How to approach with a severe stutter?

w0rst_case_0ntari0 · 2017-01-20T22:06:23+00:00

If you can't avoid it, embrace it. Just be upfront about it and be able to laugh at yourself. If you draw attention to it immediately when it happens then it won't be a big deal to anybody. It's kinda like walking into school with a giant zit on your forehead and you say to your buddies, "yea douche bags, I have a giant zit and I know it. Take a good look at it and let's move on." A stutter will only kill your confidence if you let it. Being open about it and being able to laugh at yourself in front of strangers about it will show some serious confidence.

revente · 2017-01-20T23:53:41+00:00

Own it! I usually pick up girls in danceclubs and guess what?- I sweat as a pig! Literally i look as if i was swimming with my clothes on. Does it stop me? No! Do girls make funny remarks at me? Yeah, i just know how to own it. For instance when ive met my ex of 4 years and she started to laugh how wet i was i just replied:

-I'm wet cause i've been dancing

-Haha i've been too but i'm all dry!

-You must be a lame dancer then.

-Hahaa nooo!

-Prove! - i sticked my hand out and dragged her to a dancefloor

Also i relly reccomend theatre or improv classes as these will help you manage stress tremendously.

2017-01-21T00:50:01+00:00

Try to avoid words that make you stutter. There is also a device you can use that looks like a walkman, it feeds back your own voice to headphones but slightly delayed, it eliminates stuttering entirely.

Overnight_Delivery · 2017-01-21T04:17:00+00:00

disassociate who you are separate from the stutter. Then if you see her noticing it then see yourself on her side separate from the stutter.

Title	How to approach with a severe stutter?
Author	Vorumm
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	January 20, 2017 9:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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