Ok now its not some social conditioning or some old mindset stuff its rather very new,i mean new like two weeks new.....i have serious trust issues now..u will understand it better if you read my yesterdays post-http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/27e1jo/might_be_a_very_newbie_question_but_experienced/

and now what has happened is that i have figured out how wrong and self-sabotaging this mindset is but now no matter how much i try to change it only gets worse,i start thinking too much and everyone knows what happens when you think too much.Now i try to forget everything about those videos but when i approached girls today the mindset that "girls will eventually cheat" was constantly there on the background and you don't need to be super seducer to tell that what goes in your mind will be reflected in your behaviour. And as a result interaction wasn't going any where near good and i can tell the girl could feel that and felt very a awkward.And i also felt that thing is affecting every word i say to her. That thought is always there no matter how much i try to ignore it.So i don't think i'm going to improve in anyway with this mindset. And i have also made it a point to get this thing out of my head before i go anywhere with pickup.

I know that a mindset is not gonna change just like that,i have to work or get some experience with that particular thing. But i'm not going to get any real experience about girls with this mindset i will just subconsciously keep on finding evidences to support that mindset.So guys can you suggest something that will help me,i mean any book,any article or anything that might help,or any kind of action i can take.As i have figured out that i cannot just shake this thing out of my head very easily.

And i don't want anyone to misinterpret anything about what i posted yesterday.I never said that i'm not OK with girls sleeping around i never said that.I was referring to after marriage or after getting into a relationship stage.