Me: 5ft 9, 17, East Asian (korean), Average body, recently got into working out, working on self improvement
Context: 2 days ago I was working and my co-worker and friend (Which we will call "NA") said that her friend wants my snap. I ask NA why and she says that her friend, after seeing a picture of me, thought that I was cute. I add NA's friend (which we will call "SG"), she adds back. As of now I only saw what SG looks like with a mask. Off the bat I ask her "im not much of a texter, what's your number". SG gives me her number and I tell her that we should FT either late today or tmr. SG says tmr.
Because she chose tmr, I wait until 7PM to text her "Im free around 9 ish 10 ish, lmk when ur free". SG reads the text, but doesnt reply until 8:30 ish where she said "no sry"
I tell NA "dude ur friend is an enigma". NA tells me that she got scared because I came on too strong.
My thoughts: I just wanted to polarize her, either shes interested or she isnt. So I just flat out said we should FT so that 1) I can see what she looks like and 2) get to know her. But i guess it is kinda true that i came in too strong.
My question to you: What should I do to fix this? As of now im thinking of just ignoring her till she send the first snap/message. What do you guys think.
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