How do you eye fuck?

P15Raindrop · 2016-02-15T03:09:30+00:00

First off, DON'T STARE.

When you stare at something like strange shape in the distance or pretty picture on the wall, you are lost in your own thoughts and detached from the reality around you. If you stare at a woman in that same way all she's going to see is a man she doesn't know, lost in his own thoughts, possibly thinking about killing her.

Second, DON'T GRIN.

Grinning at a woman only conveys to her that you want to get into her pants, and the fact that you are so brazen about it shows that you probably lack any form of suave or charm.

Third, DON'T FLINCH.

If you do ever get into an eye contact exchange with a girl, backing off and acting timid will set a precedent for your entire interaction. Did you just make eyes with each other across a bar, and now you can barely look at her without getting nervous? She'll detect that if you pluck up the courage to approach.

So, what to do?

You MUST, somehow, acknowledge the fact that you know she's looking at you, and that you're interested in her, and that you're not a threat... just a curiosity. If you are occupied or with friends then this is ideal because you should carry on what you're doing, acting natural (and attractive) while every once in a while shooting her another glance. Don't look too much though, you want to give her the opportunity to check you out without herself being scrutinised. If she likes what she sees, she'll keep looking.

Now, you've exchanged two or three glances. She knows you like her, and you know she's curious/interested. This is when you can eye fuck. You might hold eye contact for juuuuust a second or two longer that you should... then you give a shy smile, maybe a wink if you think she's the type (and you know how to wink) and see what her reaction is. If she smiles back and keep looking, then you have a green light to approach. It's not a cold approach anymore. You're the guy she's been making eyes with the 10 minutes and she literally waiting for you to make your move.

"Hi, what's your name?" is the most devastatingly simple opener there is. Exchange names and then make a simple, honest, non-threatenng comment like "you look beautiful tonight, you caught my eye and I couldn't stop!" Then just talk, about whatever.

Eye contact is essential for the cold approach. It allows two people to build up interest and expectations so that the pang of a "Hey how are you" from a stranger is greatly smoothed. Also, it's a good filter for you. If you like a few women in the bar, but one is engaging with you in eye contact, then you're 90% done.

whydidubanmehelp · 2016-02-15T02:43:17+00:00

Wear sunglasses for eye protection

peachandcake · 2016-02-15T12:55:18+00:00

this

Osafune2 · 2016-02-15T04:10:23+00:00

Like this

https://youtu.be/Fhu3USolTok

drummmmmergeorge · 2016-02-15T04:01:31+00:00

How I got the girl was with my googly-eyes. I just stared at her until she stared back, it works if you are good looking and somewhat appraochable.

BudTrip · 2016-02-15T06:18:06+00:00

it's a feeling man, eye-fucking is a feeling. Feelings require reciprocation, sometimes you get a sense that a chick is ready to be eyefucked, then you go for it. You can't start looking which girl to eye fuck, you look around and then it happens; or maybe it doesn't. I prefer to open rather than wait for indicators

Bigjohnthug · 2016-02-15T04:24:19+00:00

Have your eyes slightly more closed than normal and your lips a little pouty. Best way is to actually think about fucking them while you do it. Checking out their body helps.

Title	How do you eye fuck?
Author	G3ck0
Upvotes	22
Comments	12
Date	February 15, 2016 2:31 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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