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How does texting change in a LTR

TheNaughtyGarbageMan · 2016-09-21T22:00:45+00:00

So I just started dating my first real girlfriend and everything has been great. We're long distance at the moment but we'll be moving to a new city...

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September 21, 2016

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Title	How does texting change in a LTR
Author	TheNaughtyGarbageMan
Upvotes	2
Comments	1
Date	September 21, 2016 10:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Box-Monkey 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, it typically gets a lot less interesting, and can die down a lot. A lot of it can turn into maintenance and checking in, seeing what's going on and planning, with flirting often falling to the way side.

It's important to keep flirting there, but I'd say a lower frequency / intensity is more realistic to maintain, and getting her to feel sexy and wanted is important. As such, sext, send nice notes, and get her to send you nudes or other pics of that nature.

An occasional "I'm can't stop thinking about bending you over my couch" mixed in with the "Did you plan anything this weekend?" can go a long way, since most guys will tend to drop it all to the wayside.

This is coming from a guy who is now in a relationship for a little over 1.25 years. She convinced me to get in a relationship with her after chasing me for a while, and my stock is at an all time high right now. Be wary of that sometimes because it can make them insecure in the relationship, which can express itself in all sorts of complicated, unenjoyable ways.

It's a juggling act, but which you'll get used to with experience. If this falls apart, there will be others. No worries.