girl is more than looks.
/r/seduction09/11/16 06:21 AM
1

You should learn to make more friends first. If you have a larger friends circle, then you can do better with the ladies.
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:07 PM
1

You're 15 you don't need pickup, girls are horny as hell at that age, all you gotta do is talk to them. they dream of having boyfriends, any boyfriends.
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:06 PM
2

Latina women can either be huge whores or dedicated (and jealous) as fuck. You probably got the latter. The problem is you. Its best you get out of that relationship because you and her have different views of what a relationship actually means. It sounds like you just want to fuck sluts, so go out and fuck sluts.
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:05 PM
3

PUA can be creepy to women. they like to think that a man who has natural social skills isn't as creepy as a guy who went to a $3000 seminar.
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:02 PM
3

She's playing hard to get and it seems to be working on you, considering the fact you took time to post this.
/r/seduction06/11/16 06:59 PM
2

She considers you a friend. You haven't telegraphed your intentions clearly so you are in the friend zone.
/r/seduction06/11/16 06:57 PM
5

attic? basement? tent in backyard? gotta be creative.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:59 AM
1

A pat on the back isn't always an intended insult its just if a girl is unsure about touching you, its "safe".
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:57 AM
1

good advice if you're 7 years old.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:56 AM
1

Keep the tie on! Just loosen the knot and unbutton the neck button. Roll up the sleeves. Forget about the jacket. Women like the "I'm an off-work businessman" relaxed look.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:55 AM
1

I don't think they really took you seriously, move on.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:50 AM
2

The important thing is to just talk with your normal voice. When you're nervous your tone tends to go up so you have to fight that habit. Women respond better to a lower masculine voice. Maybe thats why they all love Sam Elliott.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:48 AM
4

Talk low and slower, but don't be like Mystery and put in those bizarre long pauses. He has to do that because he's autistic.
/r/seduction06/11/16 12:23 AM
1

if they're horny enough, but generally the guy texts first to spark interest.
/r/seduction05/11/16 11:26 PM
4

Movie, roller/ice skating, bowling, bicycling, shopping, netflix, dancing, cruise, videogames, go karts, baseball game, basketball game, eat out, museum, gardens, zoo, water park, airshow, concert, library, minigolf, pool, bar, arcade, public park, driving range, symphony, road trip, convention.
/r/seduction05/11/16 11:25 PM
3

Not much, I had a friend who lived out of state and was staying in his parents home when he was visiting, it was a dump. Still we managed to bring back 2 chicks to his parent's dump of a house and he fucked his. I didn't fuck mine because she was kinda chubby and still not over her ex-husband.
/r/seduction05/11/16 11:23 PM
2

After you get her number, don't disappear. Keep hanging out with her.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:53 PM
1

I always find that initiating sex begins when both of you STOP talking. You stare at each other, smile and the intimate contact begins. Coversation at that point just becomes jarring and intrusive.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:50 PM
2

9 months is nothing. Move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:49 PM
1

Don't drink. You may think it loosens you up but generally it will make you a stinking slob drunk and destroy your judgement and train of thought, and when a woman smells your breath its not sexy.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:48 PM
5

Hotels are great, the good ones have bars, use them. Traveling can be rather lonely so women often don't mind a bit of chatting.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:45 PM
1

You should have at least used her for conversation practice. She was brave enough to do an opener, you were supposed to run with that ball. You don't have to fuck every woman you meet. YOU FAILED.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:43 PM
1

HeyDay is a sort of indoor fun place for adults and young people, bowling, food, video games, skeeball, etc...
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:11 PM
1

Just keep going for it, you may mess up the first 40 times, but with experience comes eventual mastery. How does a soldier change from a raw recruit into a grizzled vet? He goes into real battles, over and over again.
/r/seduction05/11/16 04:57 AM
1

HeyDay and French Pastries.
/r/seduction05/11/16 04:53 AM
1

Sometimes, not always. Smiling at everybody makes you look crazy
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:59 AM
1

I treat them like every other girl, or guy for that matter. The moment you get nervous or get into PUA mode, a very attractive girl will shut you out because she's seen that before a million times. Treat them like a person and don't swoon just because she's got a great ass and blonde hair.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:58 AM
1

The campus allows you to walk anywhere, why restrict yourself to the engineering and CS buildings? Hang out in the nearby shopping district if there is one, go to the local clubs frequented by college students. Go to the university gym. Sign up for flower arranging. there's all sorts of social shit to do at a college.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:56 AM
1

Look at what they are wearing, point out something and say "oh thats nice", or "what is that?". Thats a good starter. Even a simple "oh i really love your hair" is good if she has a really unusual cut or has funky color accents. They spend a lot of time on their grooming hoping you notice. Don't compliment their shoes, only fags do that.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:54 AM
1

I avoid sex conversation through texting unless she starts it. Girls are so used to creepy guys texting them dirty fuck stuff right out of the gate that they automatically shut you out if you try that. I actually had one girl tell me outright she liked me because I didn't talk sex at all and she found most guys sexually crude when texting. Remember you're trying to build familiarity and trust, if you want fuck talk, call up a sex party line.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:51 AM
1

London seems like a great opportunity, there are tons of girls looking for guys. lack of smiling may not work well unless you or she are both autistic.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:48 AM
1

It really depends. My GF and I both work, we have family obligations and live some distance from each other, so weekends are the only opportunities. I've dated girls in the past where she lives only a few miles from me so I see her nearly every day unless one of us is busy. Of course with a live-in GF well its gonna be every day, get used to it.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:47 AM
1

Sex on a first date, thats a lofty goal. Slow down there hoss, the 1st date is your resume and interview. Be a good boy for that one.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:43 AM
1

Only if it is still in its plastic shrink packaging. No girl wants to see a guy whip out a previously used dildo and expect her to jam it inside her cooch while he watches.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:40 AM
1

A woman finds it attractive is a man has a CLEAN apartment. The bathroom is sparkling and the toilet is not filthy. You don't have playboy centerfolds thumbtacked to the walls, you don't have your Xbox in plain sight on the floor, your decor is not like mom's, its not gay, and it is minimalist and masculine. Candles? meh. I don't like stinky rooms that smell like vanilla and cinnamon. You only need to break out the candles when you are ramping up the romance, and don't go overboard.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:39 AM
3

texting is no substitute for a phone call. girls consider a text low tier, they get a hundred texts a day, you're just one of many blurbs of letters she receives every few minutes.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:36 AM
2

Response: "Who is this?". this is a good one because it means you didn't have her number in your contacts list.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:34 AM
2

3rd date - licked her pussy, she sucked my dick 4th date - we did 69 It was pretty intense. didn't date her very long but she was a freak, cutters always are.
/r/seduction03/11/16 06:55 AM
1

Get a better picture of yourself. With apps like Tinder its your only real link to a woman, they care nothing about any text drivel associated with the profile.
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:23 AM
1

Sounds like typical PUA stuff.
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:33 AM
1

You're not very good at ramping up the intensity apparently. I once had a new GF who had invited me to stay in her apartment after the 1st date because it was a long drive back for me. I said sure (I thought it was a very nice and trusting gesture). I slept, woke up early and woke her up, smiled as she smiled back at me, then I planted a kiss on her, she loved it. On the 2nd date we kissed passionately then she blurted unexpectedly "no sex before marriage". O-kay. I didn't get angry or pushy. Wo…
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:30 AM
1

The golden ratio for body type is universal. A man is most attractive if he has broad shoulders, a narrow waist and small butt. There is a proper chest to waist to hip ratio that makes a person attractive no matter what their weight or fitness is. Katy Perry is a lump of flab in her mid-30s., her fitness is horrid but her proportions are pretty darn good, so millions masturbate to her pictures daily. There are bodybuilders who have insane muscles but exercise their core too much, so they end up …
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:09 AM
1

Attractiveness and fitness broadcasts to any woman that you take care of yourself and will make great babies. Its the same reason why PUA guys always want HB's and 10's.
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:04 AM
1

Most PUA guys look like retards. Fact is if a guy is good looking he doesn't need PUA. Even if he doesn't approach much, he will have just enough pussy fall into his lap to be content.
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:03 AM
1

MMF threesomes are called "Devil's Threesome" for a reason. Avoid at all costs. One minute you're having fun, the next minute you wake up with duct tape over your mouth, your ankles handcuffed to your wrists and you have a size 7 poop chute.
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:01 AM
1

When you pretend to be her friend you are lying and why would a girl trust a liar?
/r/seduction02/11/16 11:58 PM
1

you need a really good picture of yourself. something that makes you look cool, trendy, edgy
/r/seduction02/11/16 04:33 AM
1

As long as you are being honest about that, why question it?
/r/seduction02/11/16 02:00 AM
2

Glance at a girl who is cute, get some eye contact, smile. If she smiles back then there's potential for an approach. Kino should be avoided at the very first, the only initial kino that is acceptable is her hands, and maybe the waist if you are dancing and are spinning her or closer dancing. You should use eyes, and your smile to transmit to her your ambitions. Google this---> "cute guys" ----- What are most of them doing, smiling, looking approacheable and friendly. Forget about 2nd base for n…
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:38 AM
0

Most tinder girls just want to get fucked, perhaps you are giving off relationship vibes when all they really want is to get some dick and move on.
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:34 AM
1

Find another girl as soon as possible, you will be surprised how fast you forget your past relationship.
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:33 AM
4

Most of the success comes mainly from the fact you approached a girl, compared to not approaching a girl which guarantees a 100% failure rate at getting a chick.
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:31 AM
4

A kiss is not a close, you just found that out. You must establish trust and intimacy before you start fumbling inside her shirt. Building tension and expectations is part of that. She has to know whats coming, but not know exactly when, they like that.
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:14 AM
19

KFC, just bring a candelabra with you to make it more formal.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:38 PM
5

Never. I saw a man in his mid 70's dancing with some younger chicks at a club I frequented, turns out I recognized him, he was my primary care physician. There are also some clubs that have regular older clientele anyway so you are never a fish out of water.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:36 PM
1

Lift, oatz and squatz. A good body feeds into a good mind.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:13 AM
1

Confidence, intent. Don't hide the fact you want to fuck her, let those indicators of interest flow. Boldness can be rewarded. Nothing is more creepy than a guy who pretends to be this innocent gay friend and then pounces when she's not expecting it.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:10 AM
1

Just ask him. I had a buddy set me up with a co-worker girl, it worked out, I'm dating her now.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:07 AM
1

Of course we think about sex. Thats what women think about all the time too, read their magazines, full of articles about sex. Stick to your guns, you're a man and you should say there's nothing wrong with a man liking sex with a woman. She just wants to make you into a gay shopping buddy like the other guys she's hanging out with.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:06 AM
1

Alex from A Clockwork Orange
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:42 PM
1

You just found out the hard way that getting a phone number doesn't mean anything. Hot girls hand out their phone number all the time, doesn't mean they will call or text you back, they got voicemail and blocking. You have to develop a level of familiarity and emotional intimacy with her before you can claim success.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:41 PM
1

isn't that like trying to find pumpkins on halloween
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:40 PM
5

Dry humping in a park? You should have not told her you didn't enjoy it, thats a total buzzkill.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:39 PM
1

I would ask her if she has anything to drink, a little liquor reduces inhibitions.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:38 PM
8

If she's in a relationship thats a recipe for trouble.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:37 PM
1

Walk up to them, say hi and find out.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:35 PM
6

When you give off anxiety, you make the other person uncomfortable. Even in a job interview this is a bad thing.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:35 PM
1

Dude, I quit trick or treating when I was 12.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:30 PM
1

Because it is your privilege.
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:29 PM
1

They way they dress, and their self-confidence/self-esteem
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:29 PM
3

1 year of texting (facepalm)
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:22 AM
1

When a girl compliments you what are you not doing? Reciprocating...communicating.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:25 AM
2

I've fucked 3 co-workers, it isn't really much of a problem. Just never fuck the boss and never fuck a subordinate in your direct line of authority.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:24 AM
5

If the BF is much bigger than you, cancel.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:23 AM
3

ditch the emojis they're gay. Sarcasm is a negative emotion, jettison that too. You have a limited amount of words in order to build a story about yourself, preferably one of romance. Romanticism sounds wierd but it goes hand in hand with sexuality. If you use an openly sexual bio the you get lumped in with the thousands of other perverts that women ignore online. They want to hear about YOU, not your job, not about your car. Tell them about your goal in life, your plans, travel, etc. Make it in…
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:21 AM
1

Denny Terrio
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:15 AM
1

Sometimes people are just busy, not everybody is a party hound in school.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:14 AM
3

You are asking her out too soon, there has to be more of a familiarity level before you can go to the coffee date thing.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:13 AM
1

Be very friendly next time you see her, since you're already touchy feely when be very open with her, give her a long hug. Say "I think we should go out, whats at the movies..." Don't wait, ever. She will quickly lose interest and friend zone you.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:11 AM
2

Phone call, texting is not for romancing but for communicating basic info (let's eat, here's a picture of a monkey wearing a hat, when are you coming over, etc...). do all your seducing in person.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:09 AM
1

You have what most guys dream about, sex without attachments.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:08 AM
0

Well you can take the risk, get potentially sweet pussy, or you can pine over this girl FOREVER and 40 years from now think about what could have been to your grave.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:06 AM
-4

Don't drink, it ruins your judgment and makes you terrible in bed. If you really are that nervous, borrow one of your mom's hydrocodone pills, it will smooth you out and give you that comfortable warm feeling inside. Have one for her in case you two decide to pop prescription meds and fuck.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:04 AM
1

Girls like to show off their men, whats the big deal. When you hook up with a hottie aren't you eager to show her off to your buddies.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:03 AM
1

What seems to signal sexuality is when she stops talking....she gets a very "inviting" look on her face, then its time to get some action going.
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:01 AM
1

If she is really interested she will make time. I once had a girl who literally told me to my face she broke a date she had with another guy for me....okay that definitely meant interest.
/r/seduction26/10/16 03:59 AM
2

If its the 5th and 6th date and you haven't fingerblasted her to orgasm yet, you're doing something wrong. its possible she's dating somebody else and you just didn't pan out.
/r/seduction25/10/16 08:00 AM
1

You don't do that on the 1st date, ever. Its just creepy. Try sitting 90 degrees from her, that is a bit more intimate but not in interrogate mode (face to face).
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:58 AM
2

texting too much is always a problem. texting is supposed to be an introduction, calling means you are ramping up the interest. Waiting too long between initial contact and actual interest is a big problem and a ticket to the friend zone.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:55 AM
2

Some girls are shy, so they can give off "fuck off" signals even if they don't mean to. Thats why you have to learn about their personality when they're interacting with others.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:54 AM
1

Quit rating girls, find one that appeals to YOU, not some ridiculous PUA scale somebody else thought up.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:52 AM
1

Just one, its pain in the neck to juggle them.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:51 AM
2

Don't. That will occur during the relationship. If she feels it isn't working out for her in the manner she likes, she will simply end it. Don't be a douchebag and announce you just want sex. Remember even an FWB situation requires some level of intimacy and familiarity. If you have intimacy issues then even an FWB will be problematic for you, seek psychiatric help.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:49 AM
0

She doesn't want to get murdered, its a safety issue for many women. Just roll with it and don't insult her friends.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:48 AM
2

You must telegraph your intentions clearly, unless you want to end up as her gay shopping buddy. So far you're okay its early, just don't do the "text her for months" shit before acting. If you haven't tried something by the 5th date you are already her purse-holder.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:47 AM
2

Try calling him.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:20 AM
1

She was drunk and horny, she sobered up and realized what she had done so she skipped out.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:19 AM
1

Call her, don't text. If she doesn't call back, move on.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:41 AM
1

A classic: Wierd Science. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0090305/ Kelly LeBrock was a masturbatory fantasy for me and millions of other early teen guys.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:34 AM
1

You're assuming there's something wrong with a woman taking the initiative. You are choosing your men, you get what you want. Most women sit and wait for whatever drunk loser hits on them and accepts that as all they can get.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:16 AM
2

She's more interested in the other guy, forget about it.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:09 AM
2

Sometimes a tongue swirl is just a tongue swirl
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:08 AM
1

After the dance song is over, tell her "let's go get a drink". Then its conversation time. Every moment you spend with her escalates it. If a girl is interested she will spend as much time as possible with you. Heck even if you get separated she will seek you out.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:07 AM
1

You're the guy, girls generally are very passive and want a guy to call them first, text them, etc. Heck I've been dating my GF for 2 years and she still wants me decide where to eat.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:04 AM
3

You're asking for digits too soon. She needs to feel more comfortable around you.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:03 AM
5

She may genuinely be sick, don't bother her if she has the flu. A lot of times though they pull that to keep away from you, take the hint if that is the case.
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:02 AM
1

maybe they're using earpieces?
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:00 AM
1

If you get too muscular then you really look short, don't bulk up. Get muscular but stay thin too. Don't believe me? Okay get a Seventeen Magazine or a Cosmopolitian and look for the 'Cute Guys' section. The vast majority of the guys in the pages are not muscle hunks.
/r/seduction24/10/16 12:57 AM
3

Quit talking about yourself, or talking about "i got this friend that" kind crap, she doesn't care about them.
/r/seduction23/10/16 11:42 PM
1

Dance with them, you can touch their hands, shoulders, waist, pretty safe touch zones while dancing. Relocate to a quieter part of the party so you 2 can talk.
/r/seduction23/10/16 11:41 PM
1

Don't ask her out, phrase it as a statement. We should grab a cup of coffee sometime.
/r/seduction23/10/16 11:34 PM
1

Some people are just boring, and have a reputation for it.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:48 PM
-1

Tinder is good for getting laid, don't expect much else.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:27 PM
2

No don't sprout arms in the taxi, all that stuff is for later at your place, just keep the tension up with closeness and eye gazes, maybe a wink and a smile to give her an indication that you will be doing a lot with her later on.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:26 PM
1

I knew a guy named Mohammed who just went by Mo. Women are more concerned about your religion than your ethnicity. If you're a muslim it will bring up red flags with many of them. You might as well be honest, deception is not a good way to earn a girl's heart.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:24 PM
2

If you think you need to improve your clothing and grooming...you do.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:22 PM
3

Bars are great if you want to date alcoholics
/r/seduction23/10/16 04:45 AM
1

Just because your dick doesn't work anymore doesn't mean you lose interest in women. I briefly took some meds but hated the lack of boners, turns out I wasn't depressed I just hated my job, so I quit. Take advantage of the mind-smoothing effects, talk to women and quit worrying about the outcome of the convo so much.
/r/seduction23/10/16 04:44 AM
0

Try a shy girl.
/r/seduction23/10/16 04:43 AM
1

The cool part about dancing is you don't have to talk to her while you're doing it. Just get your groove on.
/r/seduction23/10/16 04:42 AM
1

You have a narrow interest window, she gives off signals you are supposed to respond. If you don't she tosses you into the friend zone...forever.
/r/seduction23/10/16 04:41 AM
1

Have her write on your back on your t-shirt, its just a $5.00 shirt.
/r/seduction23/10/16 02:14 AM
1

A lot of guys would prefer it be anime
/r/seduction23/10/16 02:08 AM
1

watch?v=EC8X-btgrzk The first 10 minutes is absolutely painful to watch, or hilarious if you are in the right mindset. Mystery is a total dork in a fur hat.
/r/seduction23/10/16 02:06 AM
2

I would just say "I don't pay attention to guys, don't ask me"
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:42 AM
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Who has time for female friends?
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:41 AM
1

If she likes you enough she will see you again.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:40 AM
1

Put your arms on your hips with your palms out and exclaim to her "Well you bitch!"
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:17 AM
1

Most guys want to fuck every girl they know regardless. Its just a genetic thing with us. You DO realize you can do both, have a female friend and still occasionally fuck her.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:15 AM
1

Girls hand out numbers easily but that means little. Make sure you know the "loser line" of your local radio station and keep it in your phone just in case she hands that out to you as hers.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:14 AM
1

She has another dude, this much is obvious.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:12 AM
0

What'cha drinkin?
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:11 AM
5

Chuck-e-cheese. Art galleries, carnivals, medieval fairs, miscellaneous outdoor festivals.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:09 AM
1

Here's the deal. Even if its just a mutual fuckbuddy /scrog partner whatever kind of thing, when you announce you don't want to have sex anymore its a rejection, and nobody likes to get rejected. The only woman that won't take a rejection harshly is a hooker.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:06 AM
1

"Then I said something to the effect of "But for real though, I think you're really cute and you seem like a lot of fun. If you really do want to hang out, text me at [phone number]. If not, you don't have to worry about me ever bothering you ever again (we have a class together), but we both know that would be the real loss here (shit eating grin emoji)." Wow, where do I start. You put yourself below her by asking her rather than phrasing it as a statement, you demeaned yourself and then you us…
/r/seduction23/10/16 12:52 AM
1

Girls are smart, I'm sure she figured it out by now.
/r/seduction23/10/16 12:50 AM
1

"Your young age is huge problem to me" said NO MAN EVER
/r/seduction23/10/16 12:49 AM
2

Keep dating her, think of her as a present you can't open until her birthday comes up.
/r/seduction23/10/16 12:44 AM
1

Not all women like to make decisions, they may feel its the guys role. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:05 AM
2

Pretend she's a friend you already know. Do you ever freeze up when your friend calls you and wants you to hang out?
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:04 AM
1

Nothing wrong with falling in love.
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:02 AM
1

Reminds me of the infamous story about a girl who was playing pool with her BF and his friend, and she jokingly made a bet that she would suck his friends cock if he won the next round, he did and she sucked his dick right there, then showed her boyfriend the cum in her mouth. You know, there's a point when you just gotta say....so long.
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:01 AM
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Your apartment/house gives a woman a lasting impression, good or bad. I once went out with a girl and she reluctantly let me in her apartment. I found out she was a hoarder, holy crap that place was a shithole. Needless to say she didn't get a 2nd date.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:59 AM
2

CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN. No filthy anything, girls get grossed out easily. Your bedroom should be neat, move your man-child things to another room (no PS4/Xbone, Iron Man posters, plastic models, etc...). Stay away from scents, just make sure the room is clean including the floor or carpet. Ideally it should smell like NOTHING, no dirty socks, no spooge, no sweat. The bed should have fresh sheets, plain colors, no flowery shit. No pillows or stuffed animals if possible, maybe 1-2 accent pillows at the…
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:55 AM
3

Just invite her to lunch, you can determine if she's there for the nasty or a free meal.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:38 AM
0

College can be tough, if you don't snag a chick early in the semester its likely they have all been paired up with dudes. You may want to go to college parties so you know the chicks unattached and are there to score.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:37 AM
1

Interesting, how did you recover from porn? Just asking...for a friend.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:35 AM
1

She doesn't like you, I don't like you either. We're wanted men, I have the death sentence on 12 systems. Seriously though, it sounds like you broadcasted your interest too her a bit too much and was like a puppy dog.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:35 AM
1

Mommy
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:33 AM
1

Avoid erogenous zones when you massage her, so she feels like she's in control. If she wants you to feel her up she will move your hand(s) to the spot.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:32 AM
1

The ideal body is "ottermode", thin but muscular. Only a tiny segment of girls like the Jersey Shore musclehead type.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:31 AM
2

Good way to get expelled.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:30 AM
5

We start kissing and making out and I suggest that we "lie down".
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:29 AM
4

Vegas baby
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:28 AM
1

have her write her number on your hand, its so highschool
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:58 PM
1

Well thats not good, at worst its gonorrhea, at best its a simple staph infection or yeast infection. Remember her vagina has had 10,000+ penises in it before and pimps don't provide health care plans.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:57 PM
1

Take that bag, march up to her and say "what is the meaning of this?" hold it up and smile.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:52 PM
1

Call the cops anyway he might be on probation
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:38 PM
2

Nearly all PUA is a scam, look at the so-called Pickup Artists, they're wierd looking, they have squeaky voices, they dress like retards and even they way they interact with guys is pretty moronic and childish. They count on the fact that PUA students are so backwards socially they will fall for any snake oil salesman.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:28 PM
1

Nothing wrong with being skinny, that means you can wear clothes that most guys can't. There's a reason why cargo pants, baggy t-shirts and sandals are popular because fat guys can wear them too. Try dressing really trendy, get some nice shoes, girls notice shoes! Hit the thrift stores, you will find plenty of nice jackets that are nearly new that are given away because they're for smaller thinner guys and they got fat and had to get rid of them. A blazer can make nearly any outfit look better, …
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:26 PM
1

Don't overthink this. Women aren't very good at thinking clearly when it comes to relationships. She has feelings, her BF was kinda in the way, now he's gone, and she wants to get with you. Seems pretty obvious you should go for it. I don't know what you mean about being "2nd option" I'm sure she has had numerous previous boyfriends. If you think like that you probably are her 17th option. Think how silly that rationale is.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:22 PM
1

Its not a problem at all, just remember to not ignore her friend and treat both of them with equal amounts of attention. If she gets a thumbs up from her friend in that regard, you're in.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:20 PM
1

it can and probably will ruin your friendship but hey its a risk.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:19 PM
1

Black and white photos can make you look edgy and cool
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:18 PM
1

"bite her", are you a serial killer? You might try to work on your sexy talk a bit. You should have focused on a fun activity you two can do together rather than just making out in a car. Tinder girls tend to date A LOT so she tossed you into the 'boring guys' bin.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:17 PM
1

About 1 out of every 3. I don't approach much but then again I don't need to, not into having a black book because my life isn't just about chasing women.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:14 PM
1

Join one of the many clubs in college, book club, swing dance, bird watching, whatever. The goal is to expose yourself to more human interaction in general so your social anxiety goes away.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:13 PM
1

Lots of people focus on career and eschew relationships for a time.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:12 PM
1

Yes it does with experience and time.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:10 PM
2

its a nervous habit. I hate wearing rings so I tend to do that when I wear one. I also like spinning my pen in my hand at work during staff meetings.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:09 PM
1

WHY? There's nothing wrong at all with showing your emotions to a woman, if you want a deep loving relationship then go for it. If she didn't well then you two were not meant for each other.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:08 PM
2

You should have just fucked a fat female friend. Hookers are a HORRIBLE introduction to the world of sex. Its supposed to be fun and innocent and make you want more. Stay away from the sex trade, its not worth it.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:06 PM
8

I saw a Mystery undercover video and he literally bored the shit out of women he talked to, only guys tended to stay which probably is not the desired outcome. You can tell he's borderline Aspergers just from his conversation skills.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:04 PM
5

Bangbus isn't fake either. Totally real.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:03 PM
-1

Wygant is successful because he's handsome for a guy almost 50 years old, and he has a natural style that is pretty darn hard to teach but he does make a good effort of it. The problem with PUA is its full of retards that think they can continue to be neckbeards and pull 10's.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:02 PM
1

Thats what the date is for, to build rapport and clear up the first time jitters and awkwardness. Game on.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:53 AM
1

Treat them as a single unit, give equal attention, equal time and keep them together if possible. Eventually they will come to a decision for you which one you will have, its a woman thing.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:14 AM
1

You waited too damn long, WEEKS??? Freaking call her, quit with the girly text shit, and don't put fucking emojis in your stuff.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:12 AM
1

Now you know how to pick up girls. Why not have a relationship with her? Whats the big deal.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:10 AM
1

CALL her, don't text her,sheesh. You aren't showing enough interest and using up romantic capital on her, so she's going to blow you off because why should she bother with a distant guy.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:04 AM
1

Their mental image of you is totally blown the moment your personality comes out. Imagine James Bond suddenly acting all nervous around girls. Doesn't matter how Sean Connery looks if he did that.
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:03 AM
2

NEVER ask if they have a boyfriend, ever. You should have laughed at her joke BTW (yeah can you smell it?). You kind of turned a convo into an interrogation, so she got pretty pissy.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:58 PM
1

It doesn't mean anything, some stores have policies to put goofy messages on customers bags.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:56 PM
1

About once a week because of our very busy work schedules. Basically we fuck every time we see each other.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:56 PM
1

She's not 19, probably 13.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:54 PM
-2

He was hitting on you, dude. I had something like that happen to me once and I found out later he was G A Y
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:52 PM
7

Yes just say hi, but better yet say it when she's standing, not moving. A drive by "Hi" isn't going to work. You're in college, everybody wants to get laid, everybody.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:43 PM
1

Don't pick up girls at the gym. Nearly all of them are there to work out not socialize.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:42 PM
1

Of course.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:41 PM
0

Just be moody and somber, some girls like the reclusive creative types.
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:20 AM
1

Just roll with it. If she's friendly, be friendly back, she is wanting feedback.
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:17 AM
1

Autistic men hardly ever get laid, but they usually turn out to be fine Linux programmers and wizards
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:10 AM
1

Get used to it you will never tire of having sex.
/r/seduction16/10/16 03:24 PM
1

Google "cute guy". What are the majority of them doing? They're smiling. They look approchable, they look friendly, they don't look super-macho. Google "creepy guy". What are the majority of them doing? Staring, making wierd faces, not smiling.
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:06 PM
11

All men want to fuck their female friends, even if she's average looking. Its just the way we are.
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:03 PM
1

Look for something in the photo and ask about it. she may provide more photos of her that way if you express interest in something she wears, a dog she is holding or if she's standing next to a vehicle or whatever.
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:00 PM
1

Yes. One was old and drunk, another was a black girl at a bar who I didn't really fancy, one was a mid-40s woman with tattoos while I was pumping gas, and one was a co-worker. Most girls assume you will approach them, they don't have the guts to do it.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:58 PM
2

Talk and be friendly to her whole group, if you ignore her friends you will be considered an ass. after awhile you can focus on her and then if she likes you she will readily separate from her group to hang with you.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:56 PM
9

Most guys are filthy, a clean guy has about a 75% better chance with women. Wash your balls, toss your idiotic cargo shorts, get a proper haircut and for god's sake don't wear what your moron friends wear.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:55 PM
2

Make use of that female friend. Go out on a fake date and have her evaluate what you are doing wrong. You may be surprised what is putting you in the friend zone.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:49 PM
1

Internet dating is so easy, you are under no obligation at all to respond. Its not like your mom is setting you up with the next door neighbor girl. I really don't do internet dating, the few dates I've been on made me realize why these girls needed to get on the internet to find guys. They're all wackos.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:47 PM
1

An ironic thing that those girls perhaps are reading PUA books for women and you are making them wonder why it doesn't work.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:46 PM
1

Yes, PUA has been a massive scam. Do you honestly think a $3000 5-day "bootcamp" can instanly make you better with women? I probably will get banned for this but the majority of PUA scammers are Jewish. Its been a successful scam run for decades now and there is a steady stream of naive guys willing to shell out hard earned cash for fast food level psychology and ridiculous, worthless video and audio content. Want to know how women think? Read THEIR dating books.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:45 PM
2

Was she really in your Spanish class? You at least opened, you made a baby step. You should have said "Oh darn I was hoping you were" and then have a convo.
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:03 AM
1

Just make a single friend, thats how you get into a social circle. Don't be in such a hurry either, it can take weeks before you even get familar with everybody's names and faces and they have to get familiar with you too.
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:00 AM
2

Conversational skills. Looks get your foot in the door but if you are gifted with words then its pretty easy.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:59 AM
1

London, sheesh aren't there plenty of nice upscale pubs there?
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:58 AM
1

I'm 50 and hooked up with a MILF pretty quickly. I'm short, have adult acne and frankly am not that attractive. My appeal is mainly that I'm a good listener and make women feel relaxed when they're around me.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:57 AM
2

ask your frat brothers if they have an inside scoop. They maybe can match you up with an eligible sorority girl.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:55 AM
1

games? why would you play a game? take her to an arcade.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:53 AM
2

She's sucked your dick dude, you should already be comfortable enough around her to not worry about how to act. When you show up at her place and she opens the door, put your arm around her waist and pull her body to yours roughly, then plant a very deliberate kiss.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:52 AM
-1

She sounds like a rather slutty girl, you might want to reconsider.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:48 AM
0

Not a big fan of Neil Strauss, the game is a made up story, and Neil is a short balding guy with a high voice and a stutter who wears cheap shiny shirts. Mystery is pretty much assburgers, and his game is so terrible it doesn't even work against gay guys. A conversation with a woman shouldn't go sexual right off the bat, the whole point is to get to know them. Girls are used to being hit on by lechers, so their armor shield goes up pretty quickly when they detect that. Look at David Wygant's stu…
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:37 AM
3

POF, plenty of fat girls to date
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:33 AM
1

Virginity I choose YOU
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:32 AM
1

Its 2016 but women won't approach, get used to it. Only strippers and hookers will approach you cold. They literally want you to approach, read their dating books, they think its the man's job. Its really not that hard because you are just doing the first step they generally do the rest as long as you pay attention to their eyes not their breasts.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:31 AM
5

Wait a minute, 7 months of PUA and still haven't fucked or kissed. You're definitely doing something wrong or misinterpreting what you think is a success. You really need to work on your closing rather than your opening.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:29 AM
1

Beethoven was a shitty piano player his 1st time
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:25 AM
1

Just slow down a bit, kick back and talk more deliberately.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:24 AM
1

Keep trying its Highschool dude, its not like you will see these folks again when you graduate.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:23 AM
1

She looks at you 3 times.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:14 AM
5

Be nice, friendly and remember she wants you to take her places, show her things, introduce her to new stuff. Be her tour guide to a new life. Don't game a shy girl she can easily get hurt in even a minor misunderstanding.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:13 AM
1

Online dating is bad for both, its like a meat market and the only advantage is sheer numbers. You can't just pick 1-2 matches and hope, because they're messaging 50+ matches, good luck if you make the cut. You have to pick a lot of women and see what happens.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:11 AM
2

Don't say that, say "So what are you doin' this week". This gives her the opportunity to talk about herself and if she's interested she will be thinking of a day slot to fit you in.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:09 AM
2

Never text them, call them. A text is low on the totem pole of importance to a girl, they get 100+ texts a day so yours can easily get lost in the flood.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:07 AM
1

Girls with low self esteem you should be straightforward with. They love the attention since they're not used to getting any. Treat them like they're the only girl on the planet, its pretty easy. Remember they are the kind of girls that don't get social cues very well so they're a lot like guys in that respect. They're almost immune to dropping romantic hints because they're too shy to be paying attention.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:06 AM
2

giggling isn't necessarily effeminate. Perhaps the real problem is you're laughing at your own jokes.
/r/seduction10/10/16 05:01 AM
1

Talk slower and more deliberate, it also lowers your voice. Women are more attracted to a lower male voice. I knew a guy who had this really deep gruff voice and more than a few co-worker women remarked they loved it when he said "hello ____" in the hallway just to hear his voice.
/r/seduction10/10/16 05:00 AM
1

You have to become comfortable in your own skin first. True you have a spooky skeleton inside you but don't be afraid of him. Get rid of the jewfro BTW, wow thats some seriously wierd hair.
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:58 AM
1

Netflix and chill.
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:57 AM
1

Clothing? Hygiene, hair (facial, head). Have somebody analyze your game with a girl. 90% of human interaction is nonverbal. Your 10% verbal may be great but it isn't enough.
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:56 AM
0

Valium can be pretty strong, and you don't want to mix it with liquor ever. you might try something a bit less powerful like a low dose beta blocker, which can have a calming effect. You might go the natural route with Valerian. Stay away from caffeine, dump the habit entirely it can make your nervous condition worse. Cocoa can be calming too but chocolate has caffeine so it offsets any possible benefits.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:26 AM
1

Keep your apartment clean, preferably spotless when she's over. Decorate but don't be a faggot about it, no doilys or gay fluffy pillows. Have a nice stereo system. Stock your fridge, have bottled water. Put away anything potentially embarassing like your shit stained underwear or dirty magazines. No dishes in the sink, ever. Lighting is important, make sure your lamps are placed in areas that make sense. Have different kinds of liquor, and fruit juices in the fridge in case she wants to make mi…
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:21 AM
1

5 years, sheesh marry her already or break up. You're doing neither, no wonder she's frustrated.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:15 AM
1

I don't drink at all at the club. You sound like you're a little out of control while drinking, girls are kind of repelled by a drunk.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:14 AM
1

I think the world is a bit different from the 1700s. I knew a guy who cried after sex, that was just wierd and the girl he fucked thought so too.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:10 AM
1

Thats why they're at the club. Its like going to a bowling alley and complaining about all the pins getting knocked down. Of course its happening there. If a girl looks at you, try smiling. Nobody likes a 1000 yard stare, girls think its a serial killer look and guys see it as a "I'm gonna kick your ass" look.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:09 AM
2

I've dated tall girls, a lot of them are self-conscious about their height so if you don't make an issue of it the better (aka don't ask them if they play basketball or is the weather nice up there). Tall girls want to have fun too.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:06 AM
1

Bartenders get hit on a lot, but it doesn't mean you won't succeed.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:05 AM
1

You should have asked her where she was from, as she indicated she was not familiar with the area. This is known as a conversation starter and you were supposed to reciprocate. If it really was just an oyster inquiry she would have said thanks and cut you off from further convo.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:04 AM
1

Confidence, poise, dress, hygiene, eye contact, positivity, relaxation, assertiveness.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:01 AM
3

CALL her the next day. Don't ever wait a couple of days. Texting is not the same thing as calling.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:57 AM
3

I don't use routines at all. The problem is when you're dishing out a routine you're really not listening to her at all, so when you're done with your story then you have that awkward part where you have to figure out what to do next. You haven't even made a connection yet.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:56 AM
1

Get a hobby, focus on you a bit. A worldly man knows things, does things.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:54 AM
1

The magic secret to all flirting....listen to what she is saying. Women are so used to guys not listening to them even in a conversation they really do get shocked when they find a guy that listens to them, understands and cares what they say, and remembers what they said days later. The art of listening is something you should learn. Pushing PUA stories to her won't work.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:53 AM
1

If you aren't getting the 2nd date, the 1st date definitely didn't go well. Internet dating is like speed dating, chances are she's comparing you to 10 other guys and you're not even the bronze medalist to her at the finish.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:51 AM
1

Move on, language difficulties can be punishing.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:49 AM
1

Dating a co-worker is fine as long as it doesn't interfere with the workplace. The last thing a boss needs is lovebirds who can't keep their hands off each other. Invite her to dinner and promise her its going to be food that is completely different from what you sling there at the restaurant.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:48 AM
1

Women love babies and children, being a single dad is not always a bad thing.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:46 AM
1

Try enjoying life a bit and learning to love. Women are not hunting trophys.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:46 AM
1

I'm dating an office girl, no big deal. its great because you already know a person generally so you have determined she's not a psycho and you have a bit of a background on her through office contacts and interactions. Just don't date your boss or date somebody in your direct line of authority and you will do fine. Don't "ask" her out. Have a conversation with her, hopefully an interesting one and say that she's fun to talk to and you and her should have lunch together. Lunch is great, its less…
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:44 AM
1

Why is she on Tinder if she has a boyfriend
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:40 AM
1

The first date is always just a resume'. Both of you are looking each other over determining suitability. The 2nd date is when you start doing some stuff. Don't be nervous on the 2nd date you should already be relaxed and ready for fun. Thats what she's there for, not mauled by a horndog. That stuff is for the 5th date...
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:39 AM
1

A text is not an invite, call her. Women believe a call is much more important than a text. Women text 200 times a day.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:35 AM
1

Goin to town!
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:34 AM
1

Its more like plain old socializing. You must think social to be social. Women can smell hunters a mile away and they like fisherman even less, dangling your thingy hoping it will get a bite. That didn't work for Elliott Rodger and it won't work for you either.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:33 AM
1

Call her the next day, don't fucking text her. don't say "hi its myname we chatted in the gym" Call her and say "sup gym girl, what are you doin?" and be relaxed when you say it. Make a plan, girls want you to know where they're going. They hate it when you say "where do you want to go?". if she has a different preference anyways she will mention it. If it doesn't work out don't be freaked out and cancel your gym membership.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:30 AM
-1

Just respond "what you don't like jailbait?" (yes its a joke). Tell her you will go out with her if she buys you a balloon. make it in a playful way that its silly to discriminate over such a small age margin.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:26 AM
1

The only options are her hands. don't be rubbing up against her or massaging other body parts. Something as simple as "wow you have really nice hands" and take her hand and smile as you look at it, compliment her nails (assuming she took time to do them up, otherwise it will seem odd you are saying it) and mention her skin is soft. ask her what she does to keep them that way. girls love talking about their cleansing regimens for some reason, they really are more than just soap and toothpaste lik…
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:23 AM
2

You are going to her lair, so let her seduce you. Enjoy the free food and make her feel like you are really having a nice time. If things go well she won't have any interest in studying at all.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:19 AM
1

Not necessarily, but you should on the 2nd date. You have to ramp up the interest on the 2nd. Women are looking for cues from you too, if you're not at least holding hands she may think you just don't like her.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:18 AM
1

College is a great place to get laid, everybody there wants to have sex. You have to work on your eye contact, body movement. Practice in a mirror, you may be shocked at what you are doing unconsciously
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:16 AM
2

That actually works if you know what you're doing.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:14 AM
1

Start with a kiss. Anything else is just groping.
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:14 AM
1

Looking and Feeling better is its own reward.
/r/seduction08/10/16 02:47 PM
1

90% of human interaction is nonverbal. She may have gotten a bad vibe from you. Work on that by practicing in a mirror.
/r/seduction08/10/16 02:41 PM
1

"Ok" then walk away.
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:26 AM
1

If you and your GF are tight then its not even an issue, but probably funny for both you and her to witness.
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:25 AM
1

Watch the movie "The Hottie and the Nottie" and pay attention to the Johann Wulrich character, how he acts.
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:05 AM
1

chess club, medieval fairs
/r/seduction02/10/16 09:02 AM
1

Work becomes your life after college, enjoy being in school you will never get that back.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:55 AM
1

Let them fight it out over you, stay out of it.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:53 AM
1

Smile back. Don't do the 1000 yard stare
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:51 AM
1

She's never heard that before
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:41 AM
1

Ottermode body
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:40 AM
1

You're supposed to have feelings.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:40 AM
1

make sure they didn't give you the number to your local radio station's "Loser Line"
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:38 AM
1

Netflix and chill
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:36 AM
2

is she a biker?
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:36 AM
1

There are 2 kinds of smiles, the forced smile and the real smile. the forced smile does not involve eye squinting, a real smile does.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:32 AM
1

Making friends is a lot like dating. If you're uncomfortable, you make others uncomfortable around you.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:31 AM
1

NEVER ask if they have a boyfriend.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:29 AM
2

You came on too strong and she may actually be busy, students get pretty pissed at anybody who intrudes when they're trying to do homework.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:28 AM
1

The guy really needs to work on his hair and clothing
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:25 AM
1

What's your hurry. Traditionally you shouldn't get into sex until the 5th date.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:24 AM
2

"Does this mean we will have to fight to the death for her?"
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:22 AM
1

Nice guys aren't actually nice, they're devious. Women can smell that a mile away.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:21 AM
2

Go slow. I have an amazing story, I dated a 26 year old girl who was not only a virgin but never kissed either. On the 1st date I was friendly, fun and generous but avoided making too much contact until later in the date, then held her hand and she reciprocated. We went back to her apartment she insisted I sleep there because the drive was too far for me to go home and it was late, I thanked her and slept on the couch. Before we went to sleep I gave her a quick peck on the lips and told her I wa…
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:16 AM
1

Walk into the room, stand in the entrance for a few seconds, put your arms on your hips and just nod your head a few times in approval, scanning the place for chicks. Then head to the bar, get a brew and post up there for a bit to see whats available in the chick market.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:09 AM
1

I have an 8" dick but it didn't help my confidence. I assumed everybody had an 8" dick...who knew! You just have to get out there, there might be a woman who is into half-indian guys. I knew a chick who was fascinated with muslim men, god knows why. I knew another white chick who only dated mexicans...I'm talking like illegal alien mexicans not americanized ones. You never know what a woman really wants.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:07 AM
1

I have a friend who simply yells "Go on, git!" to the guy when it happens to him. Granted, he is from the country.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:02 AM
1

Maybe you're picking up the wrong girls.
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:01 AM
1

Whats the big deal about paying? Men have been paying for dinner since OOG the caveman 150,000 years ago brought bananas and meat to MUK whom he liked. Think of a woman as an investment.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:59 AM
1

Don't even bother, you never know a smart girl may like a really dumb guy. Just show interest in her things, even if you don't understand a technical word she's saying
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:56 AM
1

You have to create a story in her head. You have to be playful yet direct. Women like scenarios. You could have said you're a banker and she was getting a loan, and she would pay in kisses.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:55 AM
3

walk over to a curb, hop down off the curbside so she's higher
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:42 AM
5

You're in the friend zone. Just say "okay" and don't be a little bitch about it. She may still be unsure if she wants to get with you, but its very likely she already made up her mind.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:40 AM
1

Try to be more receptive to girls, when they say hi, say hi back, if hey stare, say hi anyway.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:37 AM
-2

Fuck a fat female friend. She will appreciate it and the chance of her having any really nasty diseases is much lower than an escort. Escorts are a terrible introduction to sex.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:36 AM
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Never use emojis, its just gay
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:35 AM
1

Maybe she wants to dance and have fun. You're not some stray dog humping the air, you're a person presumably in control of your sexual urges.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:34 AM
7

Nice guys aren't really nice. They're deceptive, hoping that pretending to be nice gets them in the sack with you. A proper man will simply state what he wants, because honesty is the best policy.
/r/seduction02/10/16 12:19 AM
2

Can't you see how sexy I am?
/r/seduction29/09/16 01:33 AM
1

If she likes you it works. Its risky for her to give you her number, women have to accept a level of risk because of wierdos, stalkers and other male vermin. You giving her your number is of little risk to you, the worst she can do is throw it away. Just NEVER EVER give her your business card.
/r/seduction29/09/16 01:27 AM
1

A conversation should never be an interrogation.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:33 AM
2

Never text a 2nd date, call her. Women don't consider a text message to have as much importance as a call.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:31 AM
10

Invariably in such a situation no does mean no.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:30 AM
1

Just make sure your wingmen and friends you hang with are less attractive than you.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:29 AM
1

Practice not lisping, and speak slower than you normally would, do it with purpose. It has the added effect of making you seem more mature and you automatically lower your voice. women are more attracted to a low voice.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:27 AM
1

Nah, they can be a conversation piece
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:25 AM
1

You have to present yourself as something other than a friend, and that means dressing well, looking good and being manly. She will have to look at you as a possible sexual partner. Good luck, the friend zone is almost always a black hole.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:24 AM
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Give her your number, tell her call you if she likes. She may not but she will have a number and maybe a few weeks down the road when she's feeling lonely she will ring you up
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:23 AM
1

Take the hint
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:16 PM
2

Very Elliott Rodger it is...
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:15 PM
5

You don't have to kiss at the end of the first date, no need to force it. She could very well have been sick, its thai food, cleanliness and thai aren't usually associated with each other. Reserve judgments for the 2nd date.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:14 PM
1

The trick with intimacy is simple, give your attention to her, don't think about yourself. Also, don't worry about intimacy so much as a thing, just let it happen, let the force flow through you.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:11 PM
1

You should never be an asshole, you're just misinterpreting what it means to be alpha
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:09 PM
9

Look out for my cousin shes a total slut
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:06 PM
1

Its not a bad place to pick up girls, but you do have to remember that many girls are there with very sick relatives and are distracted and don't want to be bothered. Others may just be there for tests or just visiting, so you never know. Still, a waiting room can be a place to socialize and get to know somebody, just don't treat it like its a singles bar.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:05 PM
1

Actually no, in the old days one of the best ways to pick up women was at funerals, and often the widow herself was up for grabs.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:03 PM
1

Bars are great if you want to pick up alcoholic women.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:19 AM
1

Women don't want to be perceived as easy/sleazy. That doesn't mean they're not sucking random penises every weekend though.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:18 AM
1

Muscles, they don't care about your anime collection, they just want to smoosh.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:17 AM
1

She's jumping up and down saying "choose me".
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:16 AM
1

It depends on your objective. Some PUA's use it for ego-stroking, others just use it for mindless sex, some actually are looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:14 AM
1

When a girl initiates physical contact she wants you to reciprocate in some manner. Safest touch areas are her hands, not her butt.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:05 AM
1

beta blockers
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:03 AM
2

Kino is the art of getting her to do it, while you are accepting of her continuing to do it. They must feel like they're in control of how far and how much. Girls don't like touchy/grabby guys.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:02 AM
1

the host should avoid hooking up, his role is to keep the party going for his guests.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:00 AM
1

How many times did you try riding a bicycle before you actually succeeded?
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:59 AM
1

Business suit, clear raincoat, and axe
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:58 AM
1

"You look like you need a blowjob..." Yes, yes I do thanks.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:54 AM
1

Older women tend to be more direct, they aren't much into all the dating particulars and rituals that younger women demand. Just be friendly and show interest, they usually do the rest.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:53 AM
1

I know a guy who collects female friends, he occasionally fucks them too, but is friends with them and never really gets rid of them.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:47 AM
5

Never, ever send your weiner to her
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:44 AM
1

You want to stand out in class, not blend in. There's a reason why male peacocks have outlandish feathers.
/r/seduction21/09/16 07:43 AM
1

A kiss is not a close, don't think it ever could be. You have to be willing to spend quality time with her. A human being at any time can change their mind. They're thinking beings. I once had a date with a girl, kissed her, got her number and she told me outright to call her. I called her and she changed her mind about us...it happens.
/r/seduction18/09/16 08:59 PM
7

You have intimacy and self-esteem issues.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:17 AM
3

Swivel your head and smile at them, its not like they will attack you or anything.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:16 AM
8

Don't be too eager, relish her body like its a fine wine. Girls don't like Minutemen, or two-pump chumps.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:15 AM
1

FRIEND ZONE. You need to up the ante while you are both sober and not high so there's no misunderstanding, but it sounds like you are now the dreaded BFF, where she will tell you all about her boyfriend problems and relationships.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:13 AM
1

You can pick up hoes in a retirement home if you still got the game at 80. You're never too old, it gets easier though because adult women usually have their shit together, so you can bypass some of the typical rituals you needed to do in your teens.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:11 AM
1

I pay no more than $15 for a haircut. Find out what places give the best cuts and be a regular. Super cuts is a bad place because its a chain and there's high turnaround, most employees there don't even consider hair cutting a career. I go to a small local business where each stylist is their own boss, they just rent the chair at the shop. Those folks know hair and they do it for a living, and yes its okay to tip a few bucks. There's this trend towards manscaping where men's haircuts are $30 or …
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:09 AM
1

A touch to her hand signals to her that you're knocking it up a notch in intimacy, meaning "its okay to hold hands now" and such. Once that level of comfort is established you will find she gets very touchy feely all of a sudden ( assuming she likes you)
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:05 AM
1

Approaching a 9/10 girl can be tough, she's used to being hit on a dozen times a day.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:04 AM
1

Cute nerdy can work! Girls like a nerdy guy if he dresses trendy and emphasizes his nerdiness. Remember there's loser spazz nerd and cute nerd. The cute nerd cares about his appearance. There is a certain segment of women who will go for a nerdy guy like a gorilla to a pile of bananas, but you have to look the part. Bing -> "cute nerdy guy", look at images. They're dressed well, they have awesome hair, their glasses emphasize their nerdiness, but they're still trendy ones. Don't be afraid to wea…
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:02 AM
1

Get fit. You have to work on yourself first. women do this all the time, they get depressed so they blow a bunch of cash on a hairdo, nails, facial, massage and clothes. Sounds silly but they feel better and look better and it improves the self-esteem. Buy a Cosmopolitan magazine, look at the "cute guys" section, dress like them.
/r/seduction16/09/16 02:58 AM
1

Don't ask if she's free, propose a place to go to (art museum, pastry and coffee shop, whatever...) and invite her. Texting should be fun, don't be all serious and methodical. There's no hard and fast rule about how long to wait. Don't bore her with "i had a good time and want to see you again", ugh. Text her a funny picture, don't be dull.
/r/seduction16/09/16 02:56 AM
1

Self-Improvement will get you pretty far in life. Having game just helps that much more, but if you have cheetos in your neckbeard and still think cargo pants and sandals are sexy, there's nothing I can do for you.
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:42 AM
10

How to pick up girls: Be good looking
/r/seduction14/09/16 01:01 AM
1

What the fuck? If you want to hit on a girl just tell her she's beautiful, don't jump straight to the date offer. You have to get some conversation in before you do that. Oh and don't ask her out, phrase it as a statement, like "we should go out sometime." See what I just did. Adding "we" makes her visualize the two of you together, and its an implication that you will be taking charge of the date and all she has to do is show up, plus its not passive. Asking her out sounds less confident.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:17 AM
2

Keep it to yourself, we don't wanna hear about that shit
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:12 AM
1

Aren't they all for beginners? Try David Wygant.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:11 AM
1

Discuss PUA pickup techniques then, you have something in common.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:09 AM
1

Mystery's videos are pretty telling, he seems better at picking up guys than girls.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:08 AM
1

text her something funny, like a picture of a monkey on rollerskates, maybe you're just boring her.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:06 AM
2

Its always ugly, and if it isn't then neither of you had anything worth keeping in the first place.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:05 AM
0

develop a texting style. if you're a guy never use emoticons, thats just gay
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:04 AM
2

If you barely know her, don't, just don't. Its something only lovers and hairdressers do, you don't want her to think you're a hairdresser.
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:03 AM
1

There's a stereotype that asian men are effeminate, if you're the clown / joker type it can make you seem sexless and less masculine. you don't want to be that guy, you want a woman to consider you a possible sex partner. Teasing a girl is a rather useless tactic unless you wrap it in a compliment
/r/seduction12/09/16 10:01 AM
1

when she's talking, look at her face. when you're talking, you can shift your eyes away while you're formulating your thoughts and such, but go back to looking at her face again. Also give her cues you're listening, a nod here, a smile, some blinks. that lets her know you're not wandering off mentally.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:59 AM
1

Don't drink too much, the moment you give her mad beer breath when you say "hi" she generally will walk off, nobody likes a drunk. The other thing is YOU have to take command of the convo. She is taking the chance and saying hello, you have to say "hey whats going on? Whats your name?" and then get the conversation started. If conversation is a chore for her and she has to do all the talking and you just nod and say "thats cool" a bunch, she will walk away.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:56 AM
1

"She's fucking hot isn't she?" then put your arm around her. she will like the compliment. At that point she will have a laugh and will then usually respond about her status without you saying anything.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:53 AM
1

Treat them the same as you would any other woman. Attractive girls know the signs of a guy acting like a tard trying to impress them. Confidence and relaxed personality makes them feel comfortable too. Don't stare at their breasts, you will have plenty of time later to get acquainted with her sweater puppies.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:49 AM
1

Just try to have fun next time. Fun people are attractive.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:47 AM
1

Never do it, the only exception is if the girl takes a particular shine to you, and if she is interested you will know. Had this happen to a friend of mine, the waitress was all over him, and oddly enough he rejected her because he's very traditional and really doesn't know how to deal with an extroverted woman, go figure.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:47 AM
1

Its not mandatory you know.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:45 AM
1

One of the cool things to do is grab a chair from somewhere else, flip it backwards and sit down, its a symbol of still being the outsider but wanting to be invited and you arent imposing on people by making them scooch over. Once you get the go-ahead then you can flip your chair back to normal
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:44 AM
1

Remember rollerskating how hard it was at first? Took awhile to get good at it, frustrating, even painful for some time.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:42 AM
1

My success with girls is mainly from one thing....I listen. An amazing thing about women is so few guys listen and they are instantly intrigued by a guy that actually talks to them and remembers what they said. My present GF told me that my ability to listen is very attractive to her.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:41 AM
1

Why do you want a black guy's sloppy seconds?
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:38 AM
1

There is no standard for success. Even if you look like Brad Pitt if your game is terrible you will be a lonely Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:37 AM
1

Weightlifting. Its cheap, and muscles appeals to all women, even ones that lie and say they hate muscles.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:36 AM
1

Let her touch you first. In case you haven't figured it out yet, women pick up guys, guys don't pick up women. We are just supposed to get the ball rolling with the initial contact.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:35 AM
2

You're obviously nervous and make them uncomfortable. Kissing is a very intimate act for most girls unless they're sluts, don't expect the "kiss close" the first time you meet her.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:34 AM
4

If a girl looks at you 3 times, she's inviting you to look back at her. Simply look at her, pause 3 seconds, then smile. If she smiles back then it could be the start of something. Don't give her the 100 yard stare, don't make kiss lips or winks. girls have to deal with that all the time and she will put you in her serial killer file and never look at you again.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:32 AM
1

She probably thought you were going to cut her up and boil her in soup. Women seek safety, men don't have to since we're the stronger sex. Pry open that wallet next time and get a hotel room, a neutral location a woman will consider safer.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:30 AM
1

Its only 3 chicks and you gave up already? You might try a "test date" with a female friend (if you have one) and let her grade you in terms of attractiveness, poise, game and intelligent conversation. You might be doing something really really wrong and not know it, since Tinder is mainly for people who just want to fuck without strings. Not getting any bites means you may be spraying chick repellent accidentally.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:21 AM
1

I doesn't work against you though if you have a long penis.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 02:00 AM
3

The EU is a communist entity. thats why it wants to get rid of borders. Thats exactly what the USSR did to its member states.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 01:57 AM
0

Being relaxed and friendly is pretty much all you need to know. If girls still avoid you like the plague, then its obviously a hygiene issue of yours.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:32 AM
1

Masculine behavior 1) Having an opinon but not being opinionated 2) Can make decisions but not be bossy 3) Not afraid to be male 4) Yes its okay to like football, beer, meat and tractor pulls 5) Have a good body, its a sign of self-respect and health 6) Pay attention to her, listen. A real man listens.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:30 AM
1

Shower with her first, idiot.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:28 AM
1

Don't drink so much, girls smell it on your breath and think you're just a drunken fool.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:27 AM
1

How do you know it will be a one-night stand? She might end up to be the girl of your dreams.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:27 AM
2

Be really good looking, even if you're old. I'm way old and still get teen girls looking at me sometimes, because I'm not fat, dress well and am friendly.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:26 AM
2

Weed is your main problem dude. You can't go through life in a haze.
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:25 AM
4

How many white guys have a Bruce Lee poster? Why do whites collect Karate and Samurai movies? Asian guys have a lot of masculine heroes that white guys appreciate and sometimes emulate. So why DO white guys like Asian women? Its not what you think. White women in the west are getting FAT. Asian women are thin and look very young for their age. This appeals to white men. Before white women became porkers, it was very unusual to see a white man with an Asian woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:49 AM
1

Or better yet act Asian. Look at the traditional Asian roles of past society. They didn't have j-pop, k-pop and effeminate heroes back then like you see today in anime cartoons. Whites have fallen for the anime disease as well. MLP is at epidemic levels in white male society....40 year old men watching cartoon ponies, its just unbelievable but its real.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:12 AM
1

Just find a woman that makes you happy. I had an Asian friend, he was short, he was ugly, he was overweight...he always had girlfriends. Its not how you look its how you act.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:59 AM
2

dating "Bootcamps" are all scams, just like all PUA in general. I would like to think you're smarter than that. You just have to get back into single life, its quite different than married life. I once had an LTR and it freaked me out at first I had this woman sleeping in my bed, then when she left I freaked out I was sleeping alone. You're dealing with familiarity issues, you fell into a comfortable routine with your wife and boom it was gone suddenly. You have to get back into single guy mode,…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:29 PM
-1

I dated a girl who was on Zoloft for bipolar and god knows what else. She was really fun, a bit strange and loved to fuck. It didn't last but I didn't worry about it. Her older sister was jealous and manipulative and I just didn't want to be in that kind of a strange family dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:25 PM
2

you have to go to the bar to gauge what kind of people regularly hang out there. some bars have nothing but bikers, some have business types, others are older folks over 50. Knowing this means you can avoid embarrassment, like the time my friends invited me to a local bar, i walked in and it was 100% black. Beer was cheap though.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:22 PM
3

protip don't buy the orange earplugs, it will make you look like you're ground crew for an airbase
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:19 PM
0

Some women do nasty sex stuff because their former partner was a creep and loved it. Maybe they just don't like it and want a fresh start with you. I dated a girl who gave me blow jobs all the time and later said she simply didn't like them but she did it because she knew I liked it so much. Nothing wrong with that, I guess her husband has to go without blow jobs, his problem not mine.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:16 PM
1

The less you talk the better. Sex chat is rather advanced material, she's on chapter 1 when it comes to sex. Just make out, test the waters, she will say "no" if you're doing something she's uncomfortable with. Just catalog it and move on, later she will most likely try it once she's comfortable. I've bedded virgins before, after awhile they get into the groove and learn some assertiveness of their own, and when that happens, encourage it.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:09 PM
0

Theres nothing wrong with women in the UK military, the problem is the UK seems to think it is still an empire and is sending soldiers all over the world.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:06 PM
2

After 6 months most women at least want some sort of affirmation that it is a real relationship rather than sport fucking. You seem to be stuck at the sport fucking level. Its probably best for both of you to part ways.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:04 PM
1

Do exactly what women do when a beta male hits on them.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:01 PM
1

I have a feeling this is just for a reality TV show.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:00 PM
1

Steve Jobs was nothing like that. Look at some of his employee seminars when they developed new products and you can see he clearly was a visionary. He was just volatile and hated the corporate mentality.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:47 PM
2

There are no hard and fast rules. I'm presently fucking a female friend I've known for 10 years. If you are consistently getting friend zoned, your dating skills need refining. Consider hiring one of your female friends to go on a pretend date with you so she can evaluate your methods.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:42 PM
1

I've never had a bad experience with a virgin. They are bad kissers at first but learn quickly, and the pussy is so freaking tight.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:39 PM
1

Some girls are embarrassed about it. I took the virginity of a girl who later admitted she blew some guy, but I was her first real boyfriend. She was embarrassed that she sucked some dude off and he never even gave her a 2nd date. She later dumped me after having some intimacy issues, thinking we were too close. Meh, it happens. She was a very confused girl.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:37 PM
-4

alphas don't over-analyze life
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:16 PM
-5

There is no law that says a woman has to sleep with you just because she comes over to your place. Dates are like job interviews, you are both evaluating each other for suitability. One way a woman finds out more about you is by checking out your pad. If its devoid of furniture and has a PS4 on the floor, she knows you are living the life of a man-child. If its elegant and clean, she knows you are a bit more mature. Likewise if you invited her over, you obviously are attracted to her physically …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:49 PM
4

"Shame" starring Michael Fassbender
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:43 PM
1

He's just got a bad haircut, is wearing a stupid shirt only a 12 year old should be wearing, and needs a simple facial regimen.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:41 PM
-1

Masonry is devil worship, avoid it at all costs.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:40 PM
1

Naw I don't do one night stands. One thing I have noticed in my dating career is that if there is mutual attraction, nothing else really matters. In those cases, its usually sex on the 2nd date...no regrets.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:27 PM
1

A shame, it looks like she was trying to reform herself and start dating asians again, you just gave her justification to keep on dating whites. BTW Jews and Persians are NOT white.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:19 PM
1

Isn't bearing false witness one of those commandments?
/r/MensRights20/02/10 06:34 AM
-8

I think they're funny, mainly because we males know we are superior anyway so its just humorous content.
/r/MensRights14/02/10 06:46 PM
2

Jimmy, you like....movies about gladiators?
/r/MensRights22/01/10 04:03 AM
-3

Feminists make me hot.
/r/MensRights10/01/10 08:49 AM
-6

All men want is more chicks in their classes. I was quite disappointed that my computer science major never really got any hotties in class.
/r/MensRights24/12/09 04:34 AM
0

Looks like there's a new children's puppet show coming to town soon.
/r/MensRights12/12/09 08:44 PM
1

Real men of course don't worry about feminists, because we are just plain awesome.
/r/MensRights11/12/09 12:38 AM
1

Feminists make me hot.
/r/MensRights06/12/09 01:36 AM
2

Because men are always awesome, its always our choice to leave.
/r/MensRights04/12/09 06:37 AM
-1

Bah, real men don't care about stuff like this....because we're AWESOME!
/r/MensRights02/12/09 07:37 AM
-1

Tiger Woods was dipping his pen in other ink wells, he should have known the consequences of a mad woman. HE GOT WEED! HE GOT WEED!
/r/MensRights01/12/09 07:52 AM
-5

Feminists make me hot.
/r/MensRights29/11/09 08:04 PM
1

Feminists make me hot.
/r/MensRights28/11/09 12:40 AM
-9

There's already a male support group, its called the weight room. Lift! You girly men! "We thought he was gay, but he simply turned out to be extremely British"
/r/MensRights23/11/09 11:13 PM
3

Johnny Depp continues to mystify me. He is considered the sexiest man in the world year after year, but he's a disheveled skinny guy wearing oversize aviators and has hands like a woman.
/r/MensRights23/11/09 06:54 AM
4

Bah, antifeminist propaganda. Men want a woman who has her own house, a job and career goals. Thats what I'm looking for in a wife. I'm not going to marry a cocktail waitress or a cashier.
/r/MensRights23/11/09 06:52 AM
1

Well at least they fixed it. If child support enforcement was outsourced to the private sector, the company would never have paid it.
/r/MensRights23/11/09 06:31 AM
4

In communist nations, gender equality was of primary importance. Despite the negatives of a communist system, it did result in women benefiting from equal access to education and employment.
/r/MensRights13/11/09 04:38 AM
-2

I'm sure she was kidding. Anyway males are superior, we know it, they know it, there's nothing they can do about it.
/r/MensRights11/11/09 06:26 PM
-5

Quit being a pussy, men aren't victims, we rule!
/r/MensRights11/11/09 06:18 PM
0

Men don't need rights groups, we're inherently awesome. Men who join those groups are just queers.
/r/MensRights07/11/09 05:25 PM
1

I said... what a shame... that a few bad apples have to spoil a good time... for everyone by breaking the rules. -Donald Schoenstein, "Animal House"
/r/MensRights07/11/09 04:45 PM
1

Give out apples and bananas, the kids will not visit your house from that point on for years to come.
/r/MensRights01/11/09 08:25 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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