How do you avoid to be overly invested/attached?

2011-06-22T14:12:07+00:00

Personally, I just focus on the next one.

"Onto the next one."

knightsmith39 · 2011-06-22T07:27:09+00:00

I think about this. There are over 3 BILLION other women out there, dying to meet me.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-06-21T17:13:41+00:00

I suspect this is caused by your seeking the perfect relationship. You're projecting your idealized relationship onto a girl, which makes you unable to see what's really happening. It is OK to have ideals, and try to get a girl to qualify herself. But don't set the bar impossibly high.

nonatal · 2011-06-21T23:57:53+00:00

It could also be that you are subconsciously trying to make sure you do NOT fall for girls. Hence suddenly putting them up on pedestals that are obviously impossible, ensuring that they crash and burn in your eyes. The mind can be irritatingly dumb about these things.

justthrowmeout · 2011-06-21T16:59:53+00:00

Sounds like your wired for monogamy. I'm kinda that way too. Enough experience and you'll start to see the errors of your thinking.

Title	How do you avoid to be overly invested/attached?
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Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	June 21, 2011 12:45 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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