Hey guys, I opened an account at OkCupid and got an answer from a HB. I think I didn't calibrate correctly and was a little bit too forward too fast.

BTW in still an afc and I used a lot of canned phrases..

Judging by this conversation, do you think I can still save this?

ME: The Bet Nov. 23, 2010 – 1:02pm

So, obviously you passed the aesthetics test or shallow men (such as myself) would never contact you, but a buddy of mine was looking over my shoulder and claimed that – without a doubt – your profile looked to have been written by a guy; it’s just too perfect, minus the incompletion. He claimed that any account with so little information is a dead giveaway. I came to your defense, of course, but now we’ve got a $20 bet going as to whether or not you’re real. So I wondered, just between us, am I about to lose $20?

HER: Written by a guy? Absolutely not! :) That's a first. What leads your friend to that conclusion?

How are you going to spend your $20?

ME: Haha.. he mentioned a couple of things, nothing important though. What's important is that I got my $20!! lol

I haven't decided on what I'll be spending it on.

But you know.. I still can't prove that you aren't a guy. I could ask you a question about Twilight or Sex and the City, but one, there is the problem that even if you did answer correctly, I’d have no way to know if it was right, and two, if you were a girl, and were just an awesome one, you wouldn’t know the answer anyways… what a dilemma. How would you test yourself to know you were really a girl?

HER: You really, truly think I'm a dude? What possible reason would a guy have for making a fake female dating profile?

Answer me that.

ME Haha.. you know, there are creeper guys out there posing like girls to prey on attractive men like myself .. lol

just making sure ;)

Do you have a facebook?

HER: Nov. 23, 2010 – 2:26pm I do... but I'm not apt to give that out so soon. :) what would you like to know about me that you think you can discover there? Report this

ME Nov. 23, 2010 – 2:40pm Well.. what would be 3 things about yourself that would make me want to get to know you better? Looks don't count by the way.. :)

and I still haven't gotten an answer and its been 2 hours.. Some constructive criticism would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks