Have always been wanting to be the kind of guy who chats with random girls easily, get their number, develop a friendship and subsequently a relationship. However, coming from Singapore where the culture here is more fast paced and people are more aloof, it is hard to chat up a girl, considering most girls are either too busy doing their stuff (which I do not intend to disturb them, i understand how it's like to be disturbed by others when i'm busy and some random person just approach me for a random chat), or just reluctant to smile when i smile at them. I do get shy sometimes when i smile at them and look away first, might this be the cause of why they do not reciprocate the smile? Also, Singaporeans are so intimidating.. Its just so frustrating that sometimes i see a cute girl on the streets, yet i do not have the courage to say hi. I keep telling myself to wait for the right time to approach her, and it ends up with her walking away before i even approach her. P.s. i would prefer to chat with girls in the park, in the gyms or in the train etc. I dont go to clubs because i believe that i wont find the type of girl that i like.