So a bit of background...

Relatively fit/alright looking usually the only Asian in the bar/club. I used to be very shy and self cautious (I was in a 6 year relationship throughout high school/college so I never learned skills to talk to girls as more than friends) but as of recently I have gotten pretty good at going out and having a good time. Sometimes I can go out alone and make some friends by talking to random people.

I think I have all the beginner skills down. I can talk to people about things very casually. I still have a bit of AA for the pretty ones but I am working on that.

Whats the next step? Can you guys recommend me how I could improve my skills? I hear a lot of people just say "Go out with the goal of having fun" and I do every time. But I never focus on getting women. I also find myself very picky, should I change that?

Smack some sense into me!