OK, i've started to get to the point where I have one or two girls 'on the boil' (a couple of dates a week), and I'm still having difficulty knowing how to avoid getting into relationship territory without hurt the girls feelings. Sometimes I use excuses until they get the hint, sometimes I just ignore their messages.

Last night for example, I had a date which ended with a kiss and the next time we meet I think it'll be a fuck, but after that I can't imagine wanting to take it any further. I'd just feel like an asshole if I stopped contacting her, but even more so if I was to sleep with her and then text her saying 'I don't want to see you again'.

Do PUAs have a solution to this? Do they just play the field so much that the girls realise this and don't expect anything more? Do I just need to be more of a douche?