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nah, it strongly builds rapport.
/r/seduction15/05/12 05:20 PM
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Did you read my entire argument? Seddit is full of people who don't practice what they're preaching, but that's not to say that there aren't still people with valuable information that visit this board. I said, I'm not going to leave one or the other because they're both worth my time. It's not my responsibility to moderate this subreddit, nor is it your's. If the mods want and can figure out a way to separate the people out in the field and the armchair PUA's, then I'd be willing to spend more …
/r/seduction02/03/12 11:08 PM
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Not to gang up on you Throwaway, but calling /r/pickup a circlejerk is just a little belittling, IMO. Seddit has become filled with armchair PUAs, and it's all good if they're actually going out and trying to utilize these techniques, but a good chunk of them aren't. They read a lot of theory but never get over their AA, or just don't utilize what they're learning, for whatever reason. Saying that /r/pickup it's a circlejerk doesn't give any credit to the things submitted there, like recommended…
/r/seduction02/03/12 08:56 PM
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Good advice.
/r/seduction27/02/12 08:35 PM
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It was obvious that she liked me a lot, so I'm sure she was nervous. But from what we she was saying and how she was acting she seemed comfortable. I wasn't implying we do anything sexual, just making jokes about it. "Blah blah blah put it in my mouth." "Yeah you do." "<laughs> I'm not that type of girl." Kind of like "that's what she said" shit. Just more direct.
/r/seduction27/02/12 08:35 PM
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I guess. I wasn't implying we do anything sexual, just making jokes about it. "Blah blah blah put it in my mouth." "Yeah you do." "<laughs> I'm not that type of girl." Kind of like "that's what she said" shit. Just more direct.
/r/seduction27/02/12 08:33 PM
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Funny, her and I were talking about Pokemon on the date. I'll definitely use this if she says it again.
/r/seduction27/02/12 03:46 PM
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I wasn't trying to get laid, but I do think acknowledging it would've been better than what I did. Thanks!
/r/seduction27/02/12 03:45 PM
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On the drive back to her car (was about a half hour) there were a lot of times where we didn't say anything. I pointed out how nice it was to be comfortable enough with someone to not have to say anything and she agreed. We talked about it really briefly. Taking your advice man; gonna ignore it if she throws it out there again. I think she was doing it to try to comfort/reassure herself more than anything. She said it once. Half hour later I went for the kiss, we made out for a little bit. Then …
/r/seduction26/02/12 10:33 PM
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Awesome dude, love the advice. Will definitely be keeping this in mind.
/r/seduction26/02/12 08:37 PM
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I'll preface this by saying I'm very introverted. I think that when you find something strange or out of the ordinary, you're more inclined not to do that. A good example would be going to see a movie alone. That's something that most people would think is really weird. When you go to do it, it's not so bad. I would say that it's introverted to do it, and extroverted to think otherwise. As you make these small steps towards isolation, and find out that it can be enjoyable, you start to become mo…
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:17 AM
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A. Beauty's subjective B. Using the grading scale of HB1-10 is a way of signifying how the girl feels about herself (IIRC). C. If you think that most of those girls weren't HB9's or HB10's, even if that's just judging them by how hot they are, you should get your eyes looked at.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:14 AM
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Not sure, but there are more pictures here.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:08 AM
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What do you think?
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:08 AM
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This isn't a place to make stupid comments like this. Please see yourself out.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:05 AM
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Can you be more descriptive about what happened? Did you try to make plans with her at 8? She didn't respond back, so you texted her again at 5 and told her that you had already made other plans and that you'd make it up to her?
/r/seduction21/02/12 04:35 AM
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Spontaneous like "I'm the type of guy that talks to random people."
/r/seduction18/02/12 06:29 PM
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Girls don't come to you. You go to them. Sit next to them. Ask them for help. Butt into their conversation. Be spontaneous.
/r/seduction18/02/12 06:12 PM
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I get that, and if it works for you by all means continue, brother. But I'm just saying, in my mind, starting with a compliment cuts through a lot of bullshit that you'd need to do in a conversation and lets you keep it short. It establishes that you're attracted to them, you want to know them more, and that you're confident enough to show that. Got this from moneypower, too: try to create those romantic, spontaneous moments you see in romantic comedies. Girls eat that shit up. The follow up is …
/r/seduction18/02/12 04:47 PM
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I am much more intrigued by somebody being witty and clearly saying their mind independently of what 'impression' that would make... That's exactly what you're doing by the compliment. Witty and negative comments (even if--especially if you're being playful) can just be a coy way of saying, "I'm not comfortable with talking to you, so I'm going to use this tool to make it easier for me to open the conversation." Fuck that! DGAF, man. Give her the compliment, hell, flatter her. Complimenting a wo…
/r/seduction18/02/12 03:22 PM
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Dude you're in a class together, that's the easiest situation you could ask for to get close to these girls. Interact with every single person around you, not just girls. Be the outgoing guy you want to be. As far as approach techniques, the list can be endless: ask her for her help on some thing, then tell her you didn't really need her help you just wanted to talk to her, ask her what her opinion of the class is, state to her that you think the class is really easy/hard/boring, tell her the te…
/r/seduction18/02/12 03:06 PM
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Think about it for a second. When you were an AFC, how would you feel/respond if someone came up to you giving you shit? Now just apply that to women. xxxmoneypower pointed this out in our talk, you're going to increase your numbers if you start out by coming from a warm, complimentary place.
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:57 PM
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Love it, dude. Thanks again for the help. I'll fill you in on how it goes.
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:55 PM
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aka; the love
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:55 PM
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Check it, brother man.
/r/seduction18/02/12 01:19 AM
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Didn't read the whole thing, but yeah, I mean, of course it's a numbers game. Half the women you talk to are going to think you're a creep, the other half are going to love it, so you approach as much as you can. But there's a lot more to pick up than that, there's much more "dark arts" crap that you can learn.
/r/seduction17/02/12 08:20 PM
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I'm going to take up that 30 day challenge. I can approach people indirectly but when I see someone that I want to approach, I get some wicked AA.
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:29 PM
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THIS gets downvoted but a video of some 10 year old jokingly talking about how to get girls doesn't? Wtf Seddit?
/r/seduction17/02/12 12:01 AM
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This is excellent advice, will have to remember it.
/r/seduction16/02/12 11:37 PM
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I was thinking that this would probably be the best thing to do.
/r/seduction16/02/12 07:00 AM
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You know what man, this community NEEDS some HELP Laughed out loud. Love it.
/r/seduction16/02/12 05:21 AM
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The trolls sure are out tonight, huh? Good post, man.
/r/seduction16/02/12 04:16 AM
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Come on, gentlemen!
/r/seduction16/02/12 03:55 AM
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Like Jayross said, it could be that she has a hard time talking and running. I would also think that the kino might've been forced. It's hard to give good advice on that, but I'd recommend reading this.
/r/seduction16/02/12 03:54 AM
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There's no conflicting opinion there. I was saying that I didn't think you'd bring up how I'd feel if my sister or friend were picked up like this. I was saying that it wouldn't matter to me. She was obviously attracted to him. If they (the Simple Pickup guys) tried to get with the targets in their videos, I wouldn't put it past him to have gotten a SNL. There's no doubt in my mind that she would see him again. He was already singled out in her mind: "I've never made out with a random guy before…
/r/seduction16/02/12 03:37 AM
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I didn't think that you'd go down that alley, but since you are, it wouldn't to me. As long as they're legal (little sister isn't), it's their life. They're big girls. They can take care of themselves. Women are manipulative and boundary suppressing in the same way that these guys are manipulative and boundary pushing. edit: And you're dodging what I said, and actually admitting it works.
/r/seduction16/02/12 03:10 AM
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AFCs have votes too, sadly.
/r/seduction16/02/12 02:11 AM
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They did those "funny suit of the week" videos to prove to guys that it means close to absolutely nothing what you say to girls, and that you can get their numbers by saying just about anything.
/r/seduction16/02/12 02:11 AM
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No way dude. He makes out with her twice in less than 10 minutes. That's fuckin' game.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:45 AM
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Seems like a lot of guys here don't know what the fuck they're talking about.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:42 AM
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You have no idea what you're talking about. Please leave seddit.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:41 AM
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being pretty hot... Conversation over.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:37 AM
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Why the cringing? Negging works well IMO as long as you don't overdo it, which is something I'll admit to. As far as IOI's go, I've always had a really good radar at picking them up naturally. Hair playing, flicking, strong eye contact, looking at me after saying something to gauge my reaction. It's kind of weird but I always like to refer to it as instinct. Some things are very subtle that I pick up on. Can't hurt to think of it this way when you should consider everything as an IOI. My classes…
/r/seduction15/02/12 05:48 AM
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Some one else had a good line for v-day texting game, "Thanks for the card "secret admirer" ;)"
/r/seduction15/02/12 04:25 AM
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Seriously, the only way you're going to get better is to go out and approach. Try to improve your social life. Go out and do something every night that you can, or at least try to.
/r/seduction15/02/12 12:43 AM
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This is fucking awesome! Thank you!
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:05 AM
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I eject early, too, but my focus is on getting over my AA.
/r/seduction12/02/12 12:14 AM
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Last night was my first night out and the first night I ever danced. I had to get shit faced to do it but I'm not afraid of it anymore. I know I got some awkward looks because my moves weren't the greatest and I was there with a buddy, but who gives a shit! It was fun.
/r/seduction12/02/12 12:07 AM
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Sounds like some good advice, I'll try using this.
/r/seduction11/02/12 07:23 PM
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Hell yeah!
/r/seduction11/02/12 12:50 AM
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Thanks dude! I'm going to start today.
/r/seduction09/02/12 02:34 PM
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Just tell her you two should hang and play video games together sometime. Done, problem solved.
/r/seduction09/02/12 04:48 AM
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Any comments on this? I'd like to hear more about it.
/r/seduction08/02/12 04:39 AM
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So ignore what she thinks of you and do what you want to do regardless of her. I'm sure it can be said better but essentially. If you want to have sex with her, that's your prerogative, it's got nothing to do with worrying about what she thinks of you. And shouldn't I use all available information to form an opinion or just never think of her and her needs or thinking? Form an opinion of her. If you're just starting out I don't think it's important to think of her nor her needs. I think advanced…
/r/seduction05/02/12 11:00 PM
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Love it dude, you're an inspiration for me to go out solo.
/r/seduction05/02/12 08:13 PM
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I think you're reading too far into it. He does plug the book but it's his website so he can do whatever the fuck he wants, but don't overlook what he's trying to get at. The main idea of the whole post is the first bolded sentence in it: ... prioritizing another person’s perception of you over your perception of yourself, and that this prioritization leads to all unattractive behavior in men, whether directly or indirectly. This can spin off into so many different things, and explanations of wh…
/r/seduction05/02/12 07:57 PM
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Really? He came here for advice, not to get some stupid overused meme thrown in his face.
/r/seduction05/02/12 07:40 AM
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Dude, look, I'm gonna be straight with you. I know how it feels to want to get a particular girl to like you because for one reason or another you're really attracted to her or like her a lot, because you guys have history or she's the one that got away. I've been in all of those situations, and I've overcome a few of them, but only once I got to a point where I didn't give a fuck whether or not I "won or lost" what I was attempting to do. You want this one girl, but the fact is that there are g…
/r/seduction04/02/12 10:34 PM
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Here's some good advice: forget about her, go out and start approaching!
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:46 PM
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Fake it until you make it, brohan.
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:42 PM
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30vanquish knows what he's talkin' about, heed his words.
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:41 PM
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This helpful at all, so I'm downvoting you. Sorry my friend.
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:38 PM
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I'm gonna go ahead and assume you've been friendzoned here. I haven't tried this, but I would tell her how happy I am that her and I are just friends, and how hard it is to find a girl that you can talk to without being sexually attracted to. I want to say that it's been a really long fuckin' time since you told her you like her so it shouldn't matter but I don't know the situation well enough. And she's probably just busy or she's not attracted to you now days. If you're finding yourself caught…
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:36 PM
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My texting game needs some work so take this all with a grain of salt. Twice in a day is too much honestly. Attraction fades, so you should use texting to maintain what you built up during the conversation; to remind her why she was digging you when she saw you in person. I usually invite a girl out after a day or two of meeting her, granted my schedule permits it. If she's busy or something, I'll tell her that's too bad, and she owes me something when we see each other again. I'll usually segue…
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:31 PM
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You need to be challenged? Come on man, challenge yourself! As far as everything else, the sidebar is littered with awesome things to read up on for each of your problems. As far as what you're wearing/what you look like, go watch some of Simple Pickup's older videos. How you look and what you say literally mean nothing, as long as you've got confidence.
/r/seduction04/02/12 06:18 PM
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You're suffering from oneitis bro! Go read the first two things in the sidebar. Read this post on neediness.
/r/seduction04/02/12 06:14 PM
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Just keep upping the ante on her. "What, now you're a liar too? I can't be friends with liars." You can also throw it back her and say, "You know, my ex girlfriend was a pill too, that's why we're not together anymore." Or, "The last time someone was a pill around me I wanted to put my dick in her mouth to shut her up." Go watch Adam Lyons talk on qualifications. He explains it way better than I could.
/r/seduction04/02/12 06:08 PM
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Love it, dude. Indirect openers are my favorite. I remember watching a bootcamp given by Owen from RSD and he was talking about being hyper-observant of your surroundings and the people within those surroundings. Anytime a guy is having an issue opening, I always suggest indirect openers. Sometimes they do miss, but that's generally dependent on if the someone is outgoing or open to being approached. But, it's so much more natural and doesn't require any memorization. If you really want to get g…
/r/seduction04/02/12 05:45 PM
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Awesome post. I'm only half way through and I'm loving it. I have no problem talking to women in general, and picking up HB6s, but I will go AFC with anyone really attractive or someone with a personality that meets my standards. Exactly what I needed, thanks.
/r/seduction04/02/12 05:30 PM
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They were in her room... It's not like they were fucking on the couch or some thing.
/r/seduction03/02/12 11:43 PM
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I can understand that, but it's not like girls typically go out to clubs by themselves.
/r/seduction03/02/12 11:34 PM
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You do know that there are guys who go out to clubs and fuck women within a couple of hours of meeting them right? You really find it hard to believe? College girls are horny as fuck.
/r/seduction03/02/12 11:17 PM
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Just say whatever comes to mind. I like to make a quick observation about her and point it out or compliment her on it. Also a good way to initiate kino really early.
/r/seduction03/02/12 10:41 PM
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I definitely agree. My texting game is terrible. I always get this feeling of needing to talk to her and some how rationalize to myself that I shouldn't give a fuck and send the text anyway. I'd stop texting all together and keep it to logistics but I don't know if it's really attacking a symptom rather than the problem. And thanks for reading it all, I know it was long as fuck.
/r/seduction03/02/12 10:37 PM
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Ask her anything, start threading.
/r/seduction03/02/12 02:04 PM
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I felt pretty awesome about this one up until the end, just from not getting a response. I remember reading from someone else on seddit that it's important that you end the interaction, so I always try to keep that in mind when things go south (for me or from her). Ok guys, here's the last one. I really like this one, if you're still with me, hold out for a little while longer! Once my family and I get to my sister's 5th grade volleyball game, we take her our seats in the stands. People start fi…
/r/seduction03/02/12 06:59 AM
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Luke warm girls are goners. Exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thanks, man. Owen is fuckin' awesome.
/r/seduction03/02/12 04:59 AM
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You just keep doing approach after approach. Are you good at reading women when you're talking to them? It's almost like instinct at a certain point. When does a conversation start to go south for you? Just think about it after you're done for the night. While you're out, keep approaching. Personally, it's easy as hell for me to recognize a mistake I made and commit it to memory to avoid it. People saying "you need to build attraction" could mean a lot of things. You already know that kino and y…
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:12 AM
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Hahaha you guys are awesome. I hope you know I'm taking this to heart.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:05 AM
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There's a lot of advice in the sidebar about how to transition from the number to the first date. Personally, my rules are to not make plans that are 24 hours or more from the current point in time. If I haven't heard anything from the girl by about an hour after the time I said, I'll text her and tell her that I didn't hear from her so I went ahead and made other plans. Also, call when you want to make plans.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:04 AM
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A lot of that "you didn't build enough attraction" is way too advanced for someone just starting out. Focus on saying whatever comes to mind, kino, and maintaining eye contact. This shit will get you results, promise.
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:58 AM
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Hey guys, love your shit, have been watching you since the first video you posted. Keep it up. I'm at the point where I can approach anyone or make any off handed remark to someone and not care about it. This easily turns into conversations, but I have a really hard time asking for numbers. Can you give me some advice on transitioning from having a conversation to asking for her number? Also, how about a video where you guys pick up girls without saying anything at all?
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:57 AM
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I think the best advice he gave you was to be totally honest. If you think of something, say it, don't change your response. If you want to fuck, don't tell her that you're looking for someone to be with, just be honest. If that's what she wants too, awesome, you're getting laid. If not, go talk to some other girl. Also, let it be said that women will 9 times out of 10 rationalize anything if they like you or think it's going to give them a chance of getting what they want. "He wants to have sex…
/r/seduction31/01/12 12:59 AM
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Far from being an asshole, my friend! The examples I gave are just negs, and are examples I've pulled from recent memory. You'd be surprised at how people respond to you. Sometimes you'll get a nasty look, but this is about 1% of people. Usually it's a great way to segue into conversation. But, it's not just about negging. It means ANY THING that pops into your head. You overhear someone talking about staying up until 3 AM doing work, and a thought crosses your mind relating to it; you say it. I…
/r/seduction30/01/12 11:45 PM
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Great response, thanks man. If you're unsure, make sure you douse the whole interaction in super natural sauce and drop a "I'm really sorry, i just had to know" and she'll be like "know what?" and you'll be like "oh forget about it" and look back down at your notebook. This kind of shit drives girls nuts. That's golden. I've noticed "oh forget about it" does drive them nuts.
/r/seduction30/01/12 02:38 PM
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She doesn't know you exist as anything other than vague people scenery like at least 90% of the people in her classes. I didn't include that her and I flirt back and forth every class. So she's getting a touch that's pretty sexual on the platonic-sexual spectrum from someone she doesn't even know in a very formal and non-sexualized public area. I think the formality of the location was why I was hesitating, and why I asked.
/r/seduction30/01/12 02:35 PM
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Thanks for confirming my beliefs dude man. I can get into state super easy but I've been more focused on the words I'm saying rather than the confidence I exude in that frame of mind. Fuck it, man.
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:31 AM
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I've read this one around here pretty often lately: "I'm so glad we're just friends."
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:25 AM
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I just wish I knew what to do in the "oh shit what do I do" moment, so that I can quickly pull back into frame.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:17 PM
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I was assuming they're friends. Just figured he could ask when they're not out.
/r/seduction27/01/12 06:02 AM
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I will definitely be keeping that in mind, thank you.
/r/seduction27/01/12 05:20 AM
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Thinking it over, I agree with you, but I still feel like how I said it effected the outcome.
/r/seduction27/01/12 05:15 AM
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I understand! No need to apologize I appreciate any help given. I had her phone in my hand at one point with the intention of doing that but I felt creepy so I stopped. Gotta stick to my three fucking rules!
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:43 AM
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I know that how I presented it was wrong, but I guess what I was really asking was when you get a rejection like that and recede into paranoid freak-out mode, is there something that you can do to pull out of it? Just stop and analyze it?
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:33 AM
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I should say that when I asked to carpool, I was being honest in that I did want to carpool. It takes much less energy to tell the truth then it does to maintain a lie. So tell your truth. It might sound something like "You are fucking hot. I want to take you on a date. Can I take your number?". In that case, based on what you said, I'm going to stick with my rule of saying whatever comes to mind. I've been uneasy about giving out compliments from getting friendzoned in my younger days.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:19 AM
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The girl that I actually got the # from, sure, her expectation is obviously that I want to carpool. I'm just starting out, so getting a # in any way is a huge thing for me.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:58 AM
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I realized afterwards my asking outright was something I did wrong. A couple of hours later I asked another girl if she wanted to carpool sometime and got her number really easily.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:02 AM
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Turn them into statements. Instead of... Her: I love Paris, it's so romantic You: What else do you love about Paris? Try... Her: I love Paris, it's so romantic You: Me too, but I feel like Venice is even more romantic
/r/seduction25/01/12 03:33 PM
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Another way to keep the conversation alive, as commented by sokipdx above, is non-evaluative listening.
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:38 AM
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Cawkpot had a similar question above, and rainman gave a great answer. Try asking open ended questions, which are pretty much any questions that cannot be answered with yes or no.
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:52 AM
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This is a better response. I forgot about open ended questions! How dare i!
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:51 AM
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I learned a few tips from when I used to be a smoker and then from when I got into pro-gaming. Twist a towel with both hands and squeeze it tightly for about 5 minutes Imagine someone's fingers going up and down a guitar neck. Do this with you fingers. Ever seen those videos on YouTube of people doing pen tricks? Twirl one around your fingers like this. The obvious idea is to get the blood flowing to your hands. When you give blood, the nurse will give you a squishy ball to squeeze for about 5 m…
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:43 AM
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"Wow, that was probably the most boring response ever. Let's try that again. [Say the exact same thing]." I'm sure there's something better that you could say. "I don't talk to boring people. 2 more strikes and you're out." Rainman's response is much better.
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:28 AM
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ARE WE DATING NOW?
/r/seduction23/01/12 04:05 PM
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No, he needs to delete that number and keep doing more approaches. He's not the most confident guy, and becoming outcome independent is an important step for him. There are plenty of women out there that he can "have a lot in common with". Deleting her number will do a lot of things for him and more importantly prevent oneitis in any form.
/r/seduction23/01/12 04:49 AM
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Delete her number. Go out again ASAP and play the game again.
/r/seduction22/01/12 09:16 PM
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You don't have a clue what you're talking about.
/r/seduction18/12/11 06:24 AM
1

Exactly. So why are you posting stupid shit in this subreddit? If you're going to contribute, don't be a tard.
/r/seduction17/12/11 06:38 PM
1

I'm sure you're a great PUA. How many times do you get laid a week? How many approaches do you do? Do you go out every night? Do you have anything to contribute to the art of seduction? Do you realize that you can go from being creepy to being irresistible in less than 10 seconds?
/r/seduction17/12/11 07:10 AM
1

I wasn't speaking about you. I know what you were saying.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:52 AM
3

Someone needs to lay the hammer down, and fast, because this shit will spread like a wildfire.
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:11 AM
1

What the fuck are you doing in Seddit?
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:10 AM
2

Great read, thanks.
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:29 AM
2

Looks like I found my part!
/r/seduction19/11/11 01:17 AM
5

So that's why your responses are so fuckin' long, hahahaha.
/r/seduction05/11/11 06:46 AM
2

...and has gigantic doe eyes... Careful, my boy. The crazy ones always have big eyes.
/r/seduction25/10/11 01:50 PM
4

Hahah, women are funny.
/r/seduction04/10/11 11:54 PM
2

Thanks to you guys, I'm going to watch a Bond movie.
/r/seduction04/10/11 11:44 PM
3

It sucks but it's done. You need to know when to hold them and when to fold them. Now is when you fold.
/r/seduction02/10/11 04:39 PM
1

Post this on AskSeddit.
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:59 PM
1

Try to work on your day game! It's an easy way to meet women consistently and constantly, and if you do it right it can improve your entire life.
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:15 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/seduction25/08/11 03:59 PM
1

Not old enough for drinks quite yet. Alternatives? Places that get us talking, yes?
/r/seduction25/08/11 01:35 PM
1

I'll try to do a FR. I know I wasn't being descriptive enough when I was describing it. In fact, I'm going to post a FR after this edit. I'm debating whether or not point two applies to a couple of them. I keep picking up IOI's from one who would bring up her BF in every conversation. I would not hit on her, I would stick to teasing and touching, and I definitely wasn't coming on too hard. I know that she's attracted to me. I also think that it could be point 4 as well. I think that point 4 appl…
/r/seduction25/08/11 03:24 AM
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I don't get it. Did you flirt with her before she told you she thought you were attractive or not? I consider flirting "a little" flirting. Negging is gaming, so I'm further confused. At first, I flirted but I did not hit on her. I didn't compliment (hit on) her at all until she complimented me first. And by flirting, I mean teasing her and maintaining playful contact. You never put them in a situation to cheat, yet you kissed one and cuddled with her. Who initiated said contact? If it is her th…
/r/seduction24/08/11 03:05 AM
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Thank you for your good advice. I've only recently been getting better at this so I was excited that what I was teaching myself was actually working and lost sight of my purpose for it all.
/r/seduction24/08/11 01:59 AM
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Paragraph 1: I actually didn't hit on her once until I got her to tell me she found me attractive. I would flirt a little, but generally just fuck with her and call her a loser. I interact with her on a day to day basis, and I don't deviate from what I would do normally instead of what I would do while around her, if that makes any sense. I know that you don't have to expect some thing out of every interaction and realizing that made me a lot more relaxed in life in general. Paragraph 2 & 3: I h…
/r/seduction24/08/11 01:31 AM
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Didn't know about askseddit. My bad.
/r/seduction24/08/11 01:18 AM
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I choose the girls I want to be friends with, but I know that the reason why I would be choosing to have that type of relationship would be because I want more out of it. Razqel's response helped out in determining what I should be focusing on when I pursue these relationships: For those new to seduction, you should define a female friend as someone who is either a) having sex with you, or b) helping you hook up with other people.
/r/seduction23/08/11 11:12 AM
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For those new to seduction, you should define a female friend as someone who is either a) having sex with you, or b) helping you hook up with other people. I will definitely be doing this. If I'm describing a female friend as either of these two things, then should I assume that I should not attempt to create a female friendship without either of these things or should I keep them primarily as such? I would not encourage you to make decisions out of fear. Some people (former AFCs) get hurt and d…
/r/seduction23/08/11 11:07 AM
1

Thanks for describing this to me in a way that makes perfect sense.
/r/seduction23/08/11 10:57 AM
2

Your values can be apart of your standards. I include my basic values into my standards. Humanity and the such, hahah.
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:01 AM
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A value would be some thing that fits my morals. I actually had to think about how to describe standards... But I would say that a standard is a norm that I would seek in a partner. I'm not entirely sure if that's what it is though so please correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/seduction22/08/11 03:34 AM
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Assume things are going to be OK, and do your thing. Up until this, I was thinking, "Ok, well what can I say to myself to get me to actually use this?" Thank you. This was the perfect line, and I'm definitely going to be using this as my mindset from this point on.
/r/seduction27/07/11 02:07 AM
1

Ok, I can agree with that. Not to play devil's advocate, but why do we have to call it "game" when we can really just attribute it to self esteem? There's a lot of things we can do to improve this. If you push yourself to do things that boost your self-esteem you will naturally become a better lover and a better person overall. And this doesn't have to just be in a relationship. If you push yourself to succeed, and you push yourself to be the best at things that are important to your life, and w…
/r/seduction23/07/11 12:45 AM
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You don't believe that there's a clingy man out there that has found a clingy woman, and they both love their clinginess together? You're describing the world in black and white. Jealousy is a bad thing? I'm generally not ok with another guy touching (and I don't mean shaking hands) some one I'm dating, I wouldn't be ok with that, and I would communicate that to her. Jealousy is a side effect, and sure, there's going to be some guys who get jealous at any thing, but there's normally some thing e…
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:56 PM
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