How do I become seductive?

intelectualycurious · 2019-09-05T18:13:32+00:00

Pull back and relax. Sometimes we never know what we have until it’s gone. Not saying you should break up, but just be patient and wait for him to chase you a bit.

jdg661 · 2019-09-05T18:14:36+00:00

Honestly, my wife is the same way. Doesn’t bother me a bit, men don’t need to be seduced. I prefer knowing exactly what she wants and where she wants it. It’s a great trait honestly.

mikeller94 · 2019-09-05T18:20:44+00:00

Try to understand what kind of clothes you wear, gets you complements from him. Whenever my gf wears a tight short dress and that booty looking fine, it gets me going, especially when she acts all busy around me, but she actually just seducing me. So try to find things that usually worked for you in the past or led to spontaneous sex, and get good at it. And also when he catches your attention play a bit of hard-to-get and teasing. To be honest its not that hard to get us men ON, cuz we think of sex very often! So good luck!

Mike505i · 2019-09-05T18:21:21+00:00

What have you tried thus far?? I mean there are subtle ways to indicate your desire to have sex. Little kisses on the neck or massaging his neck and shoulders while you explain what you want to do with him usually will make a guy stop and react. You can also suggest a shower together before going to bed and initiate play in the shower.

smoothmax · 2019-09-05T18:56:37+00:00

Might be better to pretend you're trying to interest a kitten in a piece of string. Instead of making it too easy for him, act a bit aloof like, you'll be LUCKY if you get the 'A' treatment from me. Like, show him the lingerie in your closet and let HIM figure out what HE has to do to get you to wear it. Don't tell him. It could be, wash your car, SHAVE, dress really well and take you to a nice dinner, watch your show with you without without whining, whatever.

Guys who practice seduction try to maintain a frame meaning a mental picture of themselves and their role in the relationship. It is a rule of psychology that when two people are interacting, the person who holds their frame most strongly will usually prevail. Don't give in to his frame if it's, I'm comfy in this relationship I only have to put out once a week to keep her happy.

Your frame should be, I'm hot stuff and no guy is worth hot sex with me unless he earns it.

If you have a girlfriend who's like honey to flies with guys at work or whatever, watch how she carries herself around them. I'll bet it's not so much her looks (though I'll bet her clothes, hair etc. are on point) as her attitude or her frame. I'm a hottie, thank you for your interest but applications for attention and sex by weak, inconsiderate men with bad fashion are not accepted at this time. Same as her with her orbiters, same with you and your bf.

jdg661 · 2019-09-05T19:33:13+00:00

He wouldn’t be with you otherwise. Use the strengths that you have. We men are too simple. Walk in the room naked and with a smile. Make us feel like king of the bedroom, and we’re good. It’s women who need to be seduced..not most men.

TheLoveGuardian · 2019-09-05T22:31:19+00:00

I’ve noticed whenever my girlfriend went to the gym and had an intense squat/legs or cardio workout I wanted to bang her so much more

devilkingx2 · 2019-09-06T08:08:58+00:00

Find out what he finds sexy and do that, learn how to do sexy modelling poses and learn how to dance, wear sexier clothes and buy the kind he likes. The hotter you look the more automatically seductive everything you do is. So if your makeup is on point and your body has been perfected in the gym you might just need to wink at him

Also, find out his fetishes. Those can be impossible to guess but there's going to be easy but strange ways you can be sexy for him (like open toed shoes or being barefoot for some guys)

Title	How do I become seductive?
Author	suductaction
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	September 5, 2019 5:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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