So I recently have a few dates with this one girl that I met on tinder, it didn't turn up anything mainly because I wasn't really using any kino or actually trying to seduce her, kind of a problem I've been having lately and I'm trying to get over this mind block. I'm also pretty introverted which is seriously affecting my comfort levels with all of this stuff.

So here's the question, in your guys' experience, is it easier to drop your standards and just try and have a bunch of mini relationships with a lot of "practice" girls to get more experience with this stuff (and then slowly build up your standards until your where you want to be) or should I continue going for these really hot chicks and screwing it up over and over again learning maybe a few things at a time as I go?

I'm kind of just tired of screwing up all of these high potential relationship because of my inexperience with the ladies. I think going down this road and trying to talk with as many chicks as possible and getting a ton of experience will really help me out. What do you guys think?