How do you define loving yourself and how do I start?

recyclablebantha · 2013-05-29T06:09:44+00:00

How about this:

Who do you see every morning when you wake up and look in the mirror? You.
Who knows what you like better than you? No one.
Who can get you off better than you? No one.
Who knows your every thought better than you? No one.
Who knows what you want the moment you want it? You.

So by extension, you are rather uniquely suited to create your own fucking happiness. No one can ever do for you, what you can do for you.

FittersGuy · 2013-05-28T21:33:17+00:00

Define who you want to become in 5 years and work toward that. Find a role-model, hang out with people who make your life better. Avoid negative people.

You can also work on your outward appearance, dress better, work out, keep clean, etc.

LoGun_ · 2013-05-29T12:41:29+00:00

I would define loving yourself as prioritising your own needs over the needs of others. And how do you start? Like these guys have said, work out what you want and go after it. There's really not much more to it.

There's some deeper stuff you can work on, like why you're not prioritising what you want, discovering what you're really looking for, and looking at different ways to give yourself what you want, but those basics above are a good place to start.

Hit me up if you want to look at blogs for ideas on where to start.

Zhaetur · 2013-05-29T13:48:00+00:00

http://www.highexistence.com/my-radical-realization-about-self-love/

Title	How do you define loving yourself and how do I start?
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Date	May 28, 2013 9:29 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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