Hey guys help me.should I continue with her or leave her?She seems not interested in this conversation.

HellothisisnotDan · 2020-05-16T10:30:56+00:00

This is a perfect example of the classical 'fake interest' attitude most guys have. It comes across as you trying to much aka being fake. Why are you so interested in her dog lol. What have she done besides being an attractuve girl to make you be so interested in such bs little things in a person you hardly know? Who fucking cares about her dog. Talk about something authentic that YOU actually like. Have an, to you, interesting life and invite her to that. That convo will probably be forever dead. Learn, redo, repeat.

glitchmaster099 · 2020-05-16T10:29:38+00:00

It's cringy to try to carry an entire conversation on your own

bigsandip · 2020-05-16T10:49:57+00:00

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bigsandip · 2020-05-16T11:15:25+00:00

Try asking more open-ended questions. She is giving one-word responses because the questions you asked only have one possible answer and don't give her a lot to respond to or elaborate on. I know you're expecting her to maybe ask a question in return but conversation isn't just Q&A.

After mentioning and asking a question about the dog you could tell her something about a pet you have or had in the past. This gives her something to ask about and you can gauge her interest by whether or not she does.

Or instead of asking if the breed is agressive (which comes across kinda weird because most people wouldn't want an agressive dog) you could ask what her favourite thing about her dog's personality is. You could even say something like "I've never had a dog but I've always wanted one. Would you recommend getting a Cocker Spaniel?" And when she responds positively, you can say "Well maybe you should give me your number in case yours ever has a litter" (assuming this is a different platform and you are trying to get her number).

Lastly, try to make the questions a little more personal. "What is the breed?" and "Is the breed friendly?" are very objective, factual questions and therefore not very engaging. Asking her about the name of the dog is already more personal and gives you the chance to ask why she picked that name (which forces her to give more than a one word answer).

StephenDawg · 2020-05-16T10:45:23+00:00

Nah... a Cocker Spaniel bit me once.

BroSplit1 · 2020-05-16T11:00:23+00:00

This is the reason online dating does not work, girls use these platforms for validation bro, your effort:lay ratio won’t be worth it from these platforms... you’ll always have better results in person, learn day game bro.

mickturner96 · 2020-05-16T11:31:00+00:00

I'm sorry to say but there is nothing of interest in your conversation and that is why you're not getting much of a response.

It's very difficult starting a conversation from nothing so to ask about the dog was a good start, got the ball rolling so don't give up.

Learn from your mistakes and carry on.

Small side note, leave a space between punctuation and the next sentence. Small hill to die on I know.

Good luck.

gucciwillis · 2020-05-16T12:20:15+00:00

she don’t wanna talk to you g, leave it

hob814 · 2020-05-16T12:37:06+00:00

I had seen a comment here that u shouldnt have talked about her dog. I disagree its bice that u did but u moved to fast to her ib asking where is she from thats what made it seen fake interest. But i agree with that guy you should talk about something u actually like try not to be her body or something like that, maybe a nicklas that you like maybe talk about it a little abd dont ask after it from where is she that a boring question tbh. Try moving the subject slowly to other things that seem related maybe that dog was from her dad move the subject. Like, he must have be a great guy im sure you love him so much. Did he get it to you on an spical occasion? Maybe it was her birthday day baam know u know when is he birthday.

Just remember thing dont move between subjects too fast if that is possible and that only at the beginning of it later its not a good thing but it wont hurt from time to time, and when you give a complement mean it and be ready to talk about it.

Just have to give an example i can resist, if you see a girl that is hot you can complement anything about her you think but something about her hairstyle maybe just fascinate you complement that and forget all other. But try not to say like nice hair style. Try to seem that you know that it too her alot of work to do it. Like your hair style looks amazing it must have taken hours to be done.

quinnmcd · 2020-05-16T14:02:10+00:00

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Title	Hey guys help me.should I continue with her or leave her?She seems not interested in this conversation.
Author	bigsandip
Upvotes	11
Comments	25
Date	May 16, 2020 10:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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