How does one become less needy?

madperznskilz · 2015-04-02T05:20:01+00:00

Talk to more girls and get more "prospects" even if you're not as into them as you are that one. Knowing that you have girls on the "backburner" will give you more of that abundance mentality which translates directly into being less needy. It will make you more calm.

apackofwankers · 2015-04-02T16:27:44+00:00

Keep a "string of pearls" - always have 6 or more women you are cultivating.

One way to reduce neediness: an NLP technique that kind of works.

Neediness comes from childhood. Try to work backwards to identify what you didnt get as a child and are needing as an adult.

Then, every day before bed, picture yourself as a child, and picture your adult self having a conversation with your child self, and give your child self what it needs. That might be a hug, some understanding, whatever.

Rx_Love · 2015-04-02T11:41:40+00:00

If you are naturally a needy person then to not be needy would be to go against your natural instincts, which is never an attractive path. You either need to find a girl who appreciates you for who you are, or pretend like you're not needy and just ball it all up inside while you date the ones that have a skewed view of who you really are. Long story short: find a girl you quick with butter or pretend like you aren't needy

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-04-02T14:22:23+00:00

Have other girls in your life.

Have hobbies you enjoy.

Make/Have friends that you care about.

Go to events that you find fun.

Have a skill you want to perfect.

Have a creative outlet.

etc.

In other words, have a life.

Title	How does one become less needy?
Author	nmyi
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	April 2, 2015 4:46 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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