I've heard from a friend (girl) whose had many dates that you donct deny neither water or a kiss to anyone, first time hearing that, so this option goes for asking for it, what do you think.

In the other hand I talked to my cousin's husband whose had been a player long time ago and he told me that kisses are meant to be stolen, what do you think?

On these times idk how a girl could react to both scearios (or maybe I'm just naive) so I have 2 approaches that could help many of you

A: if you don't feel confident enought to steal a kiss like me buy hersheys kisses, and wait for a good place, moment and timing and ask "do you want a kiss?" If she says yes well there you go, but if she says "no" just cope with it and open the hersheys in fron of her, and most probably she'll laugh.

B: try building sexual tension asking her about her opinion on first-date-kiss and you'd see how she reacts, just keep the talking in case if the asks something like "why are you asking that".