How do I reschedule without coming off as a beta, needy, or aggressive?

TheXXL · 2018-02-21T07:01:25+00:00

if tell her when are you available, it will make it seem like i am dropping everything I am doing to hang out with her

What makes you think that? It is the polite thing to do. It's a different thing though, if you always have time for her. Having a busy life means that you will most likely say "oh on that day I can't, but that day sounds good". This is why it's beneficial to offer more than just one possible days for meeting

woodie_wood · 2018-02-21T15:26:47+00:00

I got stuck on this awhile back always trying to phrase things to where I wouldn’t get rejected and wanting to communicate that I was leading and am in control.

Thing is it’s needy as fuck. If you want to hang out with a girl it’s ok to let her know. Simply trying to initiate plans is taking the lead. You want her to know you desire spending some of your precious time with her. If she likes you she will make it easy for you. If she’s giving you excuses or being flakey then just relax and move on. It’s that simple. Anything more complicated and you are putting the girl on a pedestal. Would you be like this with a coworker or a guy friend?

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-02-21T06:11:28+00:00

Text her "sup girl, why you bail on me like dat?"

Title	How do I reschedule without coming off as a beta, needy, or aggressive?
Author	forsedditonlyyyy
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	February 21, 2018 5:54 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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