How do you resist the urge to keep chasing "better" women when you want a relationship

SavageVegeta · 2020-05-27T10:35:10+00:00

It's rather simple actually.

First of all remind yourself that you can't burn your house down cause of someone's palace. What you got , it's your responsibility to take care of it and nurture it to its best form

Another thing that you can say to yourself is the chemistry that you have with your current partner is the best. Maybe you won't find such chemistry with that cute girl you saw today. Cause you gotta remember that looks will fade away after some years , it's the character of the person that you gotta live with and deal with.

Lastly I think all the good times and memories I have with my gf , all the times she supported the fuck out of me and the happy and sad times we had together. after thinking all that , all I can think about is how much I love her for the person she is and how thankful I'm cause she is in my life. After that there's no thoughts about any other girl. Hope this helps

ughs1234 · 2020-05-27T17:47:48+00:00

There will always be someone “better”, more “compatible”, “hotter”. Human nature is a cycle of not feeling satisfied with what we are given.

If you find someone who you hit it off with, are attracted to, and who seems like the kind of person who could potentially love and support you through difficult times, why not invest in that?

Cut your wandering eyes by fixating your attention on the possibility of the one girl. Don’t lust after other girls during your time dating her, or you will find your heart doing the same thing.

Try to take it one step at a time, if things don’t work out with said girl, move on, no shame in that.

We waste a lot of time on possibilities when there is so much untapped potential in the now.

UncleSugarShitposter · 2020-05-27T20:06:44+00:00

Where are you located at, OP?

OLD is absolutely trash where I am. Maybe it's around here (midsize midwest city) the quality women don't need OLD to get men.

h4596guggvvyyrev · 2020-06-01T07:54:09+00:00

If you have 100 life energy, like in a video game. And you give 20 life energy to one girl, 22 another, 22 another… You might end up with not very much left for yourself. If you give all of your life energy 100 of it to one girl, and she multiplies it and gives you 400 back.

Title	How do you resist the urge to keep chasing "better" women when you want a relationship
Author	MaraSalamanca
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	May 27, 2020 10:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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