How do I become a better man?

dtoedt · 2016-08-02T02:27:05+00:00

Hey man, look up the podcast the art of charm, it's not what it seems like it's honestly about bettering your self and becoming a better person, increasing confidence, enough to walk in to a room pick out the most gorgeous girl there and actually talk to her, not just about taking her home, but actually having a conversation with out shutting down, goes for groups of your guys friends too, being the quote alpha male

TheXXL · 2016-08-02T15:18:55+00:00

I don't know that actually becoming a better person will make me more attractive. The qualities don't seem really related.

They are related. You want to get a girl to sleep with you? Most of them require some sort of trust in you. You achieve that by being social, being able to deal with people in different settings. Being able to communicate efficiently. It also helps a lot to be nice to people, make it a habit and you will display it in every interaction you have. Women feel much safer that way, since you will most likely treat them also with the same level of niceness as others.

Has anyone actually changed? What steps did you take? I can't just keep living for myself, if that makes any sense.

I changed a lot since i first found out about seduction. I became more social, more understanding of other people, but also harder when it comes to stand up for myself, or other people. I don't really give a fuck anymore what others think about me. I learned a lot about body language, to assess how the other person i interact with feels, i also learned the value of two simple little words: "Thank you.". Overall it is your ticket to get with women if you know how to be social and a good person. All the other stuff is dependent on this.

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-02T16:03:46+00:00

I'll raise my hand as another vote of confidence. Living proof. I used to have medical symptoms my social anxiety with women was so bad. My stomach got wrecked. I didn't have to change who I was. I just had to become a happier, more confident version of myself. It took time, and baby steps, but ultimately, anyone can do what I did. Now I'm a dating coach with 2 girlfriends, play partners, and attending sex parties on the regular with them. I still watch anime. I still play video games. Now, I just do it with sexy women.

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Axlz00 · 2016-08-02T22:32:47+00:00

Hello Reddit I have an announcement. I will become a PUA god. Expect me.

Psychocist · 2016-08-05T15:10:45+00:00

So don't live for yourself -- better yourself so you are better able to serve others later in life. That's the way I frame it in my mind.

Title	How do I become a better man?
Author	bahzorov
Upvotes	8
Comments	5
Date	August 2, 2016 2:17 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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