How do I make text conversations less one sided?

Tommy_Tukyuk · 2016-11-12T05:31:18+00:00

I find most of the girls on Tinder don't put in any effort and expect you to magically direct the conversation. This sometimes happens with texting as well, even if the girl is easy to talk to in person. I usually just give up if they're not going to try.

I have met women who were much better texters though. They would vomit paragraphs and text about their day. With Tinder on the other hand, those women aren't taking you seriously (yet). They get hundreds of messages, so they're playing the field and filtering out the creepy, boring, unperfect matches.

Since you seem better at talking than texting, you could try calling these girls instead of texting. It may be less convenient but you really don't have to be sending a text every few minutes back and forth. Try going the old fashioned way. Limit your phone activity and get them to take you out to continue the conversation more humanly.

RytekBJJ · 2016-11-12T20:07:20+00:00

I recently stated using Tinder. If a woman has no meaningful profile then she's just practice. Just pratice talking to women, having fun, teasing plafully, and not giving a fuck. They may or may not respond. If they act like a bitch, call them on it.

One I was talking to said she was surprised I know how to have fun and am not just a gym junkie. I joked that she shouldn't assume and I do have some douchbag in me and I know how to rock man unnecessarily tight shirt. Then she got very sarcastic and said she so proud that I strive to achieve such noble goals, good job!!!!! My response was that it's more of a gift than a goal, like a sense of humor, some people have it and she doesn't. She unmatched me like 2 minutes later lol.

The women I've had dates with make conversation like normal humans. I never even have to ask any question, the conversation just flows naturally. They also have complete profiles, picture of them doing stuff, not just 5 mirror shots of their ass, and they say some meaningful about their personality in their bio.

Don't lower yourself to doing all the work. They need to earn your interest too. If they don't make effort than just write them off as practice and experiment with something bold and out of character and see what happens.

Also, the women I've been out with said yes to a date over Tinder. I tell them we should grab coffee and ask for their number at the same time, then text then a time and place. If they can't I tell them to let me know what evenings they are free. Then when they do I confirm and tell them I'll see them then. No need for any more texting.

Title	How do I make text conversations less one sided?
Author	TROUSER_CHOWDER
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	November 12, 2016 5:04 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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