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I always think it’s weird for me to go to the bar and then I get there and realize no one cares. Think about it, when I meet people who go to a bar alone my first reaction is respect
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:18 PM
4

Nice dude. If it works it works. It shows your respectful and caring. I personally feel it ruins the moment but I’ve never tried. Nor plan asking
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:45 PM
1

Humans are social creatures. We want to be engaged. Just go for it.
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:43 PM
2

Start going for ugly girls and turn that 10% into a 90%
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:41 PM
-2

Asking is a beta cuck move. In which movie have you seen liondsrdo DiCaprio or literally any seductive character ever ask for permission to kiss the girl. Exactly never. You gotta make the moment right and go for it
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:41 PM
3

What do you want in life? Answer that question. Then go get it
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:38 PM
2

Make this it’s own post - a lot of people in the community need to hear this
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:36 PM
16

I’ve had many girls tell me they like me BECAUSE I’m in touch with my feminine side. It doesn’t matter what your into as long as you own it - that’s confidence.
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:32 AM
3

Sounds to me like anxiety. Don’t feel ashamed to reach out and get help - therapy works wonders - you might even be able to get something prescribed. In the meantime just outright tell girls your nervous and that you tend to mess things up by getting in your own head. You’d be surprised how many times they respond with “I totally get it I’m the same way”. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable like that is real confidence.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:53 PM
1

Idk man. I being around people that make me forget to check my phone. Keep in mind lots of girls are addicted to their phones and genuinely can’t go 10 minutes without picking up their phone. But make sure she’s not on her phone because she’s bored. Be fun and engaging and if she goes a while without checking her phone then tell her you like her and go for the kill
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:38 AM
1

Have you tried telling her that you like her? If she’s shy and knows your hooking up with other girls then she genuinely has no idea that you like her. If you try to make moves on her it might just make her anxious and question why your doing it now. Be vulnerable, tell her you like her. Communicate openly. See how she feels
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:48 AM
4

You credit your hair, but it’s the confidence your hair gave you. You’re no longer that nobody who got bullied in highschool, your a born again stud and that confidence has given you the success you’ve always wanted.
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:26 PM
1

I wear 3 inch inserts in all my shoes. Went from being a 5’8” short little bitch to a perfectly acceptable 5”11
/r/seduction01/11/21 03:20 PM
3

So it took you a few minutes to bring it back up which means you had to think about it. Obviously from your perspective it was about anxiety and a world of thoughts and emotions rushing at you from once But from her point of view she shot her shot, you rejected her, then figured you’d settle for her. Even though it wasn’t like that at all remember people all full of themselves and very insecure. Had you immediately responded with saying you’d go to her place then she definitely would taken you b…
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:55 PM
2

Next time don’t pee
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:32 PM
38

Yoooo the sticky eyes rip is phenomenal. Or what she said about holding eye contact with the person your interested in even some else is talking instantly sparks a lot of flirtatious tension. Congrats on the first big step. Also don’t listen to all the guys saying to only talk to single girls if she has a boyfriend you can still talk to her and practice your social skills all you want just don’t get too greedy
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:55 PM
2

That wasn’t a shit test. She’s trying so hard to curve you
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:26 PM
1

There’s been a lot said about how much of a scam the industry is so I won’t go into that. Just know from a business standpoint, they could give you life changing advice to where you don’t need their channel anymore. Or they could give you a ton of bad advice and make it sound pretty, so when you fail you blame yourself and think you haven’t watched enough of their videos so you keep watching them. Which seems more profitable?
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:04 AM
1

Well I think PIV is more intimate. But your not gonna orgasm from PIV alone. He has to know what he’s doing with his tongue to get you to cum. But I think that moment of first orgasm and the kiss that follows is what builds the strongest emotional connection
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:35 PM
18

Love it but I’d tweak #9. I get it if you mean never chase as in showing neediness (highly covered in Models) But often what makes the Rake character so seductive is that he never stops chasing, the difference is the rake has multiple other girls he’s chasing and is actually scoring
/r/seduction29/06/21 01:09 AM
1

Mirror effect works wonders, nice!
/r/seduction29/06/21 01:06 AM
2

I don’t mean about hooking up with girls I mean dating. If you don’t like going out and partying then don’t date a party girl it won’t work out. With that being said party girls are fun so if your just want to hookup then go for it
/r/seduction26/06/21 04:53 PM
20

You’ll do very well with girls who don’t drink or smoke. Don’t waste your time chasing stoners or drunk chicks, they may be hot your really not each other’s types
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:23 AM
5

I second this
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:37 PM
3

Yeah all she had to do is use her boobs
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:40 AM
3

Man I feel that! I didn’t lose my virginity untill 19 and I look back at all my missed opportunities. There’s been so many girls from back in high school that literally told me they were just waiting for me to make a move and I never did. Best advice is don’t waste your time studying seduction of your above average in looks already. Better to study body language so you can pickup on her hints and can clear yourself from all unnecessary anxiety
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:07 AM
2

Dude stop being insecure otherwise your gonna turn into an incel. Get out of your own head and listen to the signals she’s giving you. It’s about her, not you.
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:40 PM
2

Work on yourself first
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:39 PM
2

Well you wouldn’t outright open with this. I just mean when you do ask her out to not me bland and cliché about it
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:18 PM
4

Yeah I realized it sounded commanding after everyone pointed it out, but I just meant that this just a much more exciting way to ask someone out that has given me significantly more success
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:17 PM
3

Yeah sorry my original wording came out wrong but this tip is just a better way to ask her out
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:09 PM
3

So how do you ask a girl out then
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:11 AM
2

Hi, I posted an edit. I did not mean to declare or even assume that she will go on a date with the guy. I meant it as telling her she’ll love so that it becomes all about her. Then she doesn’t have to question is the date will be fun, or if it’s even worth going since he already told her that she’ll love it
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:10 AM
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Hi, I posted an edit. I did not mean to declare or even assume that she will go on a date with the guy. I meant it as telling her she’ll love so that it becomes all about her. Then she doesn’t have to question is the date will be fun, or if it’s even worth going since he already told her that she’ll love it
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:09 AM
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Hi, I posted an edit. I did not mean to declare or even assume that she will go on a date with the guy. I meant it as telling her she’ll love so that it becomes all about her. Then she doesn’t have to question is the date will be fun, or if it’s even worth going since he already told her that she’ll love it
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:09 AM
5

Hi, I posted an edit. I did not mean to declare or even assume that she will go on a date with the guy. I meant it as telling her she’ll love so that it becomes all about her. Then she doesn’t have to question is the date will be fun, or if it’s even worth going since he already told her that she’ll love it
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:08 AM
3

Yes I agree man. I’m just saying historically men have been using women as scapegoats since literally day 1
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 07:11 PM
20

Women have literally ALWAYS been scapegoats. Have you heard about the time Eve ate the forbidden fruit?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 06:19 AM
1

I’m about to give you completely shit advice that might just work. Try going to a strip club. Just once and please please please do not make it a habit or you will go broke. But the reason I say this is because the girls there are extremely good at hustling. They flirt the Brian’s out of sad lonely men all the time and I’ve read a few posts from strippers saying that all their regulars actual just go because they want someone to talk to. If you go to a strip club the girls will be all over you. …
/r/seduction18/06/21 05:05 AM
4

If it took you three days she probably already went on a date with other guys
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:45 AM
4

Have her set you up with her friends
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:29 PM
1

Lmao someone is quoting Mark Manson
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:26 PM
1

Nah man, you can cry about how the world is or you can play the game. “Man are such trash” is a good conversation starter. “I’m not like the other guys” is a fantastic line that is both extremely flirty but says that your not one of the toxic guys “Hey check out the douchebag in the... i wanna be like him when I grow up” is a hilarious line I like to open with. Anyways your never gonna score 100% of girls. If your not into hunting or “manly stuff” then you’re sure as hell not going to want to be…
/r/seduction14/06/21 07:50 PM
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Bro dad bods are hot
/r/seduction12/06/21 09:40 PM
2

Your scared to be vulnerable. Don’t worry most men struggle being vulnerable. Eventually you’ll get through and you’ll look back and say “damn I should have opened up more with all these girls in my past”
/r/seduction10/06/21 10:34 PM
2

Your friend zoned bud. But just cause she doesn’t want to sleep with you doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still be her friend. Drop her as a romantic partner and flirt with other girls but keep talking to her and hang out when’s she’s on campus. It’ll be fun and who knows maybe when the alcohol kicks in she’ll suprise you. *** Also be prepared to see her flirt with guys right in front of you if you are just friends.
/r/seduction10/06/21 07:52 PM
2

Don’t have sex with him.
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:10 PM
31

Since she is a solid 9 keep her around for some more fun. But definitely don’t plan on putting a ring on her finger anytime soon
/r/seduction03/06/21 12:13 AM
1

You’ll really like On Love by Stendhal.
/r/seduction30/05/21 06:27 PM
1

Well that changes everything! Stay away from boys. They will lie to you and tell you they love you and pressure you to have sex and if you don’t do it they are gonna tell the whole school you did anyways. NO BOYS!!!
/r/seduction30/05/21 06:21 PM
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Well it wasn’t a no but it certainly wasn’t a yes. It sounds to me like she friendzoned you already and you bit the bullet and asked her out.
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:06 PM
1

If your a woman then you don’t need to study seduction any further than The art of Seduction. Just go to a stripclub or a one fo those lingerie restaurants and watch how the girls seduce the living hell out of those old rich guys.
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:03 PM
1

Scam scam scam
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:31 PM
3

This is gonna get taken down so fast
/r/seduction28/05/21 09:29 PM
3

Nah real talk she’s seems like an easy target. If she wants attention it means deep down she’s insecure and needs validation. Meaning she will likely put out if you validate her and make her feel sexy. However know that she is in fact playing games. This means you have to play games too. Neg her. These are insults disguised as compliments. “Your makeup looks great today, it’s so... basic”. See how that works you complimented her and gave her attention but made her MORE insecure so she will want …
/r/seduction25/05/21 07:05 PM
2

Sounds like your her bitch dude. Start paying attention to her sister
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:48 PM
4

Yeah that’s called insecurity. Get out of your own mind and listen to watch she’s telling you and notice want she is dying to tell. Sometimes her words say no but her body says yes. That’s her anti-slut defense wanting you to charm her instead of her being the one to escalate.
/r/seduction24/05/21 07:19 PM
3

Don’t get caught up in books and courses and stuff. Just try to get out of your own head and look at the situation objectively. If she’s leaning closer and closer she’s interested. If you doesn’t react well when you touch her then stop. If your sitting facing the TV on the couch and her body is turned towards you then maybe you should be cuddling her
/r/seduction24/05/21 03:36 PM
26

And I struggle to find girls my age [m21] I’ll trade you locations
/r/seduction23/05/21 07:03 PM
2

Then yeah
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:13 AM
1

You get the idea
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:13 AM
2

Someone isn’t getting any matches...
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:12 AM
1

See you get the lingo!
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:10 AM
1

Nah man you can have my sloppy seconds
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:10 AM
1

Does bumble have the same right swipe feature?
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:10 AM
1

No way, actually?
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:07 AM
1

Has that ever worked? Can’t imagine that working nor would I like to try
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:05 AM
13

More matches equals more opportunities!
/r/seduction20/05/21 10:02 PM
-1

Why, I feel like this actually will help people. Try it out make a profile with every pic pointing left, then make one with every pic going right, you’ll notice the right pics do way better
/r/seduction20/05/21 09:49 PM
2

You think speed seduction works?
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:18 AM
5

Can you give like two or three points of advice. Otherwise I’m just gonna tell you straight up no one is gonna check it out
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:55 PM
13

For me masturbation is a self pleasure. And since I can reach an orgasm by myself why do I need other people. So it makes me really socially awkward for a few days
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:01 AM
1

Keep giggling! Guys like girls that laugh at everything. It’s cute and makes us feel funny
/r/seduction10/05/21 10:04 PM
1

Well I just want like normal conversation. At night we’ll video call and masturbate together
/r/seduction10/05/21 02:26 AM
-1

Whenever I lost advanced technique stuff I gets like 5 upvoted. When I post basic shit like this then I’m trending on r/seduction for three days
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:30 AM
1

If she’s with a guy ask how they know each other. If she’s alone then it don’t matter if she has a boyfriend or not. If you have game you should still go for it. If you really must “ask” then make a comment or something and assume she has a boy friend. Like “invite your boyfriend” or something like that. If she doesn’t have a boyfriend she’ll say something like “what boyfriend” then it’s game
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:23 AM
2

I’m telling you straight up Freesias never fail. So many girls have approved me to their friends JUST because I brought Freesias. Freesias represent friendship, and trust. Warning: freesias are a bit on the expensive side so don’t do a whole bouquet just a bunch. The next best to Freesias are Primroses. Primroses are gorgeous flowers that typically symbolize young love and are far more affordable than freesias. DO NOT get roses: save those for Valentine’s Day and anniversaries.
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:32 PM
3

Pm me
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:25 PM
1

Probably
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:24 PM
2

The question is, is he worth the wait?
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:43 PM
5

Jerking off... I should probably find something to get involved in
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:11 PM
1

It’s all depends on your personality. The old stuff was made by an incredibly insecure guy who needed female validation.
/r/seduction23/04/21 07:40 PM
5

The old advice was was taking advantage of social psychology and manipulating girls to fall for you. The new stuff just teaches you how to get your life together and be the best you
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:46 PM
6

The game itself doesn’t have to much pick up training as much as telling Style’s journey. But it does mention ALOT of the books he read and courses he went to so it lays out a large foundation. Keep in mind almost all those facts are consider outdated
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:10 PM
1

I recommend technical game for beginners who really need it. Yes I do mean AFCs. Once you go from AFC to a master in game, then you can drop all the techniques.
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:31 PM
1

Wtf kinda excuse is that. No don’t try to make it sound like bailing on a perfect approach was a good thing.
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:28 PM
1

If you’ve just met these girls then you have to set up instant days. They may talk to you for a month but I promise you if you wait a few days to ask her to hang she is far less likely to show than if it was the day you started talking. Girls like spontaneous and a date only a few hours after you met won’t give her enough time to last second bail.
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:26 PM
1

Well if you don’t know what your doing don’t go for the threesome, your game probably isn’t strong enough yet. Figure out which one is the “jealous one” and flirt on her HARD but fuck her friend. Then let her irrational jealous emotions give you the night of her life when it’s finally her turn
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:23 PM
3

“ hey [her name], it’s been nice talking with you lately. There’s a [insert event or place you like] this weekend, be my date?”
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:17 PM
3

Then get with her sister
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:13 PM
0

Bro, if you get “friend zoned” just ask her to put in a good word for you to one of her friends
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:12 PM
1

Did you read the sidebar? No videos unless the the post it’s self has worthy content
/r/seduction21/04/21 05:46 PM
1

Hold hands with another girl in front of her. Let jealousy works it’s magic. If she still friendzones you after that then you gotta move on.
/r/seduction21/04/21 05:45 PM
1

This is gonna get taken down fast
/r/seduction21/04/21 05:43 PM
7

Seduction is historically a female power first! (Think cleopatra). Over time guys wanted to learn how to get laid so they began studying seduction and now it seems like it’s male dominated. But never forget it was a female power first
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:50 PM
3

You know what this is a step. She was a “hired gun” so she is sort of being paid to be there and talker to customers is part of her job But you went out, you weren’t look to talk to someone, but you did and you made a connection with someone. I’m willing to bet all my GME shares that she will never call or text you, but at least you practiced socializing a little bit. Good job. Baby steps
/r/seduction17/04/21 07:36 PM
2

Tell stories where you highly good qualities or traits about yourself
/r/seduction16/04/21 05:10 AM
6

If you end up getting sex addiction like Neil Strauss and others then yes, you will struggle with monogamy. You will want all different kinds of girls. Tall/shirt, big/small boobs, big/small ass, ethnic girls, etc etc For others you my get all your sexual craziness out of your system. I know for me I had a bunch of weird kinks and stuff I wanted to try and now I’ve done them and I’m over it - I had my fun. I’m ready to settle down. It comes down to you personality, just don’t let sex addiction r…
/r/seduction15/04/21 07:41 PM
1

Over Half the book is examples
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:49 AM
2

No that book is the most over rated book on the planet. That stuff is way outdated it makes you look like a total creep
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:49 AM
6

This has nothing to do with seduction
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:47 AM
5

Most guys want to but don’t actually do it. Ask most decently attractive girls they’ll say they get creepers and cat calls all the time but not nearly as much cold approaches as I would’ve thought
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:54 AM
1

The main clubs are opening I think on May 1st but either way wouldn’t cancel AC out over it
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:50 AM
0

Pretty much everyone from Florida who party’s got Covid already so no one cares about it anymore. Club Liv will be opened up by then which is by far the best club in Miami. Either way though all clubs are pretty much packed now
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:32 AM
2

Only inner game bs gets upvoted. Make a post titled how to get over approach anxiety and have the body litterly say Just Do It and I promise you it’ll get 1,000+ upvotes
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:58 PM
0

Idk, I personally love vaginas. I get so turned in giving girls oral and I love the taste.
/r/seduction10/04/21 01:46 AM
3

Yes haha. Well Johnny Lawrence definetly taught him well. He learned to strike first with Sam and even when Sam initially said no he struck hard but not letting her say no and saying it’s not a date. Definetly good advice. And better when they learn the difference between no mercy and no honor
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:54 PM
2

Have you watched season 2? I’m not giving spoilers just know he’s not an asshole
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:51 PM
1

The art of Seduction by Robert Green is timeless and proven by history. I honestly recommend listening to an audio book for this one because I when I read it the first time I got nothing out of it. It is just very well written and much more professional than the 7th grade reading level garbage I’m used to from all thefake gurus.
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:31 PM
271

Strike First Strike Hard No Mercy Cobra Kai said it best
/r/seduction08/04/21 04:57 PM
1

Read models again
/r/seduction07/04/21 07:40 PM
0

“Motherly vibes” no wonder you can’t get a girlfriend
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:36 AM
10

So you weren’t dating? Dawg, you were in a strictly platonic relationship. Please just read Models by Mark Manson. It will flip your life around. It’s the most recommended book on this sub Reddit
/r/seduction05/04/21 09:12 PM
12

It’s not about you bro. Relationships are 50/50. How do you know she wasn’t waiting for you to kiss her the whole three months? Grow a pair and make a move before someone else does.
/r/seduction05/04/21 09:06 PM
6

Dawg you should be going in for the first kiss after 20 minutes. Why the hell are you waiting three months
/r/seduction05/04/21 08:58 PM
1

Definitely doesn’t know enough to agree
/r/seduction05/04/21 06:37 PM
1

Dude do you have any idea how many one night stands I’ve had with no confirm or any protection at all. Don’t cum in her - she won’t get pregnant Put a condom - on you won’t get STDs
/r/seduction05/04/21 02:51 PM
1

Give her your PayPal and let’s find out
/r/seduction05/04/21 06:00 AM
1

Umm whatever floats your boat buddy. I’m sure this is more of a thing in contagion. Like when someone sees you yawn so they yawn. A girl may see you see your shoulders so she swings yours. I guess you could take it as an indicator of interest (IOI) but no more than that.
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:12 PM
-1

Facts. I’d say at music festival or any psychedelic event people might trip all three but I doubt it, more likely a tab Friday then a stronger on Sunday. Most people I know wait two weeks for tolerance to reset before doing acid again
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:24 PM
3

It was a joke. I’m making fun of the fact that your 14 and stressing out over how long a girl takes to reply. She’s not into you, 14 girls are obsessed with there phones if she replies late it’s on purpose
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:11 PM
1

Tell her your in love with her. There now she’ll never reply again.
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:10 PM
10

Honestly you should do a little bit of light research on LSD. I promise you alcohol is WAY worse than acid. Acid just has that schedule 1 drug label so it sounds horrible. But acid has literally made people’s lives better. It gives them new perspectives, incredible insight, enhances creativity, and there’s barely any health effects or addiction risk with acid. Alcohol on the other hand can ruin lives, it is addictive, it’s horrible for you, it can make you a complete drunk idiot. Honestly this s…
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:31 PM
1

Yeah usually people have houses they live in together and they throw parties. The best ones always come from the sports team (baseball party, football party...) or from frat parties. Frats for us are like 80 dudes living in one massive house that’s on campus and they have no rules and usually a cop is outside the whole time making sure theirs no huge emergencies or fights or anything like that. We all have fake IDs so we go to clubs but house parties are way for fun since it’s just adolescences …
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:05 PM
1

Well for us is a school with 18,000 students and we all live very very close to each other so yeah parties every day. Keep in mind in the states college is roughly the age 18-22 with no parents or rules.
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:48 PM
11

Can’t tell if this is a joke or if you’re being serious 😂
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:37 PM
6

Well I go to the university of Miami and you hookup with girls you meet at parties or live in your building for the most part. This school is tough and competitive. Classes are for learning not flirting. If you hookup with someone from class it was because you sat near each other and shared notes and started studying and then hooking up. But if you want the quick hookup game the girl in the elavator, and invite her to stop by your room while she’s on the way to hers.
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:34 PM
1

You can be direct and tell her it’s a date. If she says yes you know she’s interested. You also can keep it ambiguous and say hang out. You can set up mind games this way. Or it can just be a safer bet if you don’t know if she’s interested.
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:30 PM
2

How did this get no upvotes.
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:02 AM
0

Her bio can say no hook ups and she still sleep with you on the first date. Do you have any guys how many guys switched there swipe to left once they saw that. She wants to get rid of the dirt bags that are just gonna waste her time. Remember sleeping with someone should be about building a genuine connection together, not busting a nut.
/r/seduction04/04/21 12:40 AM
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Cute, hot, beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, bomb, pretty, dime, attractive etc, all mean different things.
/r/seduction04/04/21 12:34 AM
2

Good man, go out for some drinks have fun, let’s hear the success in the morning. You got this!
/r/seduction03/04/21 08:40 PM
1

PUA’s don’t hold back, go straight for the threesome. Just remember it has to feel like it just happened. Tell them they both seem really cools no you want to hangout with them together even if it’s not a date. Go out and do stuff, have fun, make them like you. Ideally they will both be secret competing over you to see who you pick. Little do they know...
/r/seduction03/04/21 08:35 PM
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Yeah don’t blow this one, you definitely can. Don’t mention a threesome, let feel like it just happened. You can invite them both over for a movie. Put one of the girls in the middle with you an end. You can put your arm around the girl in the middle and hold the other girls hand - they’ll figure it out. Better yet off to give a girls four handed massage where you and the other girl give her a massage together. Then you all take turns and you can gradually escalate
/r/seduction03/04/21 08:19 PM
2

I like the concept of not practice hard game for more than three years. We saw what happened to mystery and Neil Strauss. Sex addiction is no joke
/r/seduction03/04/21 05:04 AM
1

Thanks man, I have a high respect for this sub. I will post this on other sex subs cause I do want to get a bit of a discussion around this technique. See if any others have tried and had success
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:25 PM
1

I had a feeling this would be removed. I figured I’d post it here since it was a seductive technique
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:13 PM
2

Damn, then maybe I should just put a ring on her finger now 💍
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:25 PM
1

Why did this not get more upvoted lol. A lot people on this sub need to see this
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:16 AM
5

Just please don’t be that loser that sits alone at the bar ordering drinks all night. If your alone then you have to game the whole venue. This means first approaching larger groups, even ones that don’t have a girl you want to game on. You can be upfront with the group and tell them your out alone and that it doesn’t mean you can’t have fun. You can also tell them you want to try approaching a few girls. This way when you want to make an approach you can leave the group without having to say go…
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:12 AM
1

Pick up a book in body language. Once you realize how nonverbal communication correlations with verbal communication you may catch yourself slightly touch her elbow or her arm when you make her laugh (kino) Plus you’ll be able to read body language so you’ll know if she accepted your kino or thought it was weird. Then you can escalate to holding her hand and getting a kiss close
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:01 AM
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If you say can afford to move then then you can definitely afford a cheap motel for the night. If you don’t want to admit that you live with your parents just tell her that hotel sex is always better. If you don’t want to pay for a hotel or cheap motel, then know that car sex is surprisingly common. Just find a private place to park and make it seem like it just happened. Depending on your location you can go for out door sex. Obviously this won’t work if your from New York or something but I’m …
/r/seduction02/04/21 08:55 AM
3

Don’t wait until the end of the night to kiss her.
/r/seduction02/04/21 07:43 AM
1

This advice is for 18+
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:54 PM
1

This only works on 18+
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:11 PM
6

The way you describe then yes! A lot of it is incredibly funny and totally gives you confidence aha. My only issue is most guys forget the funny part and are just incredibly cocky. But yeah if you do it your way then I have full support
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:41 PM
4

“He was just so confident, and I want that confidence” - literally every girl ever Yes, girl like to see a confident man. Yes, You can be insecure and not be a virgin; but odds are insecure guys aren’t pulling dimes every weekend.
/r/seduction31/03/21 04:29 PM
2

Models will teach you how to be great with women and is the exact opposite of pickup training material.
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:04 PM
1

Can I have your name??? CREEP.
/r/seduction31/03/21 02:45 PM
1

Bite your lip
/r/seduction31/03/21 04:58 AM
2

Yes I like that, engage her mind and make her dream with you. But if you really need questions for whatever reason don’t ask her what she likes or yes/no questions. Even your questions should be stories. Example: the most cliché opener is the jealous girlfriend opener. Google it, but in short you ask her if it’s weird that one of your friends is still friends with his ex, that’s not weird but what if he is a box of old memories with her.... then you can say his girlfriend is crazy jealous about …
/r/seduction31/03/21 01:18 AM
1

Most dating books and seduction books are complete garbage. If you start reading something and they refer to their website or links for more content just throw it away and run. Revelations is by far the best book, it’s the most up to date version of the mystery method which will get you laid. “The Game” by Neil Strauss is the first successful pickup book and blew up the pickup industry. A lot of it is outdated now and it’s not really a guide it’s more of a story of his life and his application o…
/r/seduction31/03/21 01:01 AM
3

It’s not an interview. Instead of preparing magic questions, prepare some stories. Make your laugh, have your stories show off qualities about yourself that validate herself. Ask her what she would do if she was in your position. She’ll like have want to start telling you stories about her and that sounds to me like a perfect date
/r/seduction31/03/21 12:12 AM
1

For those terms Framing and DHV and almost every other pickup artist term came from a guy named Mystery. If you want to learn how to get laid read “revelations” by the Venusian artist. Revelations is by far the best hand book for picking up women
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:21 PM
1

If being a Rake doesn’t sound natural to you just keep reading. All the seductive characters that he mentions have great success with women, you should find the one that is most like you and build yourself around it. Some example Mystery was a total Dandy, I’d say Neil Strauss is a charismatic, Mark Manson is a natural. All character types are seductive just pick the one that is most like you
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:31 PM
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Leave him, he doesn’t deserve you. Sounds to me like he sees you as a booty call.
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:26 PM
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Me too man. I have no masculine qualities at all, people all the time think I’m gay... but jokes on them I’ll fuck their girlfriend and their sisters lol. But in Robert Green’s “The Art of Seduction” he talks about the different kind of seductive characters. I highly recommend you read the chapter on the Dandy. Basically Dandies are seductive because they have the feminine traits that women always wished a man to have. It gives off a sort of sexual freedom because they reversed the normal patter…
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:59 AM
2

When I had lasik eye surgery my eyes were patched shit and I had my cousin taking care of me. When she would take me to another room I’d hold onto her shoulders cause I couldn’t see and one time she was still facing me and I accidentally grabbed her boob. We laughed it off but it was awkward cause that was my cousins boob lol.
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:52 AM
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I don’t think conversations have to be sexual at all. I’ve hooked up with girls I never even flirted with. All that matters is that you can get the kiss if you can kiss her before the sex location your all set just take her home. If you wait untill the end up the night then make the kiss innocent, slow, passionate. Then slowly start heating things up. It should feel like if it “just happened” and no one planned for sex. Then there’s no guilty, no buyers remorse, just wild monkey sex
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:50 AM
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I could talk about attraction for hours but for now just make her laugh. Tease her about everything (just not things out of her control like height or appearance) tell her stories that show attractive qualities about you without bragging (like the time you saved a dog from choking or how you talked to a homeless guy and he motivated you to make something of your life). Give her reasons to invest in your and you tell her what you like about her - NOT her looks, tel her things like she’s easy to t…
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:44 AM
3

That’s a good sign she introduced you to her friend but don’t read too much into. All it means is that she’s comfortable with you and you can go into there attraction phase. Her introducing you to her friend does not mean she was passing you on. It’s common courtesy to introduce your friends to your other friends. Just take it as a little victory that your now her friend and no longer some rando
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:16 AM
1

Dawg you suck. This should’ve been an easy hookup
/r/seduction29/03/21 12:43 AM
4

Your gonna get a lot of hate. This subreddit is full of inner game virgins
/r/seduction28/03/21 11:15 PM
4

Game is getting laid Seduction is more about getting others to want your influence
/r/seduction28/03/21 10:09 PM
10

The friendly conversation only needs to last long enough to make her comfortable with you. Then you must be flirty. Flirt flirt flirt. Btw she’s not going to upfront agree to be a fwb. Likely you’ll invite her to your place to see that interesting thing you were telling her about and the sex “just happened”. Then afterwards if she doesn’t want to be in a seriously relationship but her gave her an amazing orgasm she’ll be asking you to have a more casual fwb relationship
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:01 PM
2

“The Game” was the book that blew up the Pick Ip artist community. At the time it was about guys getting laid. Now all the tactics in the book have been dropped as the community turned more into getting girls by better your best self rather than faking being something your not to get laid. “The Game” and “The Mystery Method” will get you laid with hot bimbos, but they really aren’t gonna improve your life in any other way
/r/seduction24/03/21 06:51 PM
1

Yikes, if she doesn’t call or FT and sucks at texting that might be a red flag...
/r/seduction24/03/21 02:16 AM
1

My girlfriend right now is a horrible texter and I always think she’s not interested but when I call she says she’s waiting all day for my texts. Some people are like that maybe FaceTime or call is a better option
/r/seduction24/03/21 02:13 AM
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Idk man I’ve scored girls that were way out of my league cause I played on their need for attention and a lot of push pull. It comes down to what type of seducer you are and who you want to be
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:21 PM
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I’m 5’6” and do just fine. Just learn to carry 6’2” confidence
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:14 PM
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Pre planned material and negs 😘
/r/seduction19/03/21 04:49 PM
39

I usually say “fuck no you buy me the drink” We laugh and I buy her the drink
/r/seduction19/03/21 04:45 PM
1

I’m planning on hooking up with her again tonight so I’m thinking doggystyle might be the move for more visual stimulation
/r/seduction18/03/21 05:01 AM
1

Dawg I was about to write a similar post. Same thing happened to me. I have a huge blowjob fetish and basically all porn I watch is blowjobs. And a hot girl was giving me head last night and I couldn’t finish. I think for me it is too much porn since I could only feel her tongue and not see her going down on me very well since the rest of her head was in the way
/r/seduction18/03/21 04:58 AM
1

Why
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:30 AM
1

He doesn’t deserve you.
/r/seduction17/03/21 05:00 AM
1

Nah I don’t use tricks. But he is solid on social dynamics. If you follow his steps systematically it will work.
/r/seduction17/03/21 04:58 AM
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Yeah I have no idea why your getting so much hate. I always tell my female friends I will never let them date a guy that makes them chase him.
/r/seduction17/03/21 02:12 AM
1

Read the Mystery Method.
/r/seduction17/03/21 12:24 AM
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Maybe you have a secret crush on him. I promise you there are girls that are not into that type and will prefer a dad bod with real game over some narcissistic chad.
/r/seduction17/03/21 12:23 AM
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I will be less rude than everyone else. It’s because you don’t want to be the one chasing the guy. You want a guy whose going to treat you like the only girl in the world. We see it all the time and movies and hear about in songs. It’s perfectly okay, I don’t think your narcissistic. I think you know your worth and deserve someone who will treat you special
/r/seduction17/03/21 12:21 AM
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Have you ever seen the videos where the seduction artist tries promoting his program 20 full minutes of “you would not believe this ONE TRICK to get any women in bed” and then they never have a trick. People think its a scam and that you can’t learn game. You either have it or you don’t. Let them miss out, more women for me :)
/r/seduction13/03/21 04:57 AM
2

Please for the love of god learn some social skills. It sounds like your trying her hardest to get her NOT to talk to you.
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:48 PM
0

I thought it was going great until you asked her where her favorite karaoke place was only because she didn’t have a go to place. Instead you should have said “[this place] is the best in town” or if you don’t have one just saying “I don’t have a personal favorite but we could go karaoke bar hopping together” boom now you got a date setup. And going to multiple places together builds a stronger connection than going to just one place.
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:45 PM
2

Yes he gets a lot of hate on his word choice
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:36 PM
1

Try LSD
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:31 PM
1

Nah go through my profile I’m still a mystery method user
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:35 AM
1

Shall I meant that Neil Strauss’ wife is a complete dime.
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:30 AM
1

Yeah I’m saying I agree with you. But there’s some hot bimbos that will fall for average looking guys with game. As far as marriage it will typically need to be fairly even on looks otherwise the chick will eventually get bored and have an indent I’ve to cheat or leave
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:08 AM
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I’m a pretty good looking guy but average height. I’ve hooked up with plenty of girls out of my league because my game made me standout. But Instagram Models, cover girls, girls that are complete 10s... No. It’s not a game issue. It’s a not being 6 feet tall and physically fit issue. It’s getting rejected before given a shot. Does it matter? NO. Cause women are objects and there’s more to them than looks. The goal isn’t to get the hottest girl. It’s about finding someone special.
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:42 AM
1

Isn’t Texas like open now?
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:35 AM
2

I liked the mystery method because I struggled deeply with insecurity and still do. Aha I was actively looking for women to be my validation. Problem is my depression has never gone away. Models opened by bashing The mystery method so it’s really setting the bar high. I want to finish reading it by tomorrow to test my game out this weekend
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:28 AM
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I started pickup a few months ago, I figured I’d start at the roots. I read the Game, then I read the mystery method. Then I dug for hours looking at their old teachings. It worked. I have more confidence and I can get girls. But I get a lot of hate anytime I tell anyone about my pickup theories. This shit is manipulative. I just started Models, I will let you know how the change in perspective helps
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:21 AM
4

I think cold approaching is easier now since girls are being approached less.
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:18 AM
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Bro, even when guys ask me to hangout I ask what we’re gonna do. It’s not a shit test, it’s just wanting to know if it’s worth cancelling other plans for.
/r/seduction11/03/21 04:02 AM
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Try it in field. You’d be surprised at how much people are willing to listen to you talk about stupid stuff as long as it’s not boring. But I promise you if you open her playing 21 questions she’s not going to know you well enough to put any real effort in her answers. She’s gonna blame you for being boring even though your putting in all the effort. Plus no one likes being interviewed
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:17 PM
2

“The talkative guy gets the girl” - Mystery
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:08 PM
2

If you only ask questions it is CREEPY. Like don’t force her to talk. I found early in the interaction you pretty much have to do all the talking. Eventually you’ll say something that sparks her attention and she’ll start talking. That’s when you start asking questions and encourage her to keep going
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:59 PM
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Dawg that’s not the point. It’s not about her. I just feel like a loser that needs to be manipulate to be liked. For the first time I’m not proud of the number I’ve girls I’ve Hooked up with since not of it was genuine and all tactics.
/r/seduction06/03/21 03:34 PM
2

It doesn’t matter. I go for the Instagram cause I like the extra follow. But phone number is more personal than a lousy bitmoji on an app.
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:09 AM
2

I mean I talk to multiple girls. Keep in mind girls are constantly getting hit up and have plenty of options, there’s nothing wrong with her going on dates with multiple guys before deciding to commit to one
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:08 AM
3

Well actually you start with DHVs then you neg
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:06 AM
0

Okay I still need to do a lot of research and experiments but the premise will be about teaching people how to get women to feel comfortable, powerful, and embrace their sexuality and rid all preexisting beliefs that results in them feeling guilt or shame.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:19 PM
6

I love this. Nowadays people get approached way less and guys usual go for girls who look “easy” (way too drunk and tight dress or skirt)
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:15 PM
1

We will respect women and build up their feminine energy.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:10 PM
2

I mean if you take it to the extent that the M3 model did where your entire game is based of manipulative social dynamics then I’m on your side. All I’m saying is a well timed neg or a little push pull sprinkled in can be the difference between taking her home or getting a fake number.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:09 PM
1

Your not being selfish. Your partner is being a douchebag and is pressuring you. Make him make some sort of sacrifice before you let him get his way. Tell him you’d feel more comfortable if you did an mfm threesome first or if he let you peg him. Make him earn it. Don’t reward him for being selfish. I say don’t do the threesome (even if you want to) until he makes a sacrifice for you.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:59 PM
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Plug your nose and talk. If you your tone changes it means your not speaking with your chest
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:53 PM
1

Idk man if seen some girls light up when that cute guy they like texts them
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:48 PM
2

Honestly for young guys texting is good. Girls are glued to their phones and if you don’t text her because your date is already set up then a million other guys are going to convince her to flake on you for them.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:31 PM
3

I was about to say models. If you actually want to see improvement then you can bust out the book in 2-3 days. Don’t say you need help if you aren’t willing to read this piece of gold.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:30 PM
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Honestly this post just inspired me to start writing a book I have been thinking about “A feminists’ guide to pickup” Basically seduction but not for misogynists.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:29 PM
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It really depends on what stage of the seductive process your in. Like In the comfort building stage I think it’s way more for fun if you disqualify yourself too. Ex. She says “I’m such a bad cook” You could say “ nah nah nah you haven’t seen my cooking, last time I set the whole kitchen in fire” It’s not always about seducing and qualifying yourself sometimes it’s better to just have fun and get her laughing.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:22 PM
1

Night clubs are open there’s just a curfew. No one wears masks. Everyone already got Covid
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:08 PM
3

I actually go to the university of Miami. And Yes the mystery method does work at frat parties and nightclubs. In Miami there’s a lot of gorgeous girls with massively inflated egos, so if your not a dime like Leonardo DiCaprio you have take advantage of the fact that the girls are very gullible and load up yourself with DHVs and negs. Models is the better book but Mystery Method was the first book that got really big and launched the community. I have seen a few of Jack Denmo’s videos so I reall…
/r/seduction04/03/21 03:49 PM
1

I neg because the mystery method is what made me lose my virginity. I don’t preach negging the way Mystery and Style did. But if I’m talking to a girl who’s losing interest a creative neg or two makes it seem like I’m disqualifying her and not begging her for attention. Then we can step back and play with a little push pull. It may be manipulative but I wouldn’t say it’s unethical.
/r/seduction04/03/21 03:39 PM
1

I’ve only been to Vegas once but the strip is complete gold if your looking for women. The tourists are hot and club entries are significantly cheaper for women so there’s always a lot of talent to work with. I live in Miami so I have to be biased. As a Latino male it’s extremely easy for me to get the thousands of southern American girls that fill the Latin night clubs. Both are prime cities so I’d say focus on what type of event you want to go to and focus on fun first and women second - as th…
/r/seduction04/03/21 03:31 PM
1

When you first start talking to a girl you like you should actually LEAN BACK. Give her space and let her feel comfortable. Please don’t be that creep that won’t get off her
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:55 PM
1

Legend
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:54 PM
1

Yes like for me I work in marketing. When a girl asked what I do I NEVER answer Marketing. I say when I was younger I always liked choosing the brand that looked more happy and now I work to fix the image of a brand to create a more positive perception.
/r/seduction03/03/21 04:56 AM
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Keep in mind a lot of girls are on Tinder looking for rebounds, entertainment, free dates, to raise their self esteem, or a variety of other reasons. Maybe she got back together with her ex or something and didn’t want to risk it for a guy she just met. The point is don’t blame yourself and learn from this. It sounds to me like you showed her a lot of interest but no disinterest, don’t forget to incorporate some push-pull when building attraction.
/r/seduction03/03/21 04:52 AM
2

It’s a yes from me
/r/seduction02/03/21 11:40 PM
1

Surprisingly yeah. Girls will either say “I have to go to” or they’ll go with you and wait out. If they waited for you by the door than it is on
/r/seduction23/02/21 11:25 PM
1

Thanks for the hate. I think you just cured me aha. This is what I was looking for. I guess now getting the number isn’t the W.
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:25 PM
8

Before I studied seduction and was an AFC I can’t tell tell you how many times I waited till the last minute to tell a girl I liked her only for her response to be “why did you wait so long to tell me we could have been dating this whole time” Confidence is key. Learn to look for indicators of interest. And if you game too hard notice indicators of disinterest to slow things down.
/r/seduction20/02/21 03:33 AM
1

Sent you a private message
/r/seduction17/02/21 03:57 AM
1

My apologies laddy. An AFC is an Average Frustrated Chump. Basically think of a simp aha pretty much just a guy whose ends up getting used by women and ends up in the friendzone
/r/seduction17/02/21 03:22 AM
3

I’m stealing this line. thank you
/r/seduction16/02/21 11:31 PM
1

Pandemic is slowly ending bro
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:35 PM
1

Yeah I’ve heard of a ton of paths so I figured I’d start with the one that blew of the PUA community. I’m gonna read models next
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:02 PM
2

Hell yeah! I probably did have Valentine’s Day luck since no girl wants to be single in V Day but I’ll take take it
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:01 PM
1

Thanks man long journey ahead still but definitely beats being an AFC
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:00 PM
1

Definetly worth the read. The mystery method is passed on three phases: attract, build comfort, seduce. The book takes you through each step and is loaded with social theory other good advice.
/r/seduction16/02/21 12:59 PM
1

I mentioned that the girls were rejecting me at first like they didn’t want let me sit with them. I would say they weren’t willing to be picked up. The point of the false time constraint is that they will be willing to listen to you if it is only for a minute or two
/r/seduction16/02/21 12:41 PM
39

I’m actually in Mexico. Bars are open but not nightclubs
/r/seduction15/02/21 10:30 PM
13

What would you recommend. Honestly the weakness in my life has been my social life. I have a pretty cleaned up appearance and am almost done with school.
/r/seduction15/02/21 08:25 PM
3

Get off DMs and ask her out on a date
/r/seduction15/02/21 06:24 PM
1

If she thinks she’ll have a better time with you than her other plans (probably none) she’ll say yes
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:17 PM
1

1 word for you. Tension
/r/seduction07/02/21 11:03 PM
0

When I started I approached anyone and anything. Even if your not trying to take them home you can still improve your social skills
/r/seduction30/01/21 05:45 PM
1

Building confidence is definitely a never ending process. But at least with better body language you can fake it. And simply having a better idea of what they are thinking thinking makes talking to stranger so my more natural. Goodluck man, hope it helps
/r/seduction22/12/20 07:02 AM
1

For me I couldn’t figure out for the life of me how to stop being socially awkward around girls no matter how many girls I tried approaching or what I said. What helped me by far the most was learning body language. Small things like standing up right and keeping my feet shoulder with apart were what finally gave me confidence when talking to strangers. It also helps knowing that if girls start touching their hair or blinking a lot she may be interested. I’d say 60% of women will say yes to a da…
/r/seduction22/12/20 05:44 AM
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