OK, I'm not saying I necessarily have that choice, but this is a question for those who don't have the choice as well. For those who struggle confidence or indecision, this is doubly the problem.

Offline, you go to place, gathering or activity with a lot of decent and good looking girls. Cock-block isn't a huge issue. How would you scour the field, go through them one by one and see which one clicks with you? What I tend to struggle is my attraction to them. Which means if you know a girl isn't interested or isn't likely interested, and this is itself hard to gauge, you still try to make it happen by conversation. I'm not talking anything forceful or annoying. Most girls would continue the conversation even when she a not interested. Meanwhile there may be girls who are interested, but you're not giving them a chance. I know the typical PUA thing is to move. Sometimes this is hard to do emotionally the same night.

Online and in general, you would have to juggle with which girl to give more attention to. You only have so much time. But again this isn't abundance we're talking about here. Your investment into one girl may not pay off and yet you try to keep it alive because of your attraction to her. Online, she could easily bail or ghost you.

So how do you choose and prioritize?