All I am seeing in this sub-reddit is people constantly debating their 'philosophies' or 'tactics' or whatever to seduce women, the literal words they have said, and shaming each other for thinking wrongly about seduction.

First, let me say that I am 100% sure that none of us really knows the true meaning of seduction and that even the greatest, just shared their experiences and how it worked out on them. Keeping that pace, this sub may just close down as it is becoming more useless by the day. this is going to be a long one so bear with me, or just skip this post and pretend it didn't exist.

One of the quotes I most take to the heart is "Master all the basics, then dump them all in the garbage." To be good at seduction, or as any other skill in life, is to give it your own taste, and apply it to YOUR life. You cannot read "The Game" or "Art of Seduction" and expect yourself to become Don Juan the next day. It won't happen. No posting what happened to you and asking for advice here from people with different backgrounds and views also won't help. You need to be creative and find out what works for you.

First, you need to know what you are dealing with, so learn the basics, read the books and enjoy them. When you are done, throw them in the trash and go with what you know, see how you can practice it in your own life and I cannot emphasize the next word enough: fail, fail, fail.

If you are afraid of failing for any reason, then do not try, since I have never seen anyone succeed in any way other than failing at first, let me give you my personal experience.

There was a girl I used to hang with and have fun, then we just stopped talking and drifted off, then I wanted to talk to her again, but we all know that this is really hard to do, so I wanted to know how to do it. Once, I tried an indirect way and once being passive and once being blunt about it, none of it worked. Finally, I decided to be the honest mean one, where we talked and I told her how I always thought bout girls, and talked to 4-5 simultaneously and did not really care about relationships, thought about her only sexually etc... She was really amused about all of this and then I told her that if she wanted to kiss again that she has my number, she was like I would like to take that offer and etc...

Does this mean you need to be this type every time? Definitely no. This is why I emphasize on reading the "Art Of Seduction" by Robert Greene, since he shows that different circumstances lead to different approaches, and then all that we need to do is try and fail.

The most important part of all of this is to be confident in your abilities, bold people always lead, even though they may be wrong, people like to see the bold do what they do, as it motivates them yourself.

Again, asking here will not lead you anywhere, the posts should be more about experiences and tips people could use, where people can learn more about it, dump them and go try what they have in their heads.

Since I am stuck in quarantine and have nothing better to do, I have no problem for you guys asking me for help or any questions privately. No I am not a self-proclaimed GURU or love genie, but I think some chatting and sharing would be fun.

Cheers!