Sooo this girl... she is the first person I've ever felt like I could have a longterm future with. I got to know her for about 2 months, going on multiple "dates." I was close to asking her out, and the day before I planned to another guy asked her out. This was two months ago. It confuses me. They have nothing in common and her friends tell her how much they don't get along / should break up. Here's the kicker: we still hang out and she still flirts with me, a lot. My main concern is getting in the friend zone. I am patiently waiting for something to happen between them, but I don't want to get in the friendzone in the mean time. What do?