so this has been happening since I [20M] was like 16, im always being told im attractive, whether its a friend saying it, my mom(i know), a random comedian making a section of his set about how Im hot and probably have an easy time with getting a girlfriend.

The only time I here this from a girl is when im friends with one and they tell me that there friends felt this way. Its always after the matter too so I never feel like I get to act on it.

But with all this I still have only ever been hit on once (I think). Ive always thought of my self having a good body language detector but maybe it doesnt pick up ladies. But I guess in the end how Can I start believing this myself? because i usually feel pretty ugly.