I'm not going to lie, I see a lot similar posts around here. The following list only outlines some of them:

  • How do you deal with boring girls?
    • Build more attraction
  • When to kiss her?
    • Based off of the interaction, if you've been physical enough, it should come naturally. Basic triangle look and if you're close, staring for >5seconds, or if she initiates.
  • Can't get a Day 2, what should I DO?!?!
    • Build more attraction on day 1, be direct with intent to polarize.
  • What if she cancels/flakes (day 2)?
    • Either she has a legitimate excuse, in which case she should tell you; or you didn't build enough attraction day 1
  • Most questions about texting
    • for logistics only, general consensus on this sub
  • Anything asking about Friend-zone
    • be direct from intent day 1, polarize them
  • ect.

Stop. Just Stop. The majority of answers can be derived from inner-game mindset. Feel free to discuss wether you agree with me or not, this is just my opinion. Above are my quick answers to them.

As you can see, my answers derive from 2 main things: Direct approach, and building attraction

  • Attraction Day 1 If not enough attraction is built on Day 1, any shot of a Day 2 is significantly diminished. Recently I've been having more success than in the past and I've noticed that I've built more attraction than I used to. There is an overwhelming amount of material on how to build attraction that I will butcher to death if I try to explain some of it. Theres a section in this video where Julian describes the "hook" and Vibe that kind of describes when she's attracted. If you can build more attraction, the girls wont be bored around you, it will be obvious when to kiss her, she'll want the day 2, ect.

  • Direct over Indirect A few months ago I was trying indirect and got a lot of phone numbers, but little return on the Day 2. Now I have come to realize something, Indirect doesn't work, unless your really, really fucking good at it. Most average guys (outside of the seduction community) will "try" indirect and essentially open conversations, but never really send that sexual "I'm attracted to you" vibe. Although yes, its obvious to her and you whats going on, but in her mind she might just see you as another guy too afraid to admit his intent. This may not be true for all girls, but certainly is the case for many.

When I moved from indirect to direct, dear god did it suck. There would be nights where I literally refused to approach, even when my friends pushed me into a set. But after gaining some confidence (from doing well on an exam :)) I went out and had the single best night of game I've had in my entire life. I didn't f-close any girls but I #-closed an HB9 and HB8 (both saw me gaming earlier, being rejected 5 times) and got compliments from all of my friends. Every night since, I've started to accept rejection more and more, due to the polarizing nature of direct approach.

Im not saying that Direct is better than Indirect, I'm simply suggesting Direct over Indirect until you can prove 100% to yourself and others why you should go indirect (ie how its better for you). I should be pretty obvious to you when she's really attracted to you. If its not that obvious, try to build more before you try to do any type of close.

For texting: when you cook the meat sometimes its best off the grill, other times you may want to let it rest, but let it rest for too long and no one wants it. After they Day 1, you have to keep her actively engaged for the day 2, otherwise she'll for get parts of the interaction that made it so good. This can also lead to a flake, even if you built proper attraction.

Thanks for reading, would like to have some feed back! Sorry for any grammar, I didn't proof read it :P

TL;DR: To avoid any post Day 1 problems, build ample attraction the 1st time around and use the Direct approach, being clear with your intentions.