The attraction scale between you and the girl (Part 1)

Where to start… Well, if you have an Less attractive girl, she would be charmed by the prince, jumping off his white horse and telling her that he wants her, that she is special. The reason for this, is because the girl is less attractive, and the boy is very attractive. Here "the high" have to reach down to "the low". An opposite axample is a very beautiful girl, and a less attractive boy. If this boy jumped off his horse, and told the princess that she was special, she would probably be annoyed!

Now, just to complicate and confuse a litte bit more, it isn’t actually about the LOOKS of the people, it is about their self confidence! But often their looks tells us something about their confidence (but not allways as i Will describe later). The prince probably have good confidence, being a prince, and the less attractive girl probably have low confidence, because of her looks! So in this case, the guy who have good confidence try to pick up the girl who have less confidence. (What happens is that this is picked up by the girl so she will then be attracted to him)

For girls at least, they seem so be automatic attracted to guys who have a litte bit higher confidence level then her, OR better fundamentals then her. If you overdo this, you will overqualify and she will reject you. IF the prince had been cocky to the less attractive girl, that would be overqualification, and she would have rejected him. Also known as "autorejection". THIS is the reason, that the prince needs to, tell her she is special.

Many guys first starting out with seduction, thinks that they are beneath the girl. And by using tricks like Negs, they can drag down the princess. This is not a good long term strategy. First of, many girls have very low confidence (despite of their good looks) so negging them can actual backfire, making them reject you.

And why think you are beneath anybody? That is the type of thinking that makes you unsecure anyway, because what you think creates placebo, and gets picked up by others. One time i remember picking up a girl more below me in "the fundamentals", and she NEGGED me (used game on me). I did NOT get charmed, not at all! When she did that, i just thought, ”WTF, she should be gratefull for being with ME" and I thought to myself i don't EVER want to see this girl again. So in this example the person overqulified.

It is the samme with creating Social tension. (A technique that is popular in the seduction community) It is NOT about making her uncomfortable! It is about YOU, handling the pressure(displaying confidence). If you overdo it, you will overqualify and get rejected.

The best thing to do, is to start beig social, and from there raise your fundamentals, and gradually pick up nicer and nicer girls. And practise game on girls outside your social sircel. When you are getting more and more social, aka raising your fundamentals, you need less game, and can be more ”yourself”.

To learn more about raising Your fundamentals (part2) see: http://www.abundance7.com/415838689

Any questions?