How should I go about breaking ice over snapchat?

KawnN · 2016-11-07T11:33:46+00:00

Well I have a friend who was in the similar situation like you. He met a girl in a club and he kissed her that night. He asked for her snapchat and ended the night. So what he did was not breaking the contact with her. He was sending some snapchat poctures only for her. Lets say he was in a party so he would send a picture or a small video. Then they would text a bit. I mean you should do something until she is into you and dont skip some flirting. Time will tell if she is interested. The best thing to do for you might be act as soon as possible while the iron is hot otherwise the chemistry will be forgotten if you dont do anything. Better screw up by trying than not trying at all.

TheXXL · 2016-11-07T09:24:23+00:00

things were a bit wild

So basically nothing happened? Be more precise next time, so we can help you put better.

She occasionally posts cute selfies and other stuff going on in her life

Isn't that the only reason to have this snapchat thing?

I really want to message her either text or picture but I'm so damn confused what to say or do.

I can tell you why you are confused ...

I obviously want the end goal to be her number.

... because you want her so much that you can't make a mistake. And this will be your downfall. You will make mistakes, and you are already. You try so hard to think of what to say to this girl, that you will not come off relaxed, and when she (notice that i don't say if) rejects you, you will feel heartbroken like hell.

So. You want to know how to surely get her number? There is no sure way. Keep that in your mind all the time. You might get rejected, and even more so if you are trying hard. Now, relax... tear down that pedestal you put her on, and text her something like: "hey girl, was a fun night and nice meeting you. I'd like to grab a coffee with you next week, when are you free?"

See how easy this can be? No tryhard shit, no over the top investment, no creepy befriending her first, then coming out as her admirer. The chance that she doesn't even remember you is pretty high, so be prepared of that. Happens to me too, and i don't sweat it. Also chances that she doesn't reply are also high, after all its just a stupid tool for teenage girls to get tons of attention from strangers. Next time, no excuses, go for the number.

If a girl turns you down, tries to give you any stupid social media contact, decline. She is politely rejecting you. Don't waste you time with this crap.

Alfred1844 · 2016-11-07T09:23:21+00:00

You don't. Snapchat? Really?

Title	How should I go about breaking ice over snapchat?
Author	n4woo
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	November 7, 2016 7:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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