I (28m) understand this sounds dumb, the reason being is that if you're not the guy to pull while back home, not much will change over the next 9 days lol.

However, while back home, I live in a very small area (35k) with no nightlife at all, not to mention that there's a LOT of people who are way too old, way too young, in a relationship/married, all while the population is half men. Basically, the numbers just aren't there.

Honestly, given the options available, I'd much rather spend my evenings and weekends playing video games with friends or watching YouTube/TV shows.

I'm not anti-social or dislike talking to people, but I am severely out of practice. I haven't got laid in 4 years, so that alone should give you an idea of my flirting skills and "fun" attitude.

For context, I'm 5'8, 130lbs (173cm, 59kg), roughly 20% BF, low muscle mass, white, freckles, routine grooming, everyday hygiene etc. There's nothing about me that screams "please go away", but I'm definitely not the "hot" guy that women want to fuck. On a scale of 1-10, I'd give myself an honest 5/6 out of 10, essentially average in every way.

I've seen my friends (three in particular) hook up every vacation without fail, aswell as back home sometimes, as those guys were simply born with that kind of attitude.

But what about us guys who weren't? How exactly do we bridge the gap and start improving later in life?

It's also worth noting that my friends aren't exactly handsome either, just avarage like myself, so it's clearly social skills.