I am basing this post off couple of instance that happened to me after I started lurking around r/seduction. I show a solid confidence, I can read that a girl is interested in me and I manage to ask the number. After I get the number, I can clearly notice there is a high interest from girl. They send me pictures and often long reply to my short message. I ask them for a coffee, they say sure and I say let's do this weekend. They have something planed that weekend and say to me that they would love to do it maybe other time.

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Afraid of girl losing interest over me, I don't initiate a message. Even if I do, I try to create at least few days gap. After a week, when I contact them, I don't directly say, but sort of imply but I don't see the same excitement from other side; or they give me a hint that they are not free that day or tomorrow. Then I wait maybe couple of days thinking they will message me but it does not happen. By this time I feel like they have already lost the interest and I feel myself being too needy again asking the question.

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Should I just delete their number, and just move on? Should I again approach? How direct should I be? I'm so confused, am I doing something wrong here?