How does a date go

STD_Tyler · 2020-07-04T13:52:11+00:00

As your first date focus on these things:

Enjoying the surroundings

Enjoying the conversation

Enjoy talking about whatever the fuck you want to talk about it.

Enjoy your drink/food

Forget seduction, escalation,game..etc, Or you will fuck it really really bad. Have zero outcome on mind.

If she sees you are a cool normal dude that just enjoys his time and not playing creepy games she may like you and then she escalates herself...

When you get experience with multiple dates and scenarios you will figure out what to do at each situation..

Apophis40k · 2020-07-04T13:50:08+00:00

Step 1. Have fun Step 2. Get to know her Step 3. See if you two work together

But no seriously there is no sketual for a date just have fun it's like hanging out with a good buddy... Kinda

Iamallthereis · 2020-07-04T13:53:24+00:00

I never had a father to teach me this shit either so allow me to help a fellow bastard out.

First allow the interaction to be organic Which means don’t fake anything or insert small talk for the sake of filling silence with something Let the silence provoke intrigue

Allow the girl to ask most of the questions about you or talk about herself do not compliment her just for breathing she can earn the compliments by investing her interest in you and keeps her chasing you for your validation that for example: all these “other guys” give her compliments for nothing; but, here you are not validating her, that will increase her interest in you. Also keep your compliments to a minimum otherwise they will come off as artificial and flavorless.

A little silence is perfectly fine! As long as you’re comfortable with it if she’s a little uncomfortable by it that’s her own issue and says nothing about you.

Be relaxed accept yourself and be at ease own your environment And be casual with yourself

Don’t use social media to talk don’t use the phone to talk speak in person with her as much as possible use a phone to set a date and you pick the place and set the time to your schedule if she doesn’t show up or is late check her on that behavior because whether you believe it or not she’s testing you even at that point to see if you’re a pushover and let her get away with shit

Second don’t ever put a woman as your main focus or interest in life have other things going on in your life that you enjoy and bring you fulfillment Basically don’t seek fulfillment from girls it’s conditional Always

And don’t be afraid to walk man You don’t need to lower yourself You want to be high value then show it Don’t just talk about it. I’m off to bed Peace

sadhak_x0 · 2020-07-04T20:21:37+00:00

treat her like one of your guy friends >> profit. if she leaves, she leaves. the fact that you refer to her as an '8' means you're taking her femininity too seriously. don't.

Title	How does a date go
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Date	July 4, 2020 1:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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