Hey guys! I had a date with a wonderful girl a year ago, we hit it off but we could never schedule a second date because I was too busy with work at the time. Fast forward a year and I'm scrolling through my old text logs one lazy Sunday morning. I come across her text log. I text asking if she wanted to see me again. She replied a few hours later saying yes. That afternoon we met up for a late lunch. it went great, the connection was still there, we shared a long and passionate kiss after that date. We made plans to go to a fancy restaurant for our third date, she replied within a few hours when we were making plans. She asked what time she should be at my place, I respond with a time. It takes her four days to reply to confirm.
Last weekend we had that date. It went really well. She spent the night, had some wild, multiple O sex for both of us. She finally said she was getting sore down there, I said no worries and stopped immediately. We cuddled naked on the sofa until we both fell asleep. The next morning I had plans at 11a so had to kick her out. It was fairly obvious she didn't want to leave so quickly since I had to ask her three times to leave (not in a rude way, a light joking way). Before she left I asked if she wanted to do something this weekend, she said yes, just text me. One thing to note: during our entire time together last weekend, she only checked her phone once, that to me was awesome.
Here's where things get confusing for me:
During this past week, every time I texted her to make plans it would take her 24+ hours to respond. We've made plans to go to a music show this friday. The last text I sent her was asking if she wanted to grab dinner beforehand. 2 days now and no response.
now, from past dating experiences, when a woman is into me, she always responds within a few hours, rarely a day if she is super busy. but consistently taking more than a day to respond to me seems off.
What's your take on this, I'm probably overthinking it. i mean, I already got confirmation from her to see the show this friday, not sure if I'm overreacting about not hearing back about dinner
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