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[–]workingonabs 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Just don't
[–]Sterben949[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then how can I pass it?
[–]workingonabs3 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Just talk to another girl tbh
[–]Railionn 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well you went wrong already, since this probably started off with you asking why she's taking long time to respond. What happened before this?
She's right, she's not obligated. Perhaps say "I don't expect you to" or something like that
[–]Sterben949[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I told her that I prefer saying to me that she doesn’t want to answer to be online and telling me excuses.
[–]Railionn 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
alright well I hope it turns out well. This will probably one of the many cases you should learn from. Don't ever chase woman. Make them chase you.
What do you mean by that? And how do I make them chase me?
[–]ta69999 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
by literally doing nothing. this advice though, its taken wrong by newbies. they think that its for EVERY women, like every women is gonna come back to chase them. hell no, if you have high value, and the girl initially likes you anyway, she WILL come back to you. If you literally just do nothing, IF she likes you, shell contact you. simple as that. This is mostly if youve already done a shit load of approaching, messaging, texting, initiating, then its time to stop and do nothing. if she likes you shell reach out. thats it.
[–]dtxretenter 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
first of all. never tell her you want her to answer you fast. it seems needy. second if its just ur crush and not ur girl she is technically not obligated to answer to u. with that said when shes says stuff like that just dont let it phase u. shit tests are meant to get a reaction out of u. when u dont give one it sets u apart and she will respect/ be more attracted to u bc of this
[–]TANKER_06 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's not a shit test. That's a "stop bothering me".
The best thing you can do is not reply, as Workingonabs so succinctly put.
There's no context of what you did before and your relationship with this person, so we can't say much.
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