I know it's attractive if you're confident and believe in yourself. But sometimes I would find myself looking at my facebook profile and see some of my profile pictures or statuses have very few likes. And then I see the girls that I'm interested in with a bunch of likes, around 50s-100s. Meanwhile, I'm over here sitting on my 5s-10s.

Then this leads me to think, how can a guy like me, get with a girl like her? My thought process is that if she's already seen my profile she would already have some bias views on me. As if the game has started and I'm already in a losing position.

I know that the online world isn't everything but it's making me feel self conscious. I wanna believe in myself and I can be very confident, but when I'm lacking social proof while the girl has a bunch of social proof my confidence starts to shaken and I don't feel as bad ass as I should anymore.

I know that I should just not give a fuck but when you don't have as much friends liking your stuff/ social proof, it really comes off to her as "why should I date this guy? he's not that desirable, and I can visibly see that through his profile, there must be something off about him". What should I do about this?

I guess this also ties into another point of what if my friends or people I hang out with tease me in front of her? Or what if people start saying negative things about my back and she hears about it? I know this all sounds super beta and self conscious but it has been crossing my mind lately.