How do you communicate "emotionally" with women?

metalhead82 · 2018-12-15T03:11:12+00:00

You have emotions just like she does. You can feel sadness, anger, humor, curiosity, amazement, empathy, fear.

Women are emotional beings, and they thrive on emotions, and will be attracted to a man who knows how to get her to feel many emotions. When you can interact with a woman emotionally, this means that you can speak and act in a way that gets her emotions to fluctuate, but in a good way. Like a roller coaster. Women want to feel all the hills and valleys of their emotions, just like a roller coaster. That may sound counterintuitive; women don't want to be sad, but they want to experience the bad so they know what the good feels like. She wants to feel how you feel when you communicate with her. Women want a man that can emote to them safely, it's actually one of the pillars of attraction for them.

I'll use an example with a story. Let's say you hiked up a mountain last week. You could give a logical account of what happened, or an emotional account. Check out the difference. I'm just making this up on the spot, but speaking in an emotional way will take practice. It's not just about adding flowery or delicate language, or adding adjectives to everything, this is also about your frame. If you're REALLY into the story you're telling, she will know. If you're just trying to bullshit her, she'll know. I could talk for a while about your frame, and this is very important with respect to emoting with women. You need to be coming from a congruent frame. Again, this will take work and practice.

Logical account: I hiked Mount California last week with two of my friends. We brought some food with us and had a picnic at the top. It was pretty nice out, and we had a fun time. We got pretty tired so we hiked down before sunset and returned home.

Emotional account: My friends and I found this amazing beautiful place to go hiking. Beautiful foliage, colorful scenery, and my goodness, the view from the top! Have you ever wanted to hike a mountain that overlooks the water? This is the first time I hiked a mountain like this, and the hike to the top was really exhilarating. It's one of the most stunning views I have ever seen. There's this part where you have to walk along a cliff and it was so scary. I remember feeling the butterflies in my stomach as I looked down and saw the water so far down. It gave me shivers when I was on the top of the mountain looking down at the shimmering water. The wind blowing in my face felt so good, and it made me smile.

We brought so much good food to the top with us. It was the perfect reward for the long hike. The food was so delicious that it almost melted in my mouth. And the came the wine that my friends made. It was the best red wine I've ever had, and I still remember the taste.

The weather was amazing, and I was thankful that we picked such a nice day to go hiking. After a long and exhausting but fulfilling hike, we decided that we had enough fun for one day and hiked back down. Looking back, it was one of my favorite days in a long time. I went to bed that night with a smile on my face.

I hope you see the difference. You don't always need to be speaking in an emotional way with women, but it's definitely needed if you're going to attract women, in the initial stages of when you meet them.

sink_flower432 · 2018-12-15T07:36:10+00:00

I think emotional communication is about being vulnerable. Which means not guarding your emotions. If I was to expand a bit more, being aware of your bodily sensations and your general mood and expressing that honestly while maintaining eye contact with the woman, keeping your hands by your side rather than in front of your chest, smiling when happy, not smiling when you are not happy, allowing tears to come up or anger or joy or fear or arousal and being authentic in your body language and tonality and words with what you're feeling. This is what I believe is emotional communication. It's the opposite of being guarded.

A guarded, logical guy will do what I'm doing right now .. "I think" "blah blah blah" he will use a lot of words or discuss or debate concepts or achievements, but their won't be any emotion behind the words other than perhaps anger from competitiveness or the emotions will be hidden or disguised.

Rkingpin · 2018-12-15T11:03:22+00:00

You have to spike her emotions instead of chatting to her in a boring exchange of knowledge type convo you might have with your bros.

Easy ways to do this include making her qualify herself, push pull, teasing etc etc

Kissofdeathxoxo · 2018-12-15T22:02:15+00:00

Waiting for more comments soaking it up like a sponge!

diwolute · 2018-12-15T13:03:58+00:00

An emotional voice is all about using different voice tones, instead of a monotone or formal voice tone.

Put enthusiasm, love, excitement, approval, disapproval, sadness... there are thousands of different emotions to tap.

You don't need to sound "gay" at all. A manly voice can also display emotions.

Just do not exaggerate. Put your emotions in all your speak, but just as if the emotions "were leaking out of you".

Also, try to mix different emotions at the same time, like half suspicious and half excited.

sink_flower432 · 2018-12-15T02:42:06+00:00

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Title	How do you communicate "emotionally" with women?
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Date	December 15, 2018 2:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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