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How do I go about having an open relationship

isaac2289 · 2018-01-30T04:01:30+00:00

I have a gf, i started suggesting an open relationship early on when we started dating. At first i dealt with a lot of resistance but i slowly chipped it away....

isaac2289

January 30, 2018

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Title	How do I go about having an open relationship
Author	isaac2289
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	January 30, 2018 4:01 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7tybpq/how_do_i_go_about_having_an_open_relationship/
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[–]physicalbitcoin 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I tell them I can't commit cos I just got out of a heavy relationship.
When they give me the speech about how they can't do that, I just sit through it and nod.
They always pretend it's wrong, but ignore their words. When you tell them you have other gfs, their eyes usually start glowing.
I make the point that I could lie to them easily but I won't do that because I respect them. This is true.
I remind them the next guy who looks them in the eye and promises he'll commit is 80-90% probably lying to them.
At that point, I DON'T negotiate. I don't enter into a dicussion about it, or debate the merits. I don't pressurize her, and just act happy and calm.
Be patient and within 2 hours, 2 days, or sometimes two months, she might come around.
Some girls won't be into it, that's life. But most are.
Women have been practicing covert open relationships for thousands of years, and guys have only just caught on. lol.

[–]isaac2289[S] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]physicalbitcoin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link