How did you get started with the "game"?

zero-hero0-100 · 2019-06-15T13:43:26+00:00

You learn just how to pickup woman just like you learn everything else. Go out approach get reference experiences. Learn from the experiences make tweaks to your game from what you’ve learned. The material online is a guide but it won’t do anything without practicing in the field. If you knew everything about basketball or any sport for that matter. You knew every strategy, every game plan, the perfect techniques or whatever else there is to know would that make you a good player? The answer is no you only get good by practicing all that stuff not reading about it. Start by going out and approaching lol.

bournit · 2019-06-15T14:01:12+00:00

I think there are no naturals.

What we call naturals are just guys that started not giving a fuck about rejections before us. And then they built an habit on this attitude. Once you have the habit,you automatically get a lot of experience.

I'm 22 yo M, just for context. I started with simply searching "pickup" on YouTube. Months ago. Despite the shortness of my journey, I really enjoy it everyday.

Before I started learning actively pickup all the things related to girls and love were confusing me, were rely on case and on her vibe/mood. After starting learning I started to recognize pattern in behaviours, how to face and avoid them.

And that's what a natural does : he learns pickup not in 20s , but before (basically when girls learn it, from 11-12 to 18-19) , and then relies on that. Positive aspect : you have the skillset before competitors. Negative : in certain cases, because you face the problem without adult maturity, you can get bored at 25 yo or later, a thing that won't happen if you learn it understanding dynamics of society. Also, you are all experince-based and not principle - based. Too much based on empirical datas.

I thank the fact I was not a natural, because a day , between 30 and 40, the difference will come up. The naturals will be "naturally" married with sons and daughters, and us, the players, will be always and stronger than ever on the market.

Title	How did you get started with the "game"?
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Date	June 15, 2019 12:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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