I just recently started to push my values onto any one that I'm interested in. The only thing is that it's REALLY difficult to find any one with similar interests that I have. So when I do find some one that meets my standards, my game goes out the window. Any thoughts or tips on how to avoid this? It seems like my problem is the fear that there won't be any one else that meets my standards and shares the interests I seek to share with some one in an intimate relationship. The obvious answer is to realize there are a lot of girls like that, and I KNOW that, but it doesn't really help.

edit: clarification.