How do I get over rejection

somedude9797 · 2020-07-24T11:32:49+00:00

She is maybe embarassed. It doesnt really matter.

How to get over "rejection"? 2 things:

Love yourself

Give yourself the value you deserve.

Meet other girls

If there is only one girl on this planet, you will become needy.

Just start approaching girls everywhere. On the street, in school. It is not easy but very important.

That's the whole secret to being a womanizer.

Bum-Sniffer · 2020-07-24T11:34:33+00:00

As tempting as it may be, don’t message her again. She’ll either message (could be busy) or like you say, is not interested. It’s one of those things, practice makes perfect. The guys who get all the girls have been rejected hundreds of times and have honed their craft. It’s like winning in general. Colonel Sanders tried hundreds of different recipes which he considered failures before he got his perfect KFC recipe, and now he’s a global success. Rejection happens, and it is really difficult to deal with when you’re younger, so you’re not the first and won’t be the last to experience it. These things happen man, but don’t blame yourself. Keep trying (in general) - you’ll learn more and more about yourself and what you like with time. Don’t sweat it bro, there’s 8 billion of us on this earth and you’ll find someone else and rejection gets easier with experience.

Short term I’d say just take your mind off it - do something you enjoy, try and put her out of your mind, accomplish a goal you’ve been putting off etc. Try not to overanalyse though man, these things happen to all of us!

yurifca · 2020-07-24T13:21:47+00:00

It's normal fo you to be a little "in love" considering you just had your first kiss (good job). But another normal thing in relationships is "one night stands', where you guys get close for a night or whatever, and in the next day your date doesn't seem so much interested anymore. I suggest you forget her, but with no remorse or insecurities, this stuff happens with everyone, and keep on trying to meet other girls just as cool as this first one.

quinnmcd · 2020-07-24T15:40:27+00:00

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Title	How do I get over rejection
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Date	July 24, 2020 11:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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