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Well yeah, the root cause of how their feeling is how you are looking at them and your own body language.
/r/seduction01/09/17 03:09 AM
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Revolves around more, "Why is that guy 'staring' at me?" That can drive someone's insecurity through the roof.
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:54 AM
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"Also if you get the she's not having it vibes" I get those a lot and it's one of my biggest hindrances.
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:00 PM
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Do you have a tell tale sign that she's not having it and you probably need to fuck off? It's not worth it to me if I actively ruin someone elses night, that's not enjoyable.
/r/seduction28/08/17 03:44 AM
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I'm worried about crossing too many lines too quickly though, I don't want to get into trouble. Plus I break down in those situations really quick. Maybe too big of a leap.
/r/seduction28/08/17 02:13 AM
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It's hard to engage them all and target one, at least for me. I agree with the 2 to 3, it's definitely preferable. Especially 3 in my opinion so her friend won't get left behind by herself.
/r/seduction27/08/17 09:19 PM
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The worst part is I know this. Her friends were on eliminate intruder mode closed me out super fast. Probably because I hesitated. The embarrassed has a lot to with drinking too much and feeling depressed as a result
/r/seduction27/08/17 09:18 PM
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To be honest I don't really want to talk, I want to practice partner dancing with them. It's a good opener though. I also don't want to buy drinks really at all.
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:45 PM
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To be honest some of my best friends are former room mates/bosses/coworkers/teachers/etc. The trick is to only befriend after you have no formal relationship with them. As your leaving a job, take numbers and do something with them other than just grabbing a beer. Stick to the people who will hang out semi spontaneously, the rest will just dodge it all the time and in the future. And if they send super formal texts that try to be casually funny and resemble an email. Avoid, or don't, I suggest a…
/r/seduction14/05/17 12:06 AM
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I can dance on my own but I get nervous to dance with a girl because I get confused and mix up my feet. I could take a class I guess but I only have a couple hours before I go out tonight and wanted to give something new a try tonight.
/r/seduction15/04/17 05:27 PM
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I can dance fine on my own but that doesn't help dancing with a girl where your rhythm becomes more important.
/r/seduction15/04/17 05:26 PM
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So set up something for a different day?
/r/seduction15/04/17 03:07 PM
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I figured but still.
/r/seduction24/01/17 02:48 AM
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She's only going to be there Monday's but still obviously she probably told everyone, I'm not going to be the weird guy?
/r/seduction24/01/17 02:25 AM
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All the better in my opinion. Just try it, they smile.
/r/seduction01/11/16 12:36 PM
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you can joke about how big your dick would look in her tiny hands From experience, joking about how big her hand would look with your tiny dick will get more giggles and shows your not insecure about your own size.
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:27 PM
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To add to this, what exactly do you guys do? You make eye contact, move to face her, dance kind of her tempo or what? I'm generally a bad dancer and I don't know how to match the hip swaying girls do. To add to that as well, how do you break into dance circles? I never see girls alone and if they are there alone, they get swarmed. I see them in groups of 2+ girls and maybe some guys too. I find a lot of times sections form on dance floors between larger groups and others who can't join get force…
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:17 PM
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Many many times in my life I've had to make a decision based on an assumption and 1000 unknowns.
/r/seduction06/04/16 01:36 PM
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Yes, we went for sushi and walked around a mall, it was pretty bland and I even went on the date knowing she wanted nothing physical. We met again and went bowling, it was a lot of fun, even made out a bit. Still kind of friends-ish a few weeks later.
/r/seduction05/04/16 09:46 PM
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Not that I was scared, it just seemed like all the girls were already talk to other dudes. It's good but you need to admit you were scared and this was an excuse, you very easily could have gone up to more. You could actually be saving them from an awful guy.
/r/seduction03/04/16 10:54 PM
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I was in a mad liking spree and I liked my high school friends sister. I was over it in like 7 seconds.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:20 AM
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High risk is low risk, taking a high risk makes people have to blink 20 times to understand why someone would break the qou. Not sure on accuracy but here's lieutenant Speirs to prove the point. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76XTG6dFgx0
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:01 AM
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even if they aren't Japanese, they may be learning it! :D "Sorry, I just assumed cause you're Brazilian you spoke Japanese" Best opener ever?
/r/seduction29/03/16 09:43 PM
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ありがとう！ でも日本にいません, Im in Vancouver, I am terrible at telling Asians apart and I hate the, "Wow, just cause Im Japanese you assume Im not white washed?", conversation. Yeah, it could be flirty if you wanted but I fInd the whole thing annoying. One day though, one day.
/r/seduction29/03/16 02:19 PM
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すごい、バンクーバーに住んでいる。 勉強もする。 But for some reason, I'm way more anxious assuming someone speaks a language, especially when my pronunciation is shit so it might confuse the situation quickly, which has happened in restaurants before. Good on you, I'm a little inspired.
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:24 PM
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"But rejection that comes after a feeling of deceit or 'being played' is going to do damage to their confidence in humanity." I like this and I'm glad someone shares the both sides of "Being needy/and being needed", it sheds incredible light. I actually hope to one day meet up with that girl from high school and just tell her, "I get why you did what you did" because as far as I know she believes I have some never ending hate for her, so sources say. "someone who walks over others emotions to ge…
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:47 PM
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That's a really good one, I think I can make good use of it. Thank you
/r/seduction28/03/16 02:07 AM
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I appreciate you going into so much detail. "My advice would be that if you are only looking for a physical relationship, make that very clear up front. If you perceive that they want more than that but you don't, cut it off and tell them why." How up front? I feel like getting a number then texting her, I'm only down to bang just isn't going to be very effective? Maybe I just need more practice. I can't seem to find that relationship line and not cross it because obviously it's something I keep…
/r/seduction27/03/16 07:03 PM
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I kept them as friends for a bit but its really counterproductive to my goals of pickup. Time spent with girls who o have no intention of seducing. Feels almost cruel remembering how it felt when girls did that to me
/r/seduction27/03/16 02:26 AM
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What else can I ask for if I want to continue approaching and dating women ? I cant exactly get into a relationship like that and continue. I feel like I should be at least honest as a courtesy measure. How do you go about it?
/r/seduction27/03/16 02:24 AM
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I don't get what is wrong with just coming up, putting your arm around her and just staring the dude down or mentioning she's yours? Direct confrontation?
/r/seduction24/03/16 01:30 PM
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Nothing desperate about A unless you are actually desperate
/r/seduction23/03/16 10:02 PM
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Lay out a sheet of your average/ideal week, time all the stuff you do and write it all out to see exactly what and where your time is going, add and make adjustments as needed.
/r/seduction16/03/16 12:47 PM
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Wake up at 5 and actually eat breakfast
/r/seduction16/03/16 12:43 PM
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Buddha had mad game.
/r/seduction15/03/16 01:51 AM
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Couldn't recognize her, looked way different than photos, regretted it but tried to have fun non the less. It's been hit or miss over 5 different girls with way more miss than hit.
/r/seduction15/03/16 01:39 AM
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Same, I work 7-3 in construction. I'm absolutely exhausted when I get home. Some days I make it out but I usually have running around around to do and making dinner. Sleeping around 9. I have a pretty good routine nailed but some things come before going out.
/r/seduction12/03/16 08:15 PM
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I don't think so, he referenced burning ships. A burnt ship isn't a last resort, it is no resort. Burn phone.
/r/seduction09/03/16 04:46 PM
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I did not say it was easier or harder on Tinder, just that there is more variety than girls looking for sugar daddies and providers. I will say this, in terms of sheer numbers you can cast a way bigger net of girls with less effort and less time so it at least has that. Tinder should be used as a side arm and nothing really more in my opinion.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:24 AM
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Not true, some are looking for new friends or an actual relationship (I think the later is a joke for Tinder though). Either way both are looking FOR something it just depends if they can make that an agreement so to speak
/r/seduction08/03/16 08:22 PM
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Because you want to and are not bothered by it, that's why. One of the most important things I've learned reading about PU is if you meet someone who's not down for things you like you to do, why go on? I see something funny, I like to send it
/r/seduction07/03/16 04:33 PM
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It's an answer you know already, you have you're 30 second window which is plenty to say, "Hey, excuse me". Don't try to orchestrate some plan where you leave for the bathroom when she's leaving or anything. Just go for it, if she's in a rush/busy/uninterested you'll know pretty quick.
/r/seduction07/03/16 06:18 AM
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I think it's fine to send something funny or a picture every now and then if it's going to be over a week. Just don't talk about your fucking feelings or anything. The best rule in my opinion is texting her whenever the fuck you want and not really being bothered by it.
/r/seduction07/03/16 06:15 AM
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I hate showing pictures like that even to my friends because we have different tastes and often clearly disagree on each others choices. If she's a 9 to you she might be a 5 to me. It shouldn't matter, you are getting YOUR 9/10 which is fucking awesome.
/r/seduction07/03/16 06:13 AM
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This is pretty good but you should organize the post a little bit so it's labelled and divided and not so intimidating to read
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:32 PM
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As for legality, as long as you don't distribute it it should be fine. IF she catches you, you should be honest though. Tell her you weren't getting second dates and couldn't figure out why.
/r/seduction06/03/16 06:20 PM
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Do not plan things out, you will build things up and end up failing more times than succeeding, you have to just do it. Also, you mentioned your motivation was the last day before spring break, you should have used this to motivate a close. She very well could have been waiting for you to and you could have instead seen her over the next week! It's a good job, you should be happy about it but those are the biggest thing you could have done better in my opinion.
/r/seduction06/03/16 03:06 AM
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I remember a girl asked me to go to a pottery class with her (Co worker). I was just like, "Uhhh not really", she looked really embarrassed afterwards and it wasn't until I was talking to another coworker that I realized she was actually just asking me out but I was way to awkward at the time to correct it, so I did nothing.
/r/seduction04/03/16 06:03 PM
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I know this is true but still, this is the hardest thing for me to get over. I guess I'll have to see how I do.
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:16 PM
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I go to have fun, have a drink or two to loosen up and try to dance in a way that girls want to approach me and just dance. I even get up there early in the night when the floor is open. It is really great, not giving a fuck training.
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:10 PM
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I'm horny as fuck lol but I had three dates this week, I already do Nofap. I think I'm still having trouble with being honest or my empathy is getting in the way, I feel like I need to be telling them that there is possibly other girls without totally turning them off or hurting them. It feels mean, I don't know.
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:08 PM
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Is there a way you can do that without her developing any feelings?
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:47 PM
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Are you a boy or a girl?
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:46 PM
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If you have to ask...You probably are. Just keep it flirty, let her figure it out. That said, you work with an ex of two years and your eyeing a girl in that same workplace. I've been there, don't do it, it's a headache.
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:44 PM
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Interesting, I too am immediately skeptical of any cold approach, even if a girl did it. I feel like I'd be able to hold my own from a high pressure sales man. Always like to go home and do my research.
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:40 PM
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This is slowly becoming more of my focus instead of just dropping girls who aren't interested but actually building a network with them. I really just want the freedom to approach anyone I want/need to or else I think it will hold me back for the rest of my life.
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:15 AM
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I can totally relate, if I have a few convesations with some people I usually just want to go home and just draw or something alone. I could really just keep talking to people and stuff but it's like when you're running, you could keep going but you're kinda tired and just want to stop.
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:10 AM
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Sun came out, walked around the water downtown. Held hands for a bit but she's literally fresh off the boat from Japan and she even told me that holding hands was a bit of a culture shock so I left it at that.
/r/seduction04/03/16 01:41 AM
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This is what I needed to hear, thanks man. Will try to remember to post results as a reply.
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:26 PM
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I do, I love it even without cover, I also like sitting in a coffee shop for a few hours. On any other date I try as much as possible to just enjoy myself. It's not so much what we should do but what I should be accomplishing, it feels rushed and sitting in a coffee offers much less chance of escalation. The consideration plays a big part to me, I know not everyone wants to walk around in the rain but I'll probably bring it up anyway.
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:00 PM
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It's an ego boost. Make her laugh by saying things you think are funny No reply at any point, move on Reply, go back and forth a bit, ask if she likes "x event" Say let's do that this week, ask for her number or just post yours without saying anything (If you post yours and she texts you, she's probably down)
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:19 AM
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I'm feeling like this is the best bet. I really need to build a social circle.
/r/seduction01/03/16 07:12 PM
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I think the best way I could help her is actually keep unwanted guys off of her because that seems to be more of an issue with women. Maybe strike one of you guys hitting on her?
/r/seduction01/03/16 07:11 PM
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I don't want to come off as taken though.
/r/seduction01/03/16 07:09 PM
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There's good days and bad days, I've been trying to see it as working out. Some days you fucking own your reps but others are a struggle for the same reasons (tired, stressed, etc). It's also working your social muscle. I feel like every day should be slightly scary and each new challenge potentially should feel pretty damn scary. Like jumping off a diving board that incrementally goes up 1/4 of a meter daily, then every week goes up a whole meter. I haven't really had panic attacks since high s…
/r/seduction29/02/16 11:30 PM
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No, I just say "excuse me, do you know what time it is?", (I live in Vancouver and I end up asking a majority of Asians (Not necessarily by choice) but they get really wide eyed and usually can't even say the time back in English and just show their phone screen). The look I was getting I can't really describe but those few girls I think just knew what I was doing. Today I tried lowering standards of attractiveness because I felt it was hurting my decision to approach. Today was a downer of a da…
/r/seduction29/02/16 11:23 PM
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I disagree, her friends are gonna check it out too and they might not like you by default or they will find whatever they can to keep her away from you. How do you think the average friend is going to respond when their friend tells them they met a guy on the street today, it sounds creepy right away. But really either way, they're probably going to think you manipulated your Facebook to look good anyway.
/r/seduction29/02/16 07:14 PM
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It was really basic stuff but I was shocked too, it sounds as if there isn't even, "He's just a player", or negative stigmas against it like up here.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:33 PM
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I posted it already. Really, you can find it very easily on Google.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:29 PM
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I've done a total of 3 days of this now, day 1 was 5 girls, day 2 was 10 and today was 6. Attractive was a hard goal because I don't wear my glasses that often so sometimes it was a nasty surprise what they look like close up. I think I'm fairly comfortable with asking the time now but I can't go any further to compliment or keep the conversation going in anyway, they just usually do a quick check then I guess they feel like their purpose is filled and they are gone in seconds. A couple girls to…
/r/seduction29/02/16 03:22 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TBIL2sdfoVc First result searching "TED talk on seduction"
/r/seduction29/02/16 02:01 AM
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Watch the TED talk on Seduction, some girl from Cuba does it and judging from your experience she's right. It's a cultural difference in Latin/Southern America, girls and guys practice seduction much more openly down there then in America/Canada, she was wide eyed probably because she thought this foreigner has balls. I try it a lot too but I find the average person cannot handle 10 seconds of eye contact. Or maybe I'm creepy when I do it, I don't know but I wanna go down there to try it out, se…
/r/seduction29/02/16 12:34 AM
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I went out last night with friends and felt restricted because I didn't want to ditch people I hadn't seen in a while and I could tell some of the guys weren't entirely comfortable in the club as well. Not that I'm some super brave guy but I definitely enjoy solo best for practice and groups for just relaxed no pressure fun.
/r/seduction28/02/16 11:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure there's a thread open where people rate your shit
/r/seduction28/02/16 11:36 PM
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I had this one girl who just wouldn't believe that people go on dates with no prospect of being in a relationship. We never even got to meet. That's a good response though, I have a date on Tuesday with the same kind of problem. I'll give it a try
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:35 PM
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Think of it like exp points, it's harder to get during the day but you get more experience.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:21 PM
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Holy shit this, I swear some girls are just waiting to be entertained on Tinder.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:16 PM
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Pretty sure there is a sub reddit for Tinder but your bio and pictures probably suck. A
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:12 PM
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I'm curious, how do you respond to, "I'm not looking for a relationship?". I'm not either but when I say that they ask, "so what's the point of all this then", and then I feel like I'm pigeon holed into the obvious, "I just want to fuck".
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:03 PM
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Was thinking giving weekdays a try too for practice, thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:22 PM
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Okay, I just got back, I overdressed for a super casual event and tried to power through best I could but I looked really ridiculous compared to everyone else. It was just a trade show but funny thing happened, I stepped outside to get some air and some old lady with a stroller totally believed I was working somewhere important and told me I was lucky to have such a nice job (LOL). I guess it depends on perspective of people who see you. It was a good trying not to give a fuck practice though bu…
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:21 PM
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You have a such great card to play in my opinion. You could even admit to wanting to change your ways then the pressure is on her to represent her gender. Unless however she thinks your just a straight guy bullshitting. I'm curious though, do you pick up guys?
/r/seduction25/02/16 05:21 PM
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I'd like to say I just went out and did but I've been fighting my approach anxiety for months and months walking around for hours and hours never doing anything. I'm really only just starting to break through in the past week or two, been finding and creating my own challenges so I have something to actually accomplish when I'm out. I know for sure, two of those girls I talked I could've continued the conversation if I tried. They would've seen right through the approach but I feel like they wou…
/r/seduction25/02/16 05:18 PM
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I kind of modified to me a bit more. I asked 10 randoms yesterday and 5 females today (I'm working ahead a bit from the link you posted in the first thread) Yesterday: Took me about 45min total. Out of the 10 I did, I managed to say thank and have a nice afterwards before leaving. I got plenty of smiles and some lightning fast responses. Kind of like "Holy shit, the time?! YES ITS 4:00 BYE" I was almost stunned at how ready some people to pull their phone and check (Also how many people still wh…
/r/seduction25/02/16 06:24 AM
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Sounds like WoW quest ;)
/r/seduction25/02/16 06:17 AM
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Good enough of a reason for me, I'm not getting too much from meditation either. I'm limited on floor space a bit but I'm sure I can improvise. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction25/02/16 02:53 AM
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if it's close to meditation is it something I could just replace meditation for in my schedule? Because 30 min of meditation and this sounds crazy, plus studying and work and everything else.
/r/seduction25/02/16 12:25 AM
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That's awesome advice, I fucking took notes. Last major/dumb question, how do you hold them, do you just go for it? Hips, shoulders, ass?
/r/seduction25/02/16 12:24 AM
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openatm.org What exactly is this? Stretching and movements? Can these be used as podcasts? 40-50min is kind of consuming.
/r/seduction25/02/16 12:10 AM
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I'm scared of this, you can actually get into trouble fast.
/r/seduction25/02/16 12:04 AM
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Is there anything you would recommend practicing to get the most out of any class I go to? Salsa sounds like something I'd like to try
/r/seduction24/02/16 11:55 PM
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For about the past 2ish weeks I've been practicing in my room and went out twice. I feel like it's a whole new game when a room of people are there. Can I ask what kind of classes you would recommend? There are a lot of styles of dance
/r/seduction24/02/16 11:02 PM
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I've never even thought about women competing with each other? Like group warfare or in their own groups. I agree with the monopoly women have dance floors, they're actually pretty rude in how much room they take up. I've realized though, most guys are too scared to dance at all. 80% of actual competition is on the side standing. Once I noticed this I felt really good that I'm doing something they all want to be doing. So women come up to you? You're dancing, she comes over, you mimic the moves,…
/r/seduction24/02/16 11:00 PM
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I've heard some people say that, it's kind of some shit test to see if you can keep up? You still have to maintain a fun vibe and good moves don't you? I mean, some other douche could come up anytime and try to take her. That's my next question, how do you compete with another guy and keep her interested at the same time.
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:23 PM
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Yeah but I don't to give off the gay best friend to dance with vibe.
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:21 PM
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I don't care if I look dumb at this point because in the process of learning I've looked so terrible but I think, I am one of maybe 3 or 4 guys ACTUALLY dancing out here, even when there was no girls early on in the night. Sometimes it was brutally embarrassing but I kept going. I have this one distinct memory of a girl brushing my arm with her hand and squeezing and from the way she looked at me it was as if she said, "I feel really embarrassed for you" but in an empathetic way.
/r/seduction24/02/16 06:06 AM
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I have the two step pretty down now after going out and practicing but I'm starting to work towards what to do with a girl. Sometimes they will come close to me and I don't know what to do, I'm not sure if they're teasing/mocking (Although I know some where actually mocking me)/actually wanting to dance. They kinda just laugh and dance away.
/r/seduction24/02/16 06:03 AM
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He's kind of right, if you were as alpha as you think you are you wouldn't care.
/r/seduction23/02/16 10:53 PM
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Gah, I know. I used to walk around for so long in places, hours and hours, that I know security guards were probably really curious as to what I was doing. Did you ever get a feeling like people start to recognize you at places to go to a lot? Like, "There's that guy doing 180's in front of people again.", kind of feeling?
/r/seduction22/02/16 11:44 PM
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"If you're stressing too much whether to walk past or turn around you've already lost the game man." Don't remind me. I like that though, it gives something to work on that isn't too terrifying.
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:57 PM
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Okay so I just went out and tried this. This is kind of what I did. http://imgur.com/a/Ad9yz Are you saying you would legitimately just pull a 180?
/r/seduction22/02/16 09:49 PM
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Those are the perfect situation towards learning how to not really care. And in truth, they're getting paid, as long as you don't them in trouble who cares? You might even make their day.
/r/seduction22/02/16 06:32 PM
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If you commute or do any errands at all there isn't an excuse, I assume you see a cute girl everyday?
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:57 PM
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When you're taking these steps, do you just veer off afterwards and keep going? Yesterday I was walking up to a girl who was on her phone and when I was maybe 3-4 steps away, still a normal distance, she randomly looked up right into my eyes and I caved and veered off. But usually the walk over is the hardest part for me, I ask the time and about 30% of the time I end up telling them I'm bullshitting and just want to talk to them. I'm getting one per day at least.
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:55 PM
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Because it works, she might even be impressed that two weeks later you are still interested. I feel you are afraid of losing this girl and it's quite possible you will. However plenty of guys pursue a single girl and it works out. In fact I think most guys set their sights on one and keep trying. But I really think you should just wait at least a week, then pop in saying, "Hey I'm planning on doing x event this week, would you like to come?" Edit: No I don't get laid very often but I do on occas…
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:29 AM
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The whole idea of plate theory is kind of like, "I made this nice dinner but I can't finish it tonight so I'll put in the fridge for another time", kind of mentality. In the mean time you'll be making and eating other dinners, lunches and breakfasts too! Then you go back and maybe that dinner in the fridge expired or maybe it's a perfect time to eat it. If she doesn't know when, your last text to her should say something like, "Cool, hit me up when you're free". You won't look needy, you'll look…
/r/seduction21/02/16 02:21 AM
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http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/ She might be actually busy or just not care. I'm sure girls have a lot of brutal coffee dates, I can understand why a girl would opt out. Just text her in a week or two.
/r/seduction20/02/16 09:08 PM
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That actually happened to me about a year ago when I first started, I got a good looking girlfriend right away, probably the 10th girl I talked to in a month, I think the 4th number I got and it just worked. Now, its like I never even did it, I'm having to relearn the whole thing.
/r/seduction20/02/16 03:40 PM
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After you get an opener going, tell them, "Okay, you seem pretty cool but I want to get to know you a little more before we get any farther". I've had two dates, you can trust me.
/r/seduction18/02/16 06:26 AM
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Was going to this week
/r/seduction15/02/16 08:27 PM
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I'm curious, how so?
/r/seduction15/02/16 05:52 PM
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This.
/r/seduction15/02/16 06:20 AM
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This is good.
/r/seduction15/02/16 06:06 AM
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Dance awkwardly by yourself. It takes courage to make a fool of yourself. Eventually after a few times you'll have fun with it and girls will notice you're the guy dancing while the rest of the guys are just standing around in the crowd or on the wall. At first, it's pretty brutal though but you have to think. Who really cares?
/r/seduction15/02/16 03:12 AM
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Two guys I frequently see outside a local mall and sometimes talk with. Of course not everyone will but to say that none are is ridiculous.
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:25 AM
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If you have her number call her and ask her out on a date. That's it. Call, don't text.
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:11 AM
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Also I think it's fine to go out alone to clubs but you have to have a mentality of just having fun.
/r/seduction15/02/16 01:58 AM
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Same problem, I did however approach my first girl for the first time in months today, she was just sitting listening to music waiting for a friend. She smiled but was from Taiwan and couldn't put a sentence together that well. After that I walked around for a few hours waiting for an opportunity downtown but everyone moves so fast. There was one other girl I got close to approach who was also sitting but she made direct random eye contact with me and I freaked out and kept walking. I feel like …
/r/seduction15/02/16 01:58 AM
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What if you followed up by giving them change, it's a joke, most have surprisingly good senses of humor.
/r/seduction15/02/16 01:44 AM
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Simple Pick Up teaches a lot.
/r/seduction15/02/16 01:34 AM
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Simple Pick Up You pay for their podcasts but they have a ton of free content on Youtube and you should watch every second of it.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:07 AM
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Looking through that reminds me of those old World War 1 stories where the Germans and the French all sit and have drinks together.
/r/seduction10/02/16 06:13 AM
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how do you feel about this sub in general? Are you going to see right through the next guy that tries anything you see here?
/r/seduction09/02/16 10:10 PM
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Just add, "Hi, you're really cute" to that opener and close no matter what with asking for her number and I would bet my dick that after 100 more approaches you'll get some numbers and some dates. Also, you have approached 5x more women than I have, you have way more balls, you got this.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:51 AM
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"Hi I'm X, what's your name?" or just "What's your name?" Like walking up and asking "Hi, what's your name" and that's it?
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:37 AM
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Daytime, all over the city, applies everywhere. If you're doing night time then I got nothing for you except be forward. If you are daygame, what I'm suggesting is forward, non beat around the bush. It's honest and she'll exactly why you are talking to her. You can use any line you want but this has worked best for me. What kind of openers have you used?
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:30 AM
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Are you saying complimenting girls, lowers your value? I think you're crazy if you are. Open with "Hi, I thought you looked pretty/cute/gorgeous/adorable, I wanted to come over and meet you. My name is X" Insert normal bullshit Close with "Okay, I'm going to get going but before I do, we're going to exchange contact info and I'm going to text you tonight" You should always, always ask no matter how bad it's going for a number.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:22 AM
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Are you closing by asking for numbers and opening with a compliment about her?
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:11 AM
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I'm curious as well. I think I literally blew my last two chances by maybe being too upfront with the girls before we even had a date. When are you guys revealing this shit? After you bang?
/r/seduction08/02/16 06:39 PM
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Happn is cool, it's for when you walk around and when someone has the app close to you it'll appear on your feed later and you can like them. You get unlimited likes and the likes work the same as Tinder's system and you can send a notification to them with a charm. The problem is, guys only get 10 charms free, girls get unlimited. So I tend not to use them.
/r/seduction07/02/16 04:58 PM
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This
/r/seduction07/02/16 04:54 PM
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Imagine you pick up everyday for a year, with great success and confidence. Then you stop for a year, when you pick it up again (no pun) it will most likely be incredibly hard again and you probably would feel anxiety. So, learning to control and combat anxiety is the most important part. What I mean by using it as a trigger to be confident is if at anytime you feel anxious about anything, you should do it. From jumping in a pool to taking an offer to public speak.
/r/seduction06/02/16 03:12 PM
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The anxiety never leaves, you just control it. I actually feel like the anxiety is your friend and I try to use it as a trigger to be confident.
/r/seduction06/02/16 06:24 AM
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YES YES YES
/r/seduction06/02/16 06:16 AM
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That's awesome that you asked out a girl in your regular morning routine. I've tried that a few times before, (not in my morning routine but where I regularly go for errands) and it failed, now even today I have walk by them and it's so fucking awkward.
/r/seduction06/02/16 05:52 AM
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Cold shower everyday or no cold shower at all. It is not easy in summer, it's still fucking cold. The whole point is pain tolerance.
/r/seduction05/02/16 05:49 AM
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I keep a whiteboard calendar with a few things that must be done each day. -No jacking off, plenty of benefits to this including helping to fight off depression and anxiety while increasing confidence. -Clean a little bit everyday, even just putting something away -Cold shower in the morning and at night, the health benefits are great but I use it mostly to power through something extremely unpleasant, you feel like a boss after. -Meditate for at least 5 minutes, I set a timer. -Study, watch a f…
/r/seduction05/02/16 12:57 AM
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This, the best way to think about it is for both parties is: What if this is the most important person either of us is ever going to meet in our lives. Would we let an awkward/uncomfortable approach stop us from meeting?
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:26 PM
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"It's simple." See, you'd think that but it's not always the case.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:51 AM
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"Downtown was really nerve wrecking as I worried I would come off as a creep." I get this all the time, usually I can pull through but it's never more than one and I feel like I have to get out of there and go home. Do you walk around or just wait in one spot for the right passerbyer?
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:42 AM
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My bathroom is pretty close to my bed, I guess I should just do it quietly?
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:39 AM
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Doesn't that make your dick taste like baby wipes and chemicals? If so do they taste good?
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:39 AM
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Where do you go to approach? I always go to the mall just because of the concentration of people but I find more days than not I actually get overly intimidated by this.
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:16 AM
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This is great, though my basement suite is a 11x11 cube which includes, fridge, bed, dresser, counter, stove, etc. Pretty much everything except for the bathroom, so it's a little cluttered most of they time, dimly lite and underground so no windows. There's not much I'm going to do about it either at the moment. Bed is creaky as fuck too. I've made myself a nice checklist with this though.
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:07 AM
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