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[–]NewtypeJ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awww young love. Dating in high school is so much easier than as an adult, especially if you have money and a means of transportation. So to start, stop texting her so much. You don’t even have to tell me and I know you’re texting her all the time. So go, about a day and half without texting her. If you see her at school, this can be an issue so do it over the weekend. What you’re doing is called ghosting. This will give her a break from you and give her time to think about if she really likes you or not.
Second, don’t devote all your time to her and don’t always try to please her. You’re a student, you should really have a plan for yourself (trust me, I learned from experience). Your studies are more important than a girl. Don’t try to be the perfect guy, try to be an honest guy. Saying what’s really on your mind is a lot better and easier than trying to say the “right” thing or a nice thing.
The mindset to have is that you are the prize. Of course, this is hard if you’re not really a prize. Work on yourself to become better. Study to become more intelligent, exercise to become stronger, etc., the more you train yourself, the better your odds.
There are a lot of signs that a girl is into you, way too many to mention here. You’re first step should be changing your relationship dynamic because right now it sounds like you two are friends. Thinking back to what got me girls in high school was definitely my spontaneity and my naturally calm attitude about everything. I was a bad boy yes, but I was capable of being a straight A student. I just didn’t care about homework. Don’t follow that last part. Being an alpha in high school is the number one way to attract girls. Among your friends, be the one that leads them. Among your classmates, volunteer for more and succeed at whatever it is you have to do. There’s more but this should be enough to get you that girl.
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